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ok so i've been told ure pretty good at givin advice... so ill ask ya. ok heres the scoop: this girl i like really likes me but she says if we go out then we'll end up breaking up to soon bc of the "changes" she claims will occur if we go out. and if we break ,according to her, we wont be friends anymore. the whole idea is confusing but PLEASE HELP ME!!!

- confused one

If this girl is scared of changes then you need to assure her that nothing bad will happen. Sure changes happen all the time, but who says change is always a bad thing ?


You need to reasure your friend that if you two do end up breaking up (which almost everyone does) that you guys will still be friends. Yes. sometimes after a break up remaining friends is hard.. sometimes its worth the fight.


haha, and if you ask the question once.. it still gets anwsered :]
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Ok, my problem is a little complacated, and i herd that you were good at answering them so...yeah. My problem is that i have 2 friends that are fighting with each other, one of them i like a lot, and i wanna ask that person out, but i am secouned guessing this b/c i dont want to hurt my friendship with the other. So what im tryin to say i guess is that should i ask 1 of my friends out, or should i not because of my other friend? PLEASE HELP!!!!!

WORRID CHILD

Worried Child-


If you like this one friend, then ask them out. If friend #2 is really your friend they won't get mad. If they get mad at you, because of the way you feel about someone, then they arn't really your friend to start with. You can't control who you like, you're not sopose to.. so if friend #2 gets mad at you.. then you don't need a friend like that.


If you still fill worried about it, then talked to friend #2, explain to them that you are thinking of asking out friend #1. Tell them you are still going to remain friends, even if friend #1 and #2 are fighting.


Good luck, hope this helps.. if you need more help just leave it in the INBOX. :]
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im gay and ppl make fun of me 4 it should i try saying im not gay or just go with who i am

I think you already asked this one, but I'll anwser it in a different way.

Be who you are. People who make fun of you because you are differnt from them.. are stupid and need to grow up fast. They are not pefrect, everyone is different. Just be your self.. be proud to be gay, because if you weren't then who would you be ?
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im gay and kids r starting 2 make fun of me should i try 2 hide the fact that im gay or just b who i am ?

Be who you are, and be proud. Who cares what people say about you.. they are stupid and need to grow up. Be proud that you're gay.. and if someone says something about you, or to you.. ignore them. They don't know you. If your friends start to say stuff to you, then they arn't really your friends now are they ? So like I said.. Be who you are, and be proud of it.. beacuse if everyone else is already taken.. so who would you be ?
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ok there is this friend (who is a guy and i am a girl) and he is so funny! but latley he has been calling me so we can hang out. And he keeps on saying on how much me loves me. I think he means it in a friend way but im not sure. And I had a dream when me and him were going out and it did not freak me out. Do you think i like as more then a friend or not? Anyone who can answer this is amazing!!!! I would love help!

It seems like you do, & if you relize you do.. then honey go for it. Girls always get crushes on their guy friends, even if it's just for one day.
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Hey babe!! Hannah I looked at yo other profile...it said you were ummm what do you call it...banned. lmao! Its been a long time since I've been on here. lol..well just stopping by and saying hi..love ya!!


Liz

Ha, yeah.. thanks !! Love ya too.
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okay so i gave my girl friends the one eyed angry pirate i dont know know if your familure with it but its when: your fucking a girl in the ass and you spit on there back and then she thinks you came on here back. but when she turn around you pop her and the eye and kick her in the shin and she chases u around holding one eye hopping on one leg. so she all mad at me fore it and i wanted to know if i should forget her and fin somone else or aplogise. thanks

Oh yeah, you're cool. aplogise.. I guess.
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somebody spread a rumors that im bi please help what should i do? i was just playing around my friends all the time and i dont know why some people spread the rumors about im biosexual 100% straight!! help

Rumors are what people think of you. Not who you are. Don't worry about them. People say stuff about other because they like the reaction the person makes when they hear what’s being said about them. Rumors are stupid and basically pointless... people who listen to them. Obviously have no other kind of life, and worry too much about yours. Don't worry about it. It will go away. And eventually the person, who started it, will get a life.
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Hey. So, I got into a fight with my best guy friend. And, we were yelling at each other over Aim...the thing is, i tried apologizing, and he was like why are you being all nice now etc. But, i wasnt the one that should have apologized,because only 1 thing was my fault. and he misunderstood it. My friend stays mad, at things...i dont want this to ruin our friendship...any advice?

