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broken hearted?
well, me and my boyfriend had been going out for almost 6 months, by the way i'm 14. and i thought things were going great, and out of no where he just decides that he doesn't want a girlfriend anymore. and we split. i cried for a few days. and i just can't seem to completely get over him. i just want to pretty much forget about him, and never socialize with him again. what are some things that could help me get over him?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
-do not listen to love songs
-do not listen to break-up songs.
-go out as much as possible
-preferably with boys.. meeting new people ALWAYS helps.
-keep yourself busy.. do as much as you possibly can to keep your mind off of him.
-refrain from making any association with him at all whatsoever.
Thats basically all i can think of and im sure it will help you out =]
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well what helps me a lot is to hang out with some close friends. There always there for you and kno how to get ur mind on other things. What also helped me was to still be friends with the guy, knowing he doesnt hate me made me feel better. So just hang out with a couple of friends and just think about things you like to do.
i hope i helped!
sincerly,
Katie
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Remember thawt its him, not you. Chocolate and shopping works to! Go out and treat yourself! Chill with some friends and maybe meet a couple of hott guys. Just don't spend all your time thinking about him. When I get a broken heart, I get mad and punching a pillow helps me.
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I feel bad for your situation, but ice cream is a broken hearts best friend! Go out with friends, check out some hott guys, and go wild! Hope for the best!
~*Brianna*~
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aww im sorrry ! he just probably felt differently on how things were going - you thought things were going great, and maybe he didnt. you can't blame him though, six months would have been around like january or something. he just probably wanted to be single for the summer. just spend a lot of time w// your friends and be open to other guys. have fun and forget why you're sad. because he dumped you? then tell yourself he's missing out.
there'll be other breakups in your life so just go on with them. soon enough you'll like someone else or have a new boyfriend.
<3CAROLiNE NiCOLE
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Break ups are so hard to go through no matter how long the relationship lasted, so don't ever push yourself into thinking that you should be over him by a certain time because you will heal on your own as time passes by.
So the first step is to keep in mind that this is a process and give yourself as much time as you need to get over him. Everytime you cry, you are a baby step closer to getting better and feeling better. Don't be afraid to let yourself cry when you need to. Let your feelings and thoughts out, set them free. That way you can keep track of how much better you're getting each day.
Even though it doesn't feel like you are getting better, you are. Take things one at a time and you'll see in a matter of days that you are truly healing. Sometimes you might find yourself thinking of what you could have said or done to have made him not end the relationship. This is a phase where you are trying to make sense of the break-up. Don't let these thoughts and feelings of regret take over you. He's the one who decided that he didn't want a girlfriend, it is his fault that it's over.
The best thing you can really have during really hard times is to just be with a best friend or a group of friends. Keeping busy is the best too. As long as your mind is off into somewhere else other than him, it won't be as sucky for you. At first when you start to go out, you won't be feeling too happy, and that's ok too. There will be days when you're feeling pretty good and then sooner later you feel depressed. When you feel depressed, do your best to keep busy. Turn on the TV and watch something. Put in a favorite movie and watch it.
You shouldn't talk to him and always stay away from him as much as you can. You have yourself on the right track when it comes to that. If you continue to talk to him, then you'll probably never get over him. I just want you to know that it will be ok and you will get over him eventually. Even in the hardest times you're having, remember that you'll be ok and tons of people go through what you are going through.
-TheTeenGirl
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Ooh, this is tough... I think most teenagers have gone through this, or will soon enough. Go out with some other friends, have a good time with friends of yours who aren't friends of his. Scope out some hotties at the mall and stuff. Having some distance from him will make you feel a LOT better. After a while, you'll definatley be feeling better, and you may even want to be friends with him again. I know it sounds corny, but there will always be people who love you; sometimes it just takes a while to find them. Hope I helped.
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