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rumors??!!!!
somebody spread a rumors that im bi please help what should i do? i was just playing around my friends all the time and i dont know why some people spread the rumors about im biosexual 100% straight!! help
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Rumors are what people think of you. Not who you are. Don't worry about them. People say stuff about other because they like the reaction the person makes when they hear what’s being said about them. Rumors are stupid and basically pointless... people who listen to them. Obviously have no other kind of life, and worry too much about yours. Don't worry about it. It will go away. And eventually the person, who started it, will get a life.
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Gossip is definately a bitch, but don't worry, the rumors will die down. In the meantime, if people come up and ask you if your bi, correct the rumors. Also tell your friends that if they hear anything, to stop the rumors as well. That way, people will be so confused they will stop.
Hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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haha woah. same thing happened to one of my best friends. people will get over it, and yeah just say that they have no clue what they're talking about. everyone plays around with their friends... and like boob grabbing and stuff. but people take it the wrong way. so just try to make sure they know you're not.
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Just don`t listen to them the more they know you care the more they will make you mad.Just ignore it and go on with life.
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you're giving people too much power over your life. what people say about u shouldnt effect you this much. don't worry. let it roll off your back. you probibly have something that the person who spread the rumor is jelous of . don't let haters get to you. don't worry. the rumor will fade. u know that you're no bi so it doesn't matter what they think. $JAZZIEPINK_09$
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Ignore the gossipmongers and get on with your life. Todays gossip is yesterdays old news and it will all go away. If someone actually mentions it to you just tell them that you don't listen to gossip and have no reason to believe what is being said. We have all been subjected to gossip in one form or another and as you get older you realise it can't actually hurt you unless you let it. Don't worry about what is being said and trying to defend yourself will just carry it on. Tell them to get a life. I wish you all the best.
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Well unfortunately with rumors you don't have much control of them...but the good thing is they usually fizzle out with some time...unless you happen to keep validating the rumors. I suggest you be a bit more mindful of how you might be portraying yourself. What might seem like a joke to you, can be perceived differently to others. Sexuality is controversial in itself in most areas. It is possible that with your joking, it might have made someone else feel uncomfortable and thus is how the rumor began. I am not saying in any way that they are right in doing what they do...but those are the rules of social interaction. Sometimes we have to adjust our behavior...luckily with rumors...there is always a learning curve.
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Rumors are nasty, and they're most often used for revenge. Many people who hear the rumor will spread it around and not even believe it. If you don't let it phase you, then it will probably go away quickly because it's intended to bother you. If it doesn't bother you, there's no point to spread rumors anymore. Besides, the person who started the rumor is probably a f***ing homophobe with nothing better to do.
I've joked around with my friends just for the sake of grossing out a guy that was homophobic, and it can be damn fun! =P
Take care! ^_~
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