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my freinds are all depressed and are refuseing my efforts to
all my freinds are like super depressed and im starting to catch it to. so i tryed to cheer them up and guess what they seem to hate ME now what should i do.
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dont let them get to you Be happy =] Smile it helps do something you love. - helen
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If all your friends are super depressed all the time hon., it's time to get new friends. Friends that will influence you for the better.
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Ack, I have these same situations sometimes. They know you mean well and everything and that you want to cheer them up, but I've just learned that if they're not cheering up and they're just starting to get more pissed off, leave them alone for a bit and let them cool off.
Whenever you're first talking to them, and they seem upset over something, just ask them what's going on and everything and let them bash out on you because releasing their frustrations'll help them feel much better.
Then just let them know,"Well, I'll leave you to yourself for a bit so you can think or whatever so just IM me later or give me a call whenever you want to talk, alright? I hope you feel better soon." And just leave it to them whenever they're ready to talk to you or not, so then whenever they do call, you also know they're not going to be all snappy and upset and whatnot.
I hope I helped.
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Its your friends problem not yours. If theyre going to get you down leave them because depression is one of the hardest things to get out of. If youre realy worried about them tell someone or try to do something to help them
good luck
kim
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