Hey, sorry if this is in the wrong category, but I wasn't sure what to put it in.
Well, to start things off, I'm very self conscious. I think I am fat & ugly & just not a cool person.
Last night, I was at the pool & I was wearing a bikini. There were two of my guy friends there & one of my girl friends. I started feeling really self-conscious & I sat on the step of the pool [still in the water] hugging my knees. My two guy friends asked my friend what was wrong with me, so she came over & talked to me. They found out that I thought that I was fat & started rambling on about how I wasn't fat & how if I was any skinnier that I'd be anorexic...etc. It helped a bit but I still feel so self-conscious.
Now, for the guys on this site, do ya'll think really confident girls are attractive? or the more humble quiet ones?
& How do i get to feeling better about myself? I hate being the party pooper when it comes to swimming & such. Anyone got any good advice?
I rate high for thought-out answers.
My advice is that before you go out and you are feeling self-consious look in a mirror and say all of the good things that you and other people think of you. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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I need a creative idea. How do I ask the girl of my dreams out on a date. But first of all, what things should I say to her, just a few tips that will melt her heart? I know that there is'nt that much you can do to melt her heart, but can you honestly think of a way of using body language to attract her to me. What the hell do I do? I rate 5's
Im 15/m and nearly 16.
Tell her she is beautiful. All girls love to be told they are beautiful, even more than being told that they are hott, sexy, ect. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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well me and my friend where arguing which name is hotter, better (don't ask me why)
so i want you guyzz opinon so we can finally settle this whole thing. which name is hotter amy or pam..why? thanxx a bunch will rate high
Amy definatly, Pam is my Mom's name! Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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for those of you who dont know, the mosquito ringtone is a ringtone that adults cannot hear. As people get older they arent able to hear high frequencies, which is what this is.
What i need to know is where i can download it for free...
any and all -good- answers get 5's
-J
I hate to tell you, but I don't think you can find it for free. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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13/f
well im not allowed to wear thongs and im goin on a trip to france next month. All my mates do. Ive got 3 pairs that my mum dosen't no about.. i realli wna take them! does anyone know where i could put them in my suitcase thing so my mum doesnt see? help x
Hide them inside one of your shirts in the suitcase. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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Okay so im friends with these 3 gerls that are friends with this kid.and this kid "raped" my friend and i dont know if i really believe her only cause this kid is wicked nice and like i dont think that he can hurt anyone cuz he is soo sweet. I hung out with him last friday and i like him as a friend and i think he increadibly niice. and i dont knoe if i should keep hanging out with him or if i shouldnt.. i dont want to loose my friend cuz she will find out sooner or later that i hung out with him and then she'll be even more mad and i dont want to tell her that i hung out with him..What should i do..
Should i tell her or should i keep it a secret and should i be firends with him or not/?
Don't hide it she will find out and be even more mad. Tell her to go to the hospital and have a rape kit done. I hink you should just believe what ever you want because you know your friends. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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Dear Bri,
I have a boyyfriend that I REALLY love...and one of myy ex b/f's told me that he still like me..and he was being Reallyy sweet--I mean,I wouldnt have expected to hear this guyy sayy all this stuff about me. and well I kinda like him. So I was just wondering what you think I should do. Thanx!
Chrissyy
Well I would say that you should follow your heart and trust in God. I love ya annonamouse! Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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i've liked this guy for 2 months.. a few weeks ago, i found out that one of my best friends likes him again [ they went out in the beginning of the year ]... he likes her. this girl always gets who she wants, and i don't know why, she dumps everyone she goes out with after she gets bored with them. i really like this guy but he likes her. is there anything i can do to make him see me and not her?
There is nothing you can do really to influence him, except flirting like crazy. If he does date her wait till they break up and then comfort. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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Well, there's this girl. Me and her used to be best friends a couple years ago but now we're just okay. We talk once in a while but I still care about her, as a friend of course. Anyways, lately she has been talking SO much about her weight and how she's fat but that thing is, she's not! She's at least 130 and she's pretty tall.
On her xanga she puts how much she eats and how much she will exercise and it's scaring me. I want to tell my mom because her mom is friends with mine but I'm afraid it's going to be my fault for telling her.
There is NO way that I can talk her into not doing it. Many of us have tried to tell her the bad things that can happen, that she can gain more weight that way but she doesn't care. She barely eats..and I don't know what else to do.
