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Boy Troubles
hey!!! I need help!!!! There is this guy I like at school. He is really cute, sweet and funny. Everything that a girl wants right. Well here is the problem... he is a popular jock and I am popular but not like him. But here is the thing.. I think that he likes but he wont admit it. I have tried everything to clue him in that I like him. What should I do??? PLEASE HELP!!!
*thank you so much in advance*
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Same here.I mean,my guy is in the 8th grade and i guess you would call him popular.So think about what your heart tells you to do.Does it tell you to tell him how you feel?or does it tell you to wait.Here is something that can kinda make you feel beter.My dad says that tommorow that what you wish will come true or what you think will come true.So just hope he doesn't care that you are not popular and let fate handle the rest.Hope this advice helps you.Victoria215.
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do you have any mutual friends? because if you do then you could make plans with all of you to go out sometime and when your out try to get some alone time with him and tell him you like him. its better to tell him than to wonder.
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Are you friends with him? Do you know what he's like? Does he know what you are like?
If you answered no to any of those questions, then why would you consider putting yourself into a relationship with him? To learn more about him? I thought thats what friendship was for.
Be his friend and get to know him first. I'm only saying those things because it seems that too many people 'like' somebody first then try to get to know each other as they try to get a relationship going out of it. Sorry if you really do know him.
Keep it safe and learn everything you can about him and about any other guys that you might come across in the future - it will save you a lot more hurt in the long run, trust me. Just be his friend, even if you do like him. Things might show up that would surprise you and suddenly lose interest in him. You don't have to confront him and say "I want to be your friend", just make it happen. Easier said than done, I know...but I'll leave you up to that one.
If you've done everything you can to clue him in that you like him, it's obviously not working. Any idea how flattered we are when a girl tells us they like us? Makes most guys feel great. So why try to hint it off and play the guessing game. Our thoughts: does she like me? is she serious? is she just flirting? what does she want me to do? am i making this all up in my head? etc. So really, be straightfoward and really, just flat out saying it in conversation is not a bad idea at all.
If you can be open with him before things start and vice versa, then that shows a lot. So talk to him. Be friends with him. Get to know him. Let him know about yourself. Let him know that you like him. There are no short cuts, just be a really good friend. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Now, I usually dont think GIRLS should ask out the boys... I always thought that BOYS should ask out the GIRLS.... But thats just me.... but..... If you dont think he's getting the hint, then you should probably try asking him out. If you think he like you, then go for it! Theres no reason NOT to like you! You are an awesome person! Im sure he really likes you, even if he dosnt admit it.
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