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I was surfing aimlessly on this icon site that I have a username on and I came across this icon: http://iconator.com/icon.php?IconID=273873 it has a picture of an AE Shirt and then it says "We don't wear your clothes so why do you listen to our music". Okay, I shop at AE, Aero and what you so called "punk kids" would concider to be "preppy". Now answer me this, why is that they feel that your clothing style needs to match your taste in music? I shop at those stores and listen to hardxcore bands and I enjoy the music. But why do all you "punk kids" feel the need your taste in clothing also has to match your taste in music? I used the quotations because I do not like to lable people. Lables are for soups, not people.

okay you made me think about this and i just realized my wardrobe matches my music taste but not all people are like that the "punk kids" would consider it preppy because they think that the people that shop their are preppy and are like the rich kids which is totally not true its just a sterotype like some people say "punk kids" are rude and dont have manners again that is a sterotype and totally not true

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is there any way to make your boobs look bigger like when im wearing a cami? like pushup bras, but those dont really help me that much.. any good advice?

well u could get like those Vassarette bras those work really good for mine coz they're not that much padded and they still push up a little so go up to wal-mart and get some..they cost like seven dollars =]

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ok soo there is this guy i like ALOT...okay well he is more experienced n i really want to make out with him but im nervous when we get the chance to n i ive never mad out n i think i am ready i just dont know i really want to i mean i am goin on 14 n all my other friends have...n we had a chance at the talent show we were in the bak of the school ne he was about to kiss me but i turned my head n he freaked out n got all mad i mean i was crying n everything......is this a sign of sumthing am i lesbian...ahhhhhh PLZ HELP!!! email me if ya want tickl3_m3_pink1@yahoo.com
XoOoXoOoX
TiCkL3m3PiNk!
13 f tx

it doesnt mean your a lesbian..lol..it just means that you werent ready at the time and if he freaked just because you didnt kiss him forget about him

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how do you use it and what's better a pencil or liquid...?

I have tried a pencil but the tip is rough and you have to push too hard for it to show up at all so I'm confued.

Thanx!

Artiste

okay for me..i couldnt get pencil on me so i used automatic because i liked it alot better but anyway for me i think that liquid is better but i dont really like using it so try automatic it may work better for you. when u put eyeliner on like hold you bottom set of eyelashes and like gently put it on and go back and forth just press down harder and harder each time

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Ok... this is gonna be long and im sry! im 15/f... and i like this guy... but this morning my best friend called me and told me that she had sex with the guy i liked (she liked him too)... i mean they had done stuff before but i just let it go because she's my best friend... but i mean idk what to do... they didnt use protection... and so im worried about my best friend but im also kinda pissed... i mean just giving him a handjob and stuff is one thing but having sex... i mean they're not even going out... its just too much to handle and its really starting to get to me... if u have any tips on helping her find out if she's pregnant... or how early you can take a pregnancy test i would appreciate it... i wanna help her all i can... and if you have any other advice about our friendship and stuff... well thanx!

well..wait till her period comes if she is late then go take her to get a at home pregnancy test..but wat kind of friend is she?..having sex with the guy you like she doesnt seem like a good friend to me

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what is cyber sex?? and how do i do it?

(my bf wants to do it while hes in a illinois)

cyber sex is like sex over the internet and all you gotta do is say sexual things to him..its kinda like your actually there doing the things with him but your not

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This is really embarrasing but...
"Down there" i think has a bad odor (i'm a girl)
Is there anything I can do to stop this? I heard certain foods can make it smell bad, is that true and which ones? Also, is there anything i can put on it or in it or something to make it smell better?

well try this:after you are done washing all of your underwear and bra's put perfume on them..thats wat i always did it and i couldnt smell anything so try that put ur favorite perfume on them and i bet no one can smell it..i recommend u put some of that Victoria Secret body spray on because those smell yummy..lol

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ok im 13 years old and i havn't madeout. everyone else my age has. and because i havnt they call me prude. i really want to and one of my best guy friends wants to with me and he has madeout before. im afraid to though because i dont know how. and lastnight there was a guy 2 years older then me that wanted to but i said no because i was afraid. should i makeout with my guy friend and have him figure out i havnt before or do you think im gonna be to afraid to? PLEASE HELP! i have school on monday.*i rate 5's*

lol..well its okay if u havent madeout before coz i bet alot of havent for example: me i've never even kissed a boy..but n e way i would choose your guy friend coz those guys dat are older than u might wanna go more than making out so go with you best friend and just go with the flow

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i ahve only made out wiht a guy 1. i want to experminent wiht my best friend...im afarid that if i makeout wiht some guy it would be worng and he will laugh and i dont want that to happen...i just dont kno how to bring it up.....were both 13 and known each other for the longest time about 5years i dont kno what to do?

pleaz help ...ill rate high!

just be patient start talking about things like school,your friends,his friends and then ask about kissing ask him if he ever kissed a girl b4..and just keep asking and ask if he maybe wants to try it..if he says no forget about hes probably not ready..but good luck ^_^!

