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I cant tell if he likes me!
I really like this guy at work and hes realy funny, but i cant tell if he likes me back, i mean, i try to give him signals but i think he's like dumb or something, what should i do to let em know i like him?
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first things first .. boys are absolutely 100% oblivious to everything suttle you need to be upfront. plus some guys think its a turn on =]
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Oh those cute dumb guys...they are everywhere! Well, you are going to have to be obvious if he is not taking the hint. This means telling him you kinda like him. I know it is scary, so decide if he is worth it, first. Also, make sure he is not trying to ignore your signals, because he is not interested. That would make you the dummy! We don't want that!
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Well first I should say that he's probably not dumb, most men actually aren't as dumb as we women think they are. He may be picking up on your signals and misreading them. To let him know you like him (without directly telling him) you could maybe take interest in his life out of work, ask him what he likes to do.. does he play sports.. what does he like to do on the weekends, maybe you'll find a common interest and he may just insist that you guys have to hang out.. to be able to tell that he likes you, if you don't know some of the flirtacious behaviors; the stares and glances he gives you but thinks you don't notice, he may try finding ways to touch you, he might tease you, and other little things. Flirting hasn't really changed from when we were little, if he throws tanbark at you and chases you around the playground, he likes you. Hope things work out && best of luck! -Angel
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Lol, he's not dumb ( I hope not ). He's just a guy, guys can rarely ever pick up signals that a girl likes them, or whenever they think they're getting signals from a girl ; they're not. It's just the way they work, lol.
Just try and up the anty a bit more. Flirt alot and make it slightly more obvious so he can catch on a bit more. And just compliment him and pay alot of attention to him and maybe even poke him or tickle him just to joke around and tease him. Sometimes it takes a little more obviousnesss to show someone just how much you like them. Just don't do it so much, you're like, hanging all over him, you know? Lol.
If he likes you:
-stares at you alot
-stares and then when you turn to look, he turns away
-smiles at you alot
-is alwyas wanting to talk and hang out
-sits close to you
-face turns red
-finds ways to touch you ; tickling,poking,nudging,hugging
-compliments you
-teases you
If he does some of those things, then he might! :)
I hope I helped.
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