Adivce?
I would tell your mother because she can seriously hurt herself. Or you can tell her how much people will miss her. If she does start to eat make sure she doesn't gain to much weight at one time other wise it will create stress on her heart and she could possibly go into cardiac arrest ( heart acttack ). Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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I've been singing for about 7 years now, and I think it's time I started taking voice lessons. My mom insists that I have no natural talent. She's only heard me once, and at the time, I was so nervous that I didn't sound good. My mom said that if I had natural talent, then it would show up when I was a little kid. However, my choir teacher tells me I'm an incredible singer, and she's the type that never lies to make someone feel good. When I was a little kid, my chest voice wasn't so great and I didn't know how to use my head voice. I'm 13 right now, and a mezzo-soprano (though I have almost a three octave range). So do you have to be talented as a little kid to be a talented singer?
I don't think you have to be talentd as a little kid because your voice changes and so do your vocal ranges. Also when your a little kid you don't know how to use your voice as to show case it. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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kay me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months now..we have been talking about gettin a place of our own and really settle down with eachother..the thing is he wants me to be more AGGRESSIVE but i dont know how because im a soft person that gets hurt very easily and i am a big baby..he also wants me to WOMAN up but i dont know how or what he means by that...and i need help on how i can do these things so we can work out and last..so if u could please help me out..were together everyday..stay at eachothers houses..in love..families want us to be together..just this little bump keeping us alittle apart..ill rate high!
I think he should accept you the way you are. Just incase wait a few weeks before moving in. If you really want to be aggresive take him out to dinner, you pick the restaurant, even pck up the bill if you want. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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Sometimes I get really lonely for no reason. I'm always around family and friends but I feel really lonely. I just feel down and depressed. I don't know why I feel so lonely and abandoned. Does anyone know what's wrong with me?
You may have some form of depression. Talk to friends or your parents, if that doesn't work I would contact a docor. Depression can be a very serious situation, but it can also be just around for about 5-10 days. I would talk to my parents, and then wait a while. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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so im taking drivers ed this summer and its kind of nice b/c i dont really know anyone in there so i get to act more like myself. basically im not as shy. so theres this guy who sits behind me and he cought my eye the first day. hes smart and taller than me which is rare because im 5'9 but anyways i flirt w/ him and its fun but i dunno im kind of interested in him but i dont know how to get his attention more like i dont know how to be more agressive without coming off as crazy. i think he gets it b/c he flirts back and it makes those 2 boring hours very interesting but im still confused on what i should do. please help! (sorry this is so long!)
It isn't long. Make sure he knows you are interested in him. If he is as smart as you say then he will mak the first move. If he isn't then you will have to make the first move. Ask him his favorite type of ice cream and then once he answers say, "Oh there is this great ice cream shop down the street, wanna come down there with me? " Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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Hi, heres my love story... Theres this girl I really like but I just can't seem to make the first move. I don't have any friends and would like to get to know her alot. I just don't know when to approach her or what to say. The only time I see her is on the school bus. Of coarse theres loads of her friends and people on the bus. What good advice can you give me. I would like it from both girls and boys, but mainly girls. Thanks.
If you own a phone book just call her up and talk to her, be extra sweet, but mainly just be yourself. If you are too shy to call her then talk to her in front of her friends. Show her some interest and she will most likely show some back. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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well, me and my boyfriend had been going out for almost 6 months, by the way i'm 14. and i thought things were going great, and out of no where he just decides that he doesn't want a girlfriend anymore. and we split. i cried for a few days. and i just can't seem to completely get over him. i just want to pretty much forget about him, and never socialize with him again. what are some things that could help me get over him?
I feel bad for your situation, but ice cream is a broken hearts best friend! Go out with friends, check out some hott guys, and go wild! Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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What do you do when the person you love moves away, but not permanent he comes down one weekend in every month? Who do you go to when you have no one else to talk to because he’s always busy? What do you do when you think of the other girls he is probably with and talking to? Why do so many things run through your head when you are trying to get over him, because you know you will never be good enough for him? Why can’t he just accept me for who I am? I can’t be perfect, and if he loves me like he says, then there should be no problem. How do I stop crying my self to sleep every night because I miss him so much? Help please. I’ll rate high =]
If you think you're not good enough then poo on you. If he is going out with you he likes, and I think that means he accepts you. Nobody is perfect, talk to him about it because you just might be "perfect" for him. Also call him and really talk to him. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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Okay so ive really liked this guy for like 6 years and now ive gotten to know him better, he is always at my best friends house because he is best friends with her brother, when im there he'll stay extra late and we talk and even if his friend has gone to bed i start thinking he likes me and I really want to trust my instincts but am I just thinking that because I want it to be real or how should I test this (find out if he likes me) without him knowing????HELP!
