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all my freinds are like super depressed and im starting to catch it to. so i tryed to cheer them up and guess what they seem to hate ME now what should i do. (link)
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dont let them get to you Be happy =] Smile it helps do something you love. - helen
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hey every one im 16/m
well i wonted to know how can i stop a girl from likeing me i have tryed every thing from acting stupid but its not working at all she follows me to class every day and i dont wont to be mean but i dont wont her by me at all but tha bad thing about it is she wont say nothing at all all she will do is wave so i dont kno can some one plz tell me what to do (link)
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just be forward and tell her that although she is nice and you like her as a friend you have romantic feeling for another girl (even if thats a lie) keep me posted -helen
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There's this girl I'm interested in annd I plan on taking her out on a date buut I dont know where to go! I want to take her to dinner and go do something that is interactive, which allows us to talk and get to know eachother (unlike a movie where you just sit there...).
I want to make our first date incredible and I really want to impress her. I met this girl in first grade and when we graduated into Jr. High our paths went seperate directions. we've seen eachother a few times randomly over the years but it wasnt untill this year that she transfered to my highschool that we've truly reconnected. I dont know why I care so much about impressing her, its weird because Im normally not that way.
Any and all ideas/suggestiosn would be greatly abpprecitaed!
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ok well you should take her to play lazer tag or something that she wouldnt expect .. do things that will make her smile compliment her bring her flowers (roses are best) be sweet and listen to her
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Ok,well my g/f has this guy friend who she went out with for 6 months beafore going out with me (we've been going out for over a year),she never use to hang out with him at all,well we've had problems with me and her mom so we cant exactly be together atm and all of a sudden she decides to start hanging out with him and all his freinds again.ok,they went to a concert,and they are jus to close for my comfort.She had told me not to hang out with my close girl friend and i havent i told her him and she did anyways.needless to say,i kinda hated her guts .I told her choose and she went off and started screaming in my face and i freaked out cus i have major anger issues and she knows this but she likes to make me mad anyways so we had a big argument and i told her choose or im leaving you for good so she called him and talked to him about it cus she said "i dont want him to hate me"and told me that he sugested that "they not hang out anymore" i dont know what to think,am i over reacting, i mean what would you do? please help me. (link)
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i had the same problem but reversed and it was REALLY bad in the end but i doubt that we could have the same problem .. she is probly just trying to have fun to keep her mind off not seeing you! she loves you and remember shes YOUR girlfriend not his. maybe she just wants to be friends with him like they were before they went out. remember shes with you.. write back if you need =] keep me posted -helen
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i recently got raped by two boys unprotextive.
and now "down there" itches like crazy and instead of discharge there is little black dots in it.
please
14/f
help and my parents hate me i cant talk to them to get help like doctors or anything..
WHAT IS IT??
WHAT DO I DO?
do i have a diesese!?
aids etc.
please help me (link)
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whether or not your parents hate you you have to tell them that you were raped .. trust me =[ and you need to get in touch with the police! and then go to the doctors or the hospital
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OKay, so about....3 or four weeks ago i slept with a guy...at a party. We used protection, and he didnt actually...'come'
but, ive now skipped my period...its like a week late and i am really worried i am pregnant. should i give it a few more days...or should i take a test and find out?
Also, if i am pregnant...what can i do? do abortions cost money?
thank you so much for your help
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yes it does cost money and in most states you need parental consent first. you should get a test after about 2-3 weeks because sometimes your period can just be out of wack.
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K this is a serious question but my periods ALWAYS beeen messed up but like 2 monthes ago i slept with this guy and he asked me if i was on birth controll and i said no .. and he didnt wear a condom .. but he pulled out in time .. and he said he even did .. but i havnt yet got my period and im a little freaked out weather im pregnant or not .. and I dont have money to buy a pregnancy test ? .. do you think im pregnant just from those sings and is it possible that i could be pregnant if he pulled out but he still wasnt wearing a condom ??? please help me ASAP???? (link)
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yes there is a chance you could be pregnant .. if you have no money for a test than ask a friend, a VERY good friend that you trust to borrow the money for one! do not wait to take a test but then again you may be freaking yourself out.
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everyone always says that you should be totally comfortable before you have sex, and that if youre nervous youre not ready.. but then people always say youre gonna be nervous your first time. so how can you tell? (link)
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when you are in love and you are totally comfortable with your boyfriend/girlfriend than you wont be nervous about the decision to have sex .. you will be nervous about the experience but not your choice
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hey!!!
Thanx you are really really nice. Sorry ut I am just not thinking right now but what state is MA? But anyway thanx... I am from Ohio.
