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sex and friendship
Ok... this is gonna be long and im sry! im 15/f... and i like this guy... but this morning my best friend called me and told me that she had sex with the guy i liked (she liked him too)... i mean they had done stuff before but i just let it go because she's my best friend... but i mean idk what to do... they didnt use protection... and so im worried about my best friend but im also kinda pissed... i mean just giving him a handjob and stuff is one thing but having sex... i mean they're not even going out... its just too much to handle and its really starting to get to me... if u have any tips on helping her find out if she's pregnant... or how early you can take a pregnancy test i would appreciate it... i wanna help her all i can... and if you have any other advice about our friendship and stuff... well thanx!
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you have to wait until her next period is (or was) supposed to be. if it doesnt come, go buy a pregnancy test. if its positive, be honest about it. dont help her go behind everyone's backs. talking about it, and being honest will make it so much easier for her.
now, do u honestly think that this person is a "true friend" if they sleep with your crush, and they know about it? just asking...
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do you really think this girl is your friend if she knows you like him and went behind your back and had sex with him....a friend would respect you and not back stab you in the back by having sex with the guy you like...well hoped i helped
love heather
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well..wait till her period comes if she is late then go take her to get a at home pregnancy test..but wat kind of friend is she?..having sex with the guy you like she doesnt seem like a good friend to me
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Too early to take a pregnancy test. When's your next friends period? If it doesn't come on, then she needs to take it. She probably needs to wait till a month just to be sure. Half of the 1st trimester , I think, but I do know for a fact that that will surely do . Maybe even two weeks. These things can be very weird.
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Hi and sorry about this. But you'll just have to let it go. Your friend can get a pregnancy test as early as the next day. It will tell u if ur pregnant or not. You do need to talk to your friend though because TRUST ME You dont want this to build up. It will lead to fights and mabye breaking your friendship. So all you can do now is be supportive if your friend and find out everything you can so you can find more ways to help hr. headds up though, if she is pregnant then she need to tell her parents asap! they can help her the most. So I hope I helped you
Bianca
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Dump her. She obviously isn't worth it. I mean if she know you liked him then i would be pissed also. But you seem like a true friend. Tell her to get a home pregnancy test. some can tell if she is pregnant 5 days before her missed period. I recomend E.P.T., which you can find at your local drug store or pharmacy.
~Princess Ava~
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Ok, your friend doesn't even deserve to be worried about by you. Thats the truth. Don't let something like this go just because shes your best friend. What she did with that guy hurt you a lot, and she was not thinking and was not doing something a best friend would do. You need to tell her how you felt when she told you about having sex with a guy you liked. It doesn't matter if she liked him too, she was dead wrong. And if she tries to make excuses instead of, "I'm very sorry that hurt you," then don't even talk to her. She knows you'd never do that to her. And that guy is trash anyway to be honest. You deserve much better than this. You have been disrespected and you shouldn't tolerate it for a minute. As for your friend being pregnant, I really suggest just leaving that to her, I understand worrying, but now its time that shes worry about something instead of you.
-TheTeenGirl
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