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makeout or freakout
ok im 13 years old and i havn't madeout. everyone else my age has. and because i havnt they call me prude. i really want to and one of my best guy friends wants to with me and he has madeout before. im afraid to though because i dont know how. and lastnight there was a guy 2 years older then me that wanted to but i said no because i was afraid. should i makeout with my guy friend and have him figure out i havnt before or do you think im gonna be to afraid to? PLEASE HELP! i have school on monday.*i rate 5's*
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thers nuthin to b worid bout u wont even think bout it when yr doin it, itll come naturally so dnt worry go for it good luck x
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ok...lol i am 14 and i first made out when i was 13 but i would choose your guy friend and tell him that you havent made out before but whatever you do DO not bite his toungue! lol.... its all downhill from when ya'll kiss!
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lol..well its okay if u havent madeout before coz i bet alot of havent for example: me i've never even kissed a boy..but n e way i would choose your guy friend coz those guys dat are older than u might wanna go more than making out so go with you best friend and just go with the flow
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I love your title!! makeout or freekout! LOL! andywayzs be out going!! you are not going to get any place shy!!Please Rate Me 5!!
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i don't mean to seem judgemental, but 13 is a little young to be making out. if you don't feel ready for that, its totally normal. you shouldn't just choose a guy because your friends are calling you a prude. if you are going to makeout with him, just tell him that you haven't done it before. if he ditches you he isn't makeout-worthy.
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You can makeout with him if you want, but I think that you would be doing it for all the wrong reasons. You want to be like everyone else, you want to be popular, etc. But making out with this boy will not fulfill you for very long. You are human; you will ALWAYS want more than you have. You are quite young and have the rest of your life to makeout...I am seventeen and I have only kissed a boy once and never even dated (unless you count cute little preschool "dates", which I usually don't) Many people do not do anything like dating or making out until late highschool or even college. Try to rise above other people's expectations. So they call you a prude. There are worse things that can happen. You are who you are, and you don't have to do what everyone else is doing to be happy. Always be true to YOURSELF. Think about the consequences...they get you to makeout, they realize they can get you to do ANYTHING. And this boy will most likely makeout with you once and then never want to talk to you again, or spread rumors about how easy you are. Not everybody you know has madeout, and many of them could be lying. You can take the chance and make out with the boy if that is what you want, or you can decide that you would rather not at this point in your life. In the end it is all up to you.
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my brilliant answer is this: practice makes perfect. i didn't makeout till i was 14 and i dont think the guy noticed i was inexperienced when i finally did. we all kiss differently and if you really have all these guyz wanting to make out with you, go for it, just make sure it's just making out and nothing else. i really don't see any harm in making out but try not to go wild and crazy. if i were you i'd pick the guy friend since you know him better.
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if your that nervous, dont do it! you shouldn't feel like you have to do anything you dont want to! do you really like your guy friend? does he like you? if both of those are true.. than sure ya'll can be intimate but don't do anything you dont feel COMFORTABLE doing.. don't worry you'll have plenty of time for all that kind of stuff in your life time
good luck-
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Honestly, Hun, theRe's absolutely nooo Reason you should woRRie about not having been kissed befoRe. You'Re only 13, so you have *PLENTY* of time foR that. Just because SOMEONE ELSE has done ceRtain things does *NOT* mean you should have alReady done them also!! If this makes you feel betteR: I know *TONS* and *TONS* of people who aRe aRound 20-21, and have still neveR even HELD HANDS befoRe!! And I would say that if you'Re even *REMOTELY* unshoRe about kissing youR fRiend... DON'T do it!! You shouldn't kiss someone just to get it oveR with!! YouR fiRst kiss should be special; you'Re going to RemembeR it foR the Rest of youR life. And don't fReak out about not "knowing how"; it's Really not a big deal. I know this must seem Really lame to you, because you can't Really imagine.. but when the moment is Right to kiss someone.. YOU JUST KNOW!! I suppose you just have to have had expeRienced that feeling befoRe to undeRstand. And when you finally do it, it's pRettie much instinct - you just kinda.. know.. how. It *could* be a little sloppy, but afteR a few times, I'm shoRe you'll get the hang of it. And it shouldn't Really matteR to the guy if the kiss wasn't all THAT gReat. Any guy who is even a QUARTER of a man will undeRstand that you'Re simply unexpeRienced and wouldn't eveR hold it against you. And someone who does.. is NOT woRth youR time, teaRs, oR effoRt anyhow!! That is Really all I can say to you. Just think this oveR befoRe you act on it. WhateveR you decide to do, I wish you the best. Hopefully I've been of at least SOME help heRe.. =D
will speak with you foR just having enough guts to go foR it! I have complete faith in you; and I think you should too. Go get 'em, TigeR! =D
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dont be nervous..
put yer arms around hys neck
pretend youve made out before
w/ yer middle finger do little cirlces on the back of his neck really lightly
dont go to crazy with your tounge..
if yer nervous just pretend yer making out with liek a mirror er sumthyn
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