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Q: hey u kno how ppl have upside down question marks? an exclamation points! well i wasnt to kno how they turn them upside down i rate high thanks
hold alt 0191.. and there is a website for all that fun stuff-trix

Q: This might be a stupid question, but does it hurt to have sex? Do you bleed?

just wondering
I would think. I heard it does and that you do bleed. Your cherry is when you have sex and it pops.. like when you arent a virgin anymore

Q: ok so my best friend likes this guy and i was like o ok but i didn't know him. well tonight we hung out with him all night and now i think i like him!! is that a bad thing? and what should i do if he askes me out?
Well just talk to your bestfriend about this. Talk to her first then go ahead and decide. thats how you should go about most things-trix

Q: I'm turning 14 and im throwing a big guy/girl party. im just burning CD's for the party and i need some good dancing music. Can anyone list some really hot music to dance to including slow songs, rock, and hip hop/rap? i would really appreciate it. the list can be as long as you want!!! THANKS!!
do the top 10.. go to www.mtv.com or go to www.yahoo.com and click on music and go to top 100 or w/e and then go with those!! hope i helped! o btw happy birthday-trixxie!!

Q: okay well im 13/f and i accedeltally masterbated with out knowing it, at first i didnt know what i did but then i really started to enjoy it and do it to myself on porpose and i dont want to do it anymore but i dont no how to stop any help i rate high
it part of growing up-trixxy

Q: my bf and i hav been goin out for 2 months or so.then we started to not see each other. also w/ xmas break. but we hardly talk to each other. every1 says hes cheating on me. i dunno wat 2 do. anyway, other ppl says he still likes me. wat should i do?:/...
Talk to him. Me and my boyfriend didn't talk much during the x-mas break. I knew it was a busy holiday. So i just let it go. He said the same thing. We both agreed to ignore that though. I would talk to him. I haven't seen my boyfriend sense dec. 21st.. our 8 month anniversary. I havent really talking to him sense Mon. :( you just gotta talk to your boy!!-trixxy

Q: i'm 5'1 and i'm really short compared to my friends, its kinda embaressing since i use to be taller than most of them.. what can i do to grow taller? no pills or w/e
im 5'3.. thats not much of a diff. My friend KT is 4'10.. and she is almost 15.. well in april. No need to be ashamed. Then my other friend is 5'7.. and we are all either 15 or almost. It varies. You can wear tall shoes!!-trixx

Q: is 13 too young to get married. i mean yeah it is but like i mean if you really felt you were ready could someone marry u without a parents consent. or even with one
wHoA!! sLoW iT dOwN cOwGiRl!! You have your whole life ahead of you and you probably dont know if this is your real true love. Your only 13 and haven't expierenced yet. We aren't back in the times like Romeo and Juliet. Although.. thats a good story *emberrassed* anyways.. we arent back in them days!! :-P so just hold it off for now. I guess you could do the "engaged" thing or whatever. The we are getting married. Plan it when you are out of school. Highschool that is. ALot can happan trust me babe. Im 15 and i know for a fact i havent seen half my state. If you no wut im saying. GoOd LuCk!!-trix

Q: I have a crush on my good friend. i dont know what 2 do. he likes 1 of my other friend. im supposed to help him with her right? :/ i am confused...
Just let him be happy. Love sucks sometimes. but thats how it goes.. yeah its kinda gay :-\. Not very new news.. I know. Anyways just help them out and if they break up.. maybe move in a bit. dont rush to things. Sorry!! trixxie

Q: Im 14/f and lately ive been have a high amount of white discharge stuff. Ive had my period and stuff..but i don't know if this is normal..is it?? Plz Help!
yupperz!

Q: does anybody know if claire's store has a website? i'd really appreciate it. thanx ahead of time.
www.claires.com



Q: ok well i have sweaty armpit and i want it to go away i want to tell my mom but i dont now how to strike up a conversation..like hi mom i need to go to the doctor for my arm pits...what should i say??help please
It doesnt matter how you say it to her she will understand. Evan though you dont hear it very often.. its common. It happans and thats how things are in life. Its not always fair. Just tell her and she wont laugh or make fun of you. She'll take you & be with u every step of the way-trix

Q: eversince he started dating this slut, which my parents and his best friend totally disapprove of, he's been lying, having sex, and going out all the time. He barely talks to me, and he almost never buys me any food anymore. He's even telling me to lie to my mom for him. I do it anyway cuz I kno that he'll get seriously pissed at me

His girlfriend is a total gold digger and a skank, and they're probably just using each other for sex. I hate them both. I've been giving him the cold shoulder lately, but he hasnt been getting the message.

