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please tell me whats wrong with me!!!
ok well my mom just went away. she goes away every january andlast year she almost drowned twice!!! so i had this dream a month ago and i woke up crying because i thought she was dead, and it took me a while, and i really mean a while, to figure out it was a dream cause i thought it really happened. and i keep having these day dreams of her dying. idk whats wrong. please help me cause i don't want to be like going up to my mom saying "can i see a psychiotrist,i keep having day dreams of u dieing." so psychiotrist is out of the question. please help!!
sry bout the length!
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it's already been answered why you have these dreams, you're worried about your mom and not being able to see her again. Or maybe you're scared since she almost died twice. I can't say your dreams are going to go away because they might not, you need help to cope with your worries. You said you can't talk to your mom or see a phychiotrist, what about your school counciler? they are there for you every second of the day. Try asking them, they can help, your mom doesnt need to know and best part it's free! good luck, I hope you stop worrying!
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Hey, that's not that weird because I always have the oddest dreams about my mom too. Like she has an evil twin that wants to hurt me and that she turns into weird things or she becomes evil. It's just because you don't want her to die or leave and you need her in your life. Eventually your dreams will stop from coming back. This is called a reccurent dream and theres not much you can do to get rid of them. Of course you don't need a psychiatrist! You are perfectly normal, dreams don't reflect much about you so please don't worry hun! ♥
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your haveing these dreams because your mom almost drowned and its what you think about before you go to sleep ... its also because your mom is going away and you wont know whats happening with her all the time . there is nothing wrong with you ... if these dreams are really bothering you play some music when you go to sleep or read a nice book . if you really feel you need a psychiotrist's help then request to see a counslier at your school with out your mom haveing to know because they must keep what you say private ... you may even just want to join a club or like an art class to keep your self calm and not think about the subject all the time and your dreams might not be as bad ...
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i see. well its all in your head if you stop thinking about it the dreams will go away and there will be no more worries my friend :) HoPe I HelpEd buddy
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your just worried about your mom dying thats all, if one bad thing happened to her like you said she almost drowned twice, your worried that its going to happen again, and you dont want it to. maybe if you talked to your mom about what happened, you wont have these dreams anymore and youll realize everythings okay with your mom. i would think that its normal to have them, pretty soon they'll go away, dont get so paranoid hun. x0 Renee
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Its not to long compared to half them on here. So no need to apologrize! :-P... you dont have to tell your mom why you need counsoling. Just say things are getting overwhelming & you cant really take it. You just feel like you need to talk to someone. Professionaly. I did that with my mom. SHe said I dont have to explain why if i feel i need one then its important we get one-trixxie!! hope everything works out dollie!
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I think that your dreams mean that you arre obviiously concerned about your mom and her drowning again and her saftey. Its nothing to worry about. Dreams are really weird most of the time but can sometimes tell you messages or thoughts about things. What i think you should do if it is really on your mind (which it seems to be) is talk to ur mom and just say you want to see a therapist. Therapists are just for talking and can't prescrive you medicine like a pysciatrist can. You could talk to them about your concersns, i think that it isnt that big of a deal but that you are just worried about your mom. Hope this helps
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