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...BF PROBLEMS...
my bf and i hav been goin out for 2 months or so.then we started to not see each other. also w/ xmas break. but we hardly talk to each other. every1 says hes cheating on me. i dunno wat 2 do. anyway, other ppl says he still likes me. wat should i do?:/...
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hey, i think that you should talk to him about it. see what he says. and tell him what peeps r saying. dont accuse him of anything though. i mean he may not be. just talk to him
countryfan
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You should confront him about it, idiot.
If people say he's cheating- it may not be true.
But if you don't even talk to him much anymore, then you should've date him in the first place.
Confront him, and ask him if he is cheating- FIND OUT.
And if you can't/don't want to be together- then break up with him.
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talk to him and find out yourself? you guys shouuldnt be living though what other people say
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Confront him. Threaten that you will break up with him if he lies and even if he is cheating on you that you won't dump him. That should get the answer out of them. Then dump him.
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Charmed-Cherry21
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Talk to him. Me and my boyfriend didn't talk much during the x-mas break. I knew it was a busy holiday. So i just let it go. He said the same thing. We both agreed to ignore that though. I would talk to him. I haven't seen my boyfriend sense dec. 21st.. our 8 month anniversary. I havent really talking to him sense Mon. :( you just gotta talk to your boy!!-trixxy
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You definitely need to talk to this guy. There will be no real answer until you ask him yourself, and even then you should be cautious. Cheaters don't like to admit they are cheating, but I'm not saying this guy is cheating! There could just be a lot of gossipers at your school.
Wow, I just ripped off everything that was said by everyone else that answered this topic.
Redlion
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first of all, has any of those other people saw him cheating on you? or are they just saying that because they just "think" he is? if they've actually caught him red handed, then you should definitely cut your dude short. if not, you should talk to him about it anyway. if he's still being distant, then just break it off, because no one has time for bullshit and you deserve better than being bullshitted.
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The only thing that's gonna solve your problem is communication. To have a stable relationship communication is vital. Just talk to him, ask him why you guys haven't hung out that much and if he's been hanging out with anyone. Don't acuse him, just ask, asking can never hurt. If he gets mad at you for just asking why you haven't hung out then he's not worth it. A guy should spend his time with you, not every second of the day but at LEAST once a week. good luck, I hope you get this figured out!
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