You told him you were sorry, and he didn't take it. Instead he was still rude aboout it. You apologized about your one mistake. You sould try to talk to him again. Explain to him that it was a total misunderstanding,.. and that he simply just misunderstood what you were saying. If he is you BEST guy friend, then he will forgive you, and won't stay mad. Just try once again to explain to him, tell him how sorry you are, and that you don't want to hurt your guy's friendship.

Once again, you told him you were already sorry.. reitterate yourself. Tell him again and again that you are truly sorry.. that the whole thing was a total misunderstanding.. I don't see why he wouldn't forgive you.. if you and him are such great friends. If he doesn't forgive you then you weren't as great as friends as you thought. Just try to work things out.. things will work out in the end.
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would it be weird to talk to your dead grandmother portait about things? cause i know a friend that does it and it helps her or something

No, it would be the same as talking to an animal. They don't talk back. She probablly does it, beacuse it helpes releave stress. She can talk about her problems without having to worry about them being told. It's totally normal.
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yeah .. okay so well like i like this guy and he really likes me too .. but theres this other guy who REALLY likes me and i like him and i mean i feel bad for liking two guys at once ya know and i just dont know what i should do !

I think I might know who this is, but I'll sHh.


It's not your fault if you like someone more. You can't control who you like and to what extent you like them,.. you're not sopose to. You should talk to the guy who REALLY likes you, and explain to him. Explain to him that you're sorry that you don't see him in that way as much as the other guy. You guys are (probablly) young, he can find someone who likes him ALOT.


Sure, you feel bad, but you shouldn't. You didn't do anything wrong. You like someone ALOT, just like how that one guy likes you ALOT. Everyone does that. Things will get better, but you are NOT doing anything wrong.. so please.. DO NOT feel bad about it, and if someone tells you are.. stll them to stfu, because they don't have a clue.


Just talk to the one guy.. explain that.. he can't control his amount of feelings for you,.. and you can't control your's about both of the guys eather. If he is a smart guy (which I think, if I'm right) then he will listen to you, and respect you anwser.


Good luck honey. Leave one in the INBOX if you need more help !

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if a guy you are making out with puts his hands on your boobs like ONTOP of your shirt, not under it, is that sexual harrasment or assault? what if while youi were making out he put his hands in the back pocket of your jeans and squeezed your butt? is that harrassment? thanks so much!

If you told him to stop.. then yes, but if you didn't tell him not to.. then it's not.. sorry.

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When you shave are you supposed to shave the upper part of your leg too? I never have because the hairs are so light you can notice...but are you supposed to?

It's totally up to you. The hair up there is ligher then the hair down lower. I shave all of my leg.. it just depends on the persons hair amount.
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So, I gave my boyfriend a handjob and after I did it he had to "adjust himself." He didn't cum, but I am worried about precum. He fingered me after that and ahh I am all paranoid that I could be pregnant. What are the chances that I am?
Thanks.

no chances are super slim.
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k, i know if 13 but i WANT bigger boobs, i hate waiting! i'm always being called 'flat' and i hate it, can i eat something or do something to make them bigger without stuffing or implants?!

I know, waiting sucks, but I'm sorry to say.. there isn't anything you can do to make them grow faster. Don't worry one day you'll get them.. and you'll hate them..


untill then.. you can try push-up bras, they will help make them seem bigger, and you can try V-neck shirts.. they help make them seem bigger too... good luck

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i put lemon juice in my hiar, and it says to lay out in the sun or blow dry it to make it "lighten" but would it give me the same effect if i straightened with with a wet-dry stragithener?

Yup, good luck :D

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i do not understand why everyone is always saying "don't have sex" all i hear from teachers now is "sex will ruin your life, it hurts you, its horrible, don't do it, you'll regret it, yada yada yada" um, you wouldn't be here if it weren't for your parents having sex. teachers shouldn't say this. it is actually a great thing if you do it at the right time. i think they should tell us the disadvantages of having sex when you are young, not just in general NOT HAVING SEX. is there a reason why people tell us this?

I totally agree. I think it's stupid how all they tell is that stuff.

I don't understand why they don't teach it in a more real way. So what, they can tell us not to have it all they want, but someone out there is going to have it, and while there in there teaching that load of bull, someone could be getting a STD; all because the teacher couldn't teach about condoms and birth control, and stuff like that.

They tell you that to try to scare you, to try to scare you into NOT having it, when we all think its bologna.

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what kind of dog is on that commerical that says "They may be bugs on some of you mugs but they ain't no bugs on me" I really want that dog that sings it cause its soo cute do you know waht kind it is?

It's a yellow lab, there are also brown ones. I think it's a really quite dog !

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