Thanx again for helping me. If you don't mind, how old are you, i am 13 (link)
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im 16 and im from Massachusetts. thanks for saying im nice =] and anytime i liked helping you were the first person i helped on this website - helen
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I really like this guy at work and hes realy funny, but i cant tell if he likes me back, i mean, i try to give him signals but i think he's like dumb or something, what should i do to let em know i like him? (link)
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first things first .. boys are absolutely 100% oblivious to everything suttle you need to be upfront. plus some guys think its a turn on =]
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I love my boy friend a ton. we have been together for a year & 10 months as of today. I am now a senior in high school.my boy told me a few weeks ago that when we go to college we will completly break up kas he doesnt want to do the long distance thing when we r only 45mins away.
last saterday i met this other guy nick & gave him my number. with my boys approval i went to the movies w. nick & his friends. then my boy started getting all mad at me and throwing fits. we got in a fight yesterday and almost broke up. then today i told him i wanted a break kas i wanted 2 see nick again, also because of the break up thing, & some other small reasons. my boy was really upset and im afraid i made the wrong choice by wanting a break? please tell me what u think.. im so upset and confused. my boy is my best friend & i love him very much but i kinda wanna see whats out there... is that wrong? (link)
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no its not wrong to want to experience other things and people although if you told him the reason you wanted a break was because you wanted to see nick then he could get the idea you cheated on him. im not assuming that at all because ive been in your situation but we didnt go on a break i kept my boy .. but we havent been together as long (1 year 3 months) if you like nick them be friends with him dont let your boyfriend keep you from your friends .. thats really unfair that he said he wants to break-up at the end of the year .. thats unfair and pointless. i think you should have a SERIOUS talk with him about everything! =] hope i helped
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female, 15 - Boyfriend = 18 (Dating for 1 year)...anyways..
I'm going to try and explain my problem the best I can. - When I masturbate, I can always get myself to cum..but when my boyfriend does it, I can't. Even if he's doing it right,..i still can't cum. Every now and then he will cause me a little pain though because I'm a virgin and he's digging his fingers into me too hard. Sometimes I can get really close, but then it just kind of..dies..i don't know how to explain..
Is there something I might be doing wrong? (link)
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there cant be anything you are doing wrong because hes doing it not you .. but u have to tell him what you like .. and dont forget to let him know that when you are close u can lose that in like 3 seconds flat .. guys can pick up where they left off while girls cant so yeh it sucks for us =]
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soo me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex for the first time soon. it will be my first time, but not his. what do i need to know? (link)
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well first make sure you are ready
and you have to know it probably will hurt
for some it hurts more for others not so much
dont expect too much lol .. =] and just make sure
that you are both safe .. use protection
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i'm making a list of 365 songs for my boyfriend while he's away at his group home thing... its a thing for our one year and i've got 122 but i can't think of any more. does anyone know any more songs i could add to the list? (link)
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i looking at my itunes as i write this-
aerosmith-dont wanna miss a thing
aslyn-thats when i love you
christina aguilera-save me from myself
edwin mcain-ill be and these are the moments
gavin degraw-more than anyone
jojo-weak and butterflies
joss stone-understand
hope i helped a little bit =]
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Hey!!!
I have a question, again, again(sorry) tomorrow is Thursady for me and I really want to let him no. How do I tell him I like him. His birthday is Friday just incase that helps. But I would really like to go out with him. But is it okay if girls ask boys out.
signed,
confused about boys (link)
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of course its alright if a girl asks a guy out .. it surprises them and for some its a turn on that a girl can take charge =] maybe make him a birthday card and inside the card tell him u like him its cute and sweet .. ps its thrusday for me too im from MA
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Hey, its me agian. I am soory to bother you but I need help please. The thing is is that I am 12 years old and me friends are not going out with anyone yet. See I really like this guy. And he flirts with me everyday. But I don't know if it is a really good friend flirt or I want to go out with you flirt. How can I ask him if he like me without saying "Hey JS, Do you like me"? Please help me (link)
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its alright .. anytime u need me go ahead and message .. well i think that you need to kinda let him know you like him .. tell one of his friends and hint to him =]
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hey!!! I need help!!!! There is this guy I like at school. He is really cute, sweet and funny. Everything that a girl wants right. Well here is the problem... he is a popular jock and I am popular but not like him. But here is the thing.. I think that he likes but he wont admit it. I have tried everything to clue him in that I like him. What should I do??? PLEASE HELP!!!
*thank you so much in advance* (link)
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do you have any mutual friends? because if you do then you could make plans with all of you to go out sometime and when your out try to get some alone time with him and tell him you like him. its better to tell him than to wonder.
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does any1 know any good movies (link)
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where the heart is
a walk to remember
center stage
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I cant afford the costume thingy at the store. It's like $60.
So I was wondering if someone can help me put something together for Queen Of hearts.
pictures and what store [website] it's from.
I want to do a red and white/black colored costume.
-- is there any cheap pretty red dresses?
I've been looking on some few sites.. but I'm not that into fashion so I'm lost. (link)
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i know this is kinda weird but go on ebay and search for costumes its cheap .. message me if u need info about how to use ebay!
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16/f
ok so this has never happened to me... I'm not one to act like this AT ALL.
I have the most amazing boyfriend(17) ever. He is perfect for me in every way.
I think about him every second of the day and at night.. I stay up for 2-3 hours thinking about him. Whenever I don't see him for a few days I miss him so much I cry (sad, I know).
Sometimes he'll drive across town just to see me for 10 minutes then, 1 minute after he leaves he'll call me just to tell me he misses me.
Every time I'm with him everything seems to fit just right (like a puzzle, he says). We are so comfortable with eachother it's unreal. I feel like I've known him forever even though we've only been dating a few months.
(he told me he feels the same about me)
What's going on with me? I feel like I'm going crazy! (link)
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your in love
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