I would just ask him straight forward if he likes you or not. If you want to find out without being so abrupt ask your friend to try and find out for you. Hope for the best.
~*Brianna*~
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heres my situation..i been wit my bf for like ever and now all of a sudden his ex has been startin shit wit me..posting blogs on myspace about me callin me a stalker and all and writin stuff everywhere online about me and textin my bf and stuff all the time tryin to get bak wit him and he tells her to stop all the time and then after that she comes and starts crap wit me..i jus duno what to do and she told me now that he was wit her on saturday and the only thing is my bf wasnt wit me til saturday nite so im not sure..he told me he saw her on saturday but only to pay bak sum money he borrowed from her and thats how she knows i wasnt wit him and shes jus sayin that to start crap wit me but i am jus so unsure who to believe anymore..she runs to my bf and tells him im startin wit her and then he comes to me tellin me what she said and all and then i defend myself of course and he believes me kinda i guess and then she starts again..i jus duno if i should believe her or him..i kno it sounds badd but i think no matter what he does to me i cant let him go..hes amazing and i jus wish he would tell me the truth..unless he already has..im so unsure nemore..i duno if he cheated or not..so unsure..what do u think?..if u wanna kno more jus tell me and ill tell you nething you wanna kno..i just need advice though..this is tearing me up and its not like i dont trust him because i do but still when she says stuff to me it makes me think..i been hurt real badd before by sum1 and im not tryin to go through it again..
Sometimes it is easier to forget about the past. I would forget about what happened and kind of start over. You should just ignore his ex-girlfriend, she is just jealous.
~*Brianna*~
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well i liked this one guy and im trying to let go.
but hes gorgeous.
and i didnt know him but i kinda did.
anyways
im trying to move along with a different guy
he has long flipped out blonde hair
with blue eyes
its cute
but yeah
i think he thinks of me as a freinds with benifits..
i dont really know him eaither
and i cant let go of the other guy
but i know he doesnt really like me
because he beleves these rumors about me
im not a slut
dont worry
i just want someone to love and be my boyfreind.
but i cant let go of the guy i need to let go of..
does anyone have any advice
thank you so much
It is a complex sitation. You have to decide between the boys. My advice is to tell the first guy how you feel, and if he responds well then there you go, but if he doesn't then you've must likely got guy #2.
~*Brianna*~
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Me and my friend have been like sisters ever since we were 11 years old...we are 18 years old now. We have been through alot together and are closer than we've ever been to anyone else in our entire lives. But none of my friends really like her and i think its because they see something that i dont. they see that shes not really a real friend as they like to say. she is constantly disappearing for days at a time and getting me worried and then calling up and saying she went down to her old neighborhood, where she is up to no good down there. anyways, she was with one of my other close friends for about a month...but the entire relationship was crap. she was never there for him, never really called him, was ditching him all the time, and so on. she finally got the courage to tell him she'd rather just be friends, but all the times she ditched him, me and him would chill. me and him have been friends for about 4 years. now, we confessed feelings for eachother. she was fine with it and didn't care at all since she says she "never really like him" in the first place...she just felt bad breaking up with him. but just last night, she flipped out on me and him saying were "low" and dirty for doing this to her because her and him "just broke up". she said she thinks im just trying to get back at her for things she did to me in the past. it has nothing to do with that! we just want to be happy...and we've always had feelings for eachother but just never said it until recently...but now, i dont know what to do.
ps. i just broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years ago last month because he didn't treat me right and we've been through so much pain and i couldnt take it anymore.(me and my friends ex said that we are taking it VERY slow and being friends for now until were both ready to start a relationship...and this guy is amazing ..everything i want..if that helps at all)
Well I hate to say this, but you really need to sit down and talk to your friends, and if this helps remember this : Bro's before ho's and sisters before misters
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