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I love denim skirts and flouncy skirts from abercrombie! ..the problem is..They are too expensive! Do you guys know anywhere I can get a bargain skirt?..don't say ebay! Thanks!

Aeropostale..i love their skirts..there so cute..lol

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I'm never really sure what to say to the question "I love your shoes! Where did you get them?" or any other clothing item because I really don't want to say anything to incriminate me. The popular kids will laugh if you answer anything like "target", "payless shoe store", or some other department store, and the kids that I'm friends with call me stupid if I tell them that I bought them at Hollister. What is a generic answer that I can say that will satisfy everyone?

dont think wat everyones gonna say..satisfy yourself..remember this saying: be more concerned about your character than your reputation because character is who u are and reputation is wat others think about you

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im 14 and im a girl, well theres this kid that i like and he likes me too, but i dont think he will ask me out because hes afraid that i will say no. I dont know if i should ask him out or just wait to see if he asks me. what should i do?

this is like the same thing dat happened to me..lol..well we enver went out but i would totally go for it since u both like eachother..

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Ohkay, I have a very weird problem. I can't put on eye liner! I always mess up! Any tips?

okay..wen u put on eyeliner..relax..like hold down ur eye and put it on a little at a time..
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OMG, I am so frustrated right now, because I just went shopping and must have tried on over 20 pairs of jeans, and every single one of them was big in the butt. I went shopping last week, too, and still nothing. I have the smallest butt in history. I feel like I'm gonna have to walk around naked the rest of my life! What am I gonna do? Does anyone know of any stores or brands that sell their pants with smaller butt sizes? Please don't suggest Hollister, but I'm totally poor! We tried that today and they were like, $80! I've tried Vanilla Star, L.E.I., Mudd, Arizona, Paris Blues, Union Bay, and other regular brands, and I've also tried Aeropostale. Does anyone else have this problem? Where do you shop at? Thank you so much.
x3 Erin

same problem..lol..i have a small butt *cry*..but anyway..i shop at like Rue 21,Kohls,American Eagle,Aeropstale,Pacsun, so like try those..there clothes arent dat expensive
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I want to dye my hair... not permanent, but not too temporary. I found a hair dye that's made by L'Oreal, called Color Pulse, that comes in a color that I would like for my hair. I have dark brown hair, and Color Pulse supposidly works on dark hair. It lasts for 8-10 shampoos, and also contains no peroxide or ammonia.

Has anyone used this before? What do you think? Is there anyother types of dyes that you would recommend in place of this? I am looking for a dark purpleish plumish type color, if that helps.

Thanks!

i've used it..and its okay..i ahve like a dark brown hair and black hair and i got a realli dark black dats darker than mine and its okay..but i wouldnt use it..it made my hair fall out
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what happens when you go to the gyno?? i have no earthly idea!!

they like..check you and stuff..
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how do i keep my vagina clean?...not smelly

actually..ur vagina cleans itself..and no douching is required..but might wanna clean it with soap and water here and there
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ok well my bf and i have been going out for about 2 mounths. well a couple days ago i found out that about a day after we were going out he made out w/ my best friend(brigitte) at my other friends house(austin). well b4 i knew this my bf and i were at a party and we made out and stuff and it made my friend(brigitte) that had madeout w/ him a couple weeks b4 really mad at me and i had no clue wut was going on! and so i found out wut had happened and i was mad too for a while but i got over it but my other freind kinda hasnt and she is like my best friend!!!!! i dont kno wut to do... dump my boyfriend or dump my best freind? HELP!

i'd dump both of them coz ur boyfriend shoulda said no but he didnt and ur best friend shouldnt be mad czo hes YOUR boyfriend not hers
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Why do guys get angry when you have only been dating two months and they tell you they love, but if you don't feel comfortable saying it back they all the sudden don't love you? Especially the only reason you don't want to say it is because that is when people start getting hurt!

because guys have da urge to have someone love them..and they dont know that they may hurt someone
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Hi, i really like this kid. He's kinda on the popular side, and im just not there yet. Like, the popular people like me and all but its hard talking to them. Well back to the point, i really like this kid and i know you might say "go talk to him!". Its not that easy! Ecspecially for a girl like me. I have liked him since last year, and i IMed him once asking him a question and he asked who i was and said he thinks he knows who i am and answered my question. He's not in the same class as me either. I think he knows i like him cuz of last year someone i think told him or something but i just dont know what to do! Please Help!
-- lost girl

well dats like me..lol..i like a guy and hes kinda popular..and everyone says he likes me..but n e way..dont worry about da popular-ness..lol..just talk to him like a normal person
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