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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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Well I was just talking to my boyfriend this was about our conversation.
Me: I think I'm gonna clean my room, if you're bored enough you can call if you want.
Him: im too bored to call

Is that possible, or do you think it was just an excuse..

i think it is an excuse. if you talk to him all the time maybe he wants to do soemthing else instead of all ways talking to you.. if iy is bothering you a lot ask him about it and maybe talk him about it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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if i use a chi straightener or the remmington wet to dry hair straightener, how long does the hair stay straight?

if you want it to last long my advice is to first blow dry it all completely make sure it isnt wet and then striaghten it.. it will last a lot longer. and it should stay striaght until you wet it or water humdity gets to it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok.. i have this friend, and she's been my friend ever since pre-k! i haven't been in her class for a while, and now i am. we've been hanging out a lot more often, and she gets really annoying!! please help! thanks!

i think you should talk to your friend and tell her how you feel. she might be just doing it because she is excited to be able to spend more time with you . hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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me and my parents are on the cingular family plan.. the 2 yr contract is up so were gettin new phone n all that soon. my mom didnt put text messaging on my phone before but now shes lettin me have it on the new one. shes psycho and gets detailed billing and checks who im talking to and when .. so my question is, does text messaging come up on the bill? like what number or screen name im texting n all that?

if you have cingular then YES it will show up but i know verizon does show up. i know thsi because my dad used to have cingular
hope this helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey! This is not a question but you're super hot!! I love your pic.

Advice Guy

lol.. thanks.. that put a smile on my face..

*~Stephanie~*

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14/f
okay well heres how it goes.. i really like this guy... and i mean hes noticed me and everything and were friends and i totally adore him... well once i was hanging out with him and his friends and they were all like "why dont you go lay down by your boyfriend" cause we were like all laying on the bed cause we were watching t.v. but anyways i was like hes not my boyfriend and my sister said the guy i liked made a really sad face.. so do you think i made a mistake saying that i just didnt want everyone to know i really liked him.. what should i do now.. i really dont know what to say i want to tell him i like him so how would i do that.. HELP*i rate*

this has happened to me recently. my current boyfriend be4 we started going out when ever i was on the phoen my parents or my sisters would be like "r u talking to your boyfriend" and i always said,"he isnt my boyfriend" he got said about it and thought i didnt like him. what you can do is try to explain to him that you do like him a lot maybe spend more time with him flirt a lot more with him.. stuff like that or what you can also do is write him a poem telling him how you feel about him or even a note will work. i hope this helps you out.. and if you need anyhting else feel free to drop it in my inbox and i will answer it..
*~Stephanie~*

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It's not that i need a boyfriend it's just i want one.
my ? is not gonna be how do i get a bf really fast. but how can i find someone who can be really special to me but as a friend first?
oh yea in my school
Thanks
15 yr old girl

i understand where your coming from you want a boyfriend to care about a guy who will say he loves you, someone to hold hands with, to cuddle up with, to feel loved with and be respected. what i think you should is go up to a guy you like and start talking to him and if you like his personality try becoming close friends and then maybe hooking up.. *remember to always be yourself** even though this wnt get you a boyfriend really fast it will be worth it, because if you can go up to any guy and aks them out and they can say yesbut they can also treat you like shit and they can just want one thing form you which is to get in your pants. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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ii went to a summer camp and met this guy... to keep a long story short, all we did was flirt and spend every min. with each other... we even kissed... ii really liked him... he gave me his number and it turns out he has a girlfriend... to him was it just a fling? please help ! btw im 14/f....

i think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and tell him it wasnt right what he did and if he still doesnt understand i think you should get over it because he really doenst sound worth it. for instance he goes out with you and goes to another camp thing and meets a girl and treats her like a fling do you think you can trusty a guy like that?? hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I wear a DD size bra. Like, does that make me fat? And do boys like boobs that r like, DD size? Is it common do wear DD, or is that like wayy huge. Please be serious nd just answer, i'll rate high

it is normal you probably got it from either your moms side of the family or your dads. if they do get bigger you might want to talkt o a doctor because they can cause back problems they wont make you look fat but you will wiegh more because they are made out of fat. and about guys liking them. it all depends on the guy. my boyfriend doesnt like them big beacause he says you cant hug a girl with big boobs because they will be all in your face and it is like suffacating the girl...lol.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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13/m. me and my girlfried have been going out for about a year. But we have never really done anything like even go to the movies!!!! So yah. This is all because she wont tell her parents about us. Im not at all a bad kid. Im pretty good looking, good grades, never got suspended, nice, ect. I'm getting a little tired of this b/c i want to be able to do stuff with her. should i dump her and move on? or should I stay with her? Why wont she tell them? I no its not b/c her parents think she is too young, and she has like a really good relationship with her parents. What should i do? Stay? or go? Please help!!!! I RATE HIGH!!!