What should I do?
I have no idea. just talk to your mom about this. You cant really do anything. Its just your mom that can really try and put a stop to this-trixx

Q: my boyfriend asked me to marry him...i love him so much hes my world.... but i dont want to tell other people because i dont like being center of attention and im just not ready to tell the good news.... but in another way m boyfriend well fianca wants to tell the world abt it.... ive already told him what i thought and he says hes ok with it but he keeps bringing it up.... over and over again that he wants to tell everyone what should i do?
Well i dont think you are ready to be married. If you want to hide that then you arent ready thats like denying the relationship. Thats what marriage is about Love, honesty, and being with eachother until death do u guys part or whatever-trixxy!!

Q: hey i know you all know the feeling.. im bored out of my brains! im at work at the moment im filling in for someone as a receptionist on my school holidays.. im on the computer all day and i get REAL BORED does anyone know any entertaining sites that dont involve sound or sex..?
www.bored.com or www.funnyjunk.com

Q: Is it normal to be best friends with a girl you've known for half-a year?? This girl and I met in eighth grade this year, and I've become very attached to her. We're both best friends and we tell each other everything. We're like sisters. Is that normal to be this close after a short time??
Me and hannasch just met in 7th grade but like hated eachother and just started hanging out in june.. so we've only been hanging out for like 8 months.. and we are best friends. So its normal. nothing wrong with that-trixxy!!

Q: My boyfriends sick should I call him to cheer him up or should i talk to him tomorrow if hes in school?
Call him! Thats your baby thats sick!! Make sure to say get better!! -trixxy

Q: a year ago, i broke my tailbone.. it kind of hurts for me to do certain things now.. but can any of you tell me what will happen in the future because of me breaking my tailbone? if anything is going to happen.. i hear people saying i'm gonna have constant back pain but i wanted to make sure with everything.. thx
Well i dont have any idea how badly it was broken so i cant help you there. I've broken my right arm 7 times and my left 2.. so I am going to have pain in my right arm for like ever.. with extremely heavy weight. Just dont put to much pressure on it. And im sure there a pain killers you can get. Thats what i do. But just like advil-trixxie

Q: ok well my mom just went away. she goes away every january andlast year she almost drowned twice!!! so i had this dream a month ago and i woke up crying because i thought she was dead, and it took me a while, and i really mean a while, to figure out it was a dream cause i thought it really happened. and i keep having these day dreams of her dying. idk whats wrong. please help me cause i don't want to be like going up to my mom saying "can i see a psychiotrist,i keep having day dreams of u dieing." so psychiotrist is out of the question. please help!!

sry bout the length!
Its not to long compared to half them on here. So no need to apologrize! :-P... you dont have to tell your mom why you need counsoling. Just say things are getting overwhelming & you cant really take it. You just feel like you need to talk to someone. Professionaly. I did that with my mom. SHe said I dont have to explain why if i feel i need one then its important we get one-trixxie!! hope everything works out dollie!

Q: ok, my parents are divorced, i think all my friends talk about me and hate me, and i think my moms going to die!! whats wrong with me? sometimes i feel like cutting myself but i don't. i just think thats not how u solve things but i feel like doing it so mucch. my life is soooo screwed. canyou help??
You just think this? Or do you have proof like that might have given you this idea? You are just paranoid. Listen my rents split up. Then my step dad got sent to jail. So i lost a dad and a step dad. Now i have a new step dad. Yeah its hard. I know. Your mom is going to be okay. Just ask if you are healthy and ask if she is healthy. That way it isnt so obvious. Everybody thinks that there friends talk about them but that is usually when you are younger like in JR. high and doesnt happan as much in high school. Its good that you dont cut yourself and dont. Thats extremely terrible. Dont go there. Hunni everything will be okay. Just keep asking for advice and everything will be okay!! I promise! it might be a long journey but you will make it!!-trixxie

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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