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Friendship
Okay so im friends with these 3 gerls that are friends with this kid.and this kid "raped" my friend and i dont know if i really believe her only cause this kid is wicked nice and like i dont think that he can hurt anyone cuz he is soo sweet. I hung out with him last friday and i like him as a friend and i think he increadibly niice. and i dont knoe if i should keep hanging out with him or if i shouldnt.. i dont want to loose my friend cuz she will find out sooner or later that i hung out with him and then she'll be even more mad and i dont want to tell her that i hung out with him..What should i do..
Should i tell her or should i keep it a secret and should i be firends with him or not/?
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you probably shouldnt hang out with him alone. if you do hang out with him have some other close friends come along with you too so that you'll be safe incase if he does start a move on you. and you should just tell ur friend the truth about you and him hanging out.
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Does she often lie about things? I ask because you must have a reason not to believe her. If she was raped then she needs your support and she needs to report it to the police. Suggest that the two of you go to the police station and report it. See what her reaction is to that and then ask her again if she really was raped. It is a very serious allegation and it is not one that should be made as a joke. If you find out that she made it up I suggest that you tell her she is not worthy of your friendship or that of your friend. He will then need your support to work out what he wants to do about it. He does not need a slur like that against his name and she needs to retract her allegations.
If it is found to be true that he has raped, don't have anything more to do with this boy because he will probably do it again and you don't want to be one of his victims.
It is a tough call to make - I wish you the best of luck.
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Well, do you believe her or not? If not, then be friends with him and if she finds out, then tell her straight up that you don't take her accusations seriously. You might loose a friend but this is one of those situations where you have to choose.
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Don't hide it she will find out and be even more mad. Tell her to go to the hospital and have a rape kit done. I hink you should just believe what ever you want because you know your friends. Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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