i think you should talk to your girlfriend about this first i mena maybe she has a reason to do what she is doing.. tell her how you feel. and about the movie thing.. that is werid.. i mean i am 14 and i got a boyfriend of 2 months and my parents dont want me havin a boyfriend but i still have have went to the movies with my boyfriend and went to the mall. just talk to her about it. unlkess u want to throw a years worth of effort all away because you made the mistake and not have talked to her about it... you got o listen to what she has to say and why she hasnt told her parents about her having a boyfriend there has to be a reason why.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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my launch video player isn't working anymore. MTV.com videos aren't either. And the music on people's xangas. IS this only happening to me?
help!

the music videos work for me but what you can try to do and see if it works is either turn your internet off and then turn it on again or restart your computer. hope this helps you out. if not then i am sry.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hi. I just uploaded a new picture on my advice column. In the corner it says "vampirefreaks.com" Is this allowed? Because that is the only picture I have of myself.

Thanks ahead of time.

BTW If you need to see my user name is X_Amanda_X

dont worry about it i dont think they care because there is no were that it says that you cant have it on. if it is bothering you then edit it with painshop and reupload it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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my boyfriend and i are in a long distance relationshiip i love him and he says he loves me neither one of us wanted to fall in love with the each other but we are the thing is though sometimes i have doubts about our relationship and wanna call it off but he said he'd be dissapointed and hurt if i did i don't wanna hurt him nor do i wanna lose him i just want everything to be right between us, he is a great guy so what should i do when i start to doubts about our relationshipsor his love

OMG i know how you feel i am in the same sistuation and i have been with my boyfriend for a month and i have only seen him twice and sometimes i am scared that i am nto with him that he gets a tmptation and that he will cheat on me. what you have to do is just believe and trust him that he wont cheat on you and you need to believe that he loves you....** Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.** you need to keep your head up and think of the positives. hope this ehlsp you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hello...
im 13/f and my friend was over at my house today and i showed her this site and she wanted an advice column. i told her that she was to young (shes 11) and she got really mad. so my question is:
why doesnt this site allow anyone under 13 to be a columnist?

will rate

it is because already a lot of kids at a young age know about a lot of stuff they shouldnt noe about and on this site there are some sexual questions and answers that arent meant for people that age to be learning about. http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=84

hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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my period is mroe of a purple color not red....is that normal? plz help! i rate high!

yes that is normal.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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my best guy friend and i have been friends for 10 years. recently we went kayaking together to a private beach thing. he was being really flirty and being extra nice to me, showing off and was acting all weird. he's never acted like this before. my other best friend thinks he likes me, but I'm not sure. If anyone could has an opinion on this it's definitely appreciated. Thanks

i think he likes you. you shopuld talk to him nd ask him and then mayeb if you want to hook up with him. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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If yur on the 1st day of yur period, but yur flow is just normal, not heave and not light, can yu go swimming w/o a tampon? Like is there anything yu can use or do to go swimming w/o a tampon. Dont talk about how easy to use and comfortable tampons r, thats not what i care about. Plees help, i rate high

i think if you want to go swimming then you should wear one.. it saves you embarrsement and letting you feel uncomfrontable. i think you have to choices 1) go swimming with a tampon or 2) not go at all.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanhie~*

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ok this is more of a question for the guys...but mabe the girls can answer it too

why do guys lie?!?!

i have a guy friend and hes awesome! but he ALWAYS tell me he loves me and i KNO hes lieing...he tells every girl he loves her...and he goes out with every girl...and cheats on every girl

i kno ALL guys dont do this...but i just wanna know why some do

a guy lies because he basically know how to get a girls hearta and then get what he wants from a girl which is usualy sex and then leaves not giveing a crap.. that is just how MOST guys are.i personaly think your case he just might love you as a friend and cares about you. i dont think it si because he wants to be with you he just has strong feelings for and might think of you as his sister.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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hi im having a problom , i had a gf all summer during camp and the last day she dumped and she said she really loved me. what do i belive?

this girl is full of bullshit. (not to be mean or anything) because if you love some one soo much then you wouldnt leave them for distance or becuse it is summer or because school starts. you dont even leave them for nothing because you care abotu them to much to let them go. so if i were you i would forget about this girl and move on. hope this ehlps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey.This is just a question. I'm doing a servey about how many guys on here like heavier girls... so, yea, just all guys let me know. Thanks!

i am not a guy but i am proud to say that my current boyfriend and my ex looked past my looks . well fuck my ex but my current boyfriend thinks size doesnt matter. guys these days dont always look at personality.. for instance my ex i meet online then meet up with him only talked to me because he loved the way i looked but then he started lookin more about who i really am not what i looked like. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanei~*

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