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ok, i was just wondering if being fingered by a guy feels much different then if u finger your self ill rate thanx (link)
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it depends on the way a guy does it and the way you do it. a guys finger are much more long and thicker so to me, it feels better. when you do it to urself you know exactly where to go and can experiment, so you get to know your pleasure points. if you knew your pleasure points you can probably direct the guy where to go and since his fingers and larger and everything it might feel better. but i guess it all depends on the person. to me, i'd rather have a guy.
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ok im 13 years old and i havn't madeout. everyone else my age has. and because i havnt they call me prude. i really want to and one of my best guy friends wants to with me and he has madeout before. im afraid to though because i dont know how. and lastnight there was a guy 2 years older then me that wanted to but i said no because i was afraid. should i makeout with my guy friend and have him figure out i havnt before or do you think im gonna be to afraid to? PLEASE HELP! i have school on monday.*i rate 5's* (link)
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my brilliant answer is this: practice makes perfect. i didn't makeout till i was 14 and i dont think the guy noticed i was inexperienced when i finally did. we all kiss differently and if you really have all these guyz wanting to make out with you, go for it, just make sure it's just making out and nothing else. i really don't see any harm in making out but try not to go wild and crazy. if i were you i'd pick the guy friend since you know him better.
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i'm really into bright colors and matching my make up with my clothes and such.
my question is what are some stores where i can get really cute clothese , i dont want like AE and abercrombie and stores like that im into fashion alot but i cant seem to find any stores around here that have unique clothes. thanks (link)
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look around every clothes store you see and explore you never know what you'll find at stores you'd never really go to. i'm the same way and usually if i don't see what i like in the windows i never go in but lately i've just been exploring everything and i get a lot of compliments on my choices.
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hey..i have been under a TON of stress latley...my whole family has. there's lots and lots of things going on. does anyone know any good ways of releiving strss BESIDES cuttting? ((i REALLY dont want to do that)) yeah i would reaaaalllyyy very much appreciate any effort at all. thanksss!
~*jemmy*~ (link)
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my best stress reliever is kick boxing. get yourself in comfy clothes and your fav. music on with ur door closed so that your shut out from the world and kick and punch with all your might, picturing yourself just kicking all the stress you have in ur life's ass. not only is it greatc for your body but you feel strong and capable after, like you can face anything. at least that is the result for me.
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There is this guy "friend" of mine that I met last year. After a while we were fully aquainted, we started hanging out. I really think he likes me because he has always treated me with respect and kindness. I went to his house the other day, and we started "fooling around". Now he wants to have sex, not as partners, but as friends. He said that this is not considered being a slut or anything because we are friends. Is this true? I really like him. I just got over a really bad situation with the last person I was with. Please help me.
*~!Ayla!~* ( I am only 13, and I'm a girl ) (link)
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i know this isn't probably the answer you were looking for but i don't think you should do it. you'd get much more respect by saying no and not being treated like a sex toy. your only 13 so if this gets around you'll find yourself in another bad situation. wait for the right one and when you do find that right one make sure you love him and you make him wait as long as you can. i know you'll be tempted and i know you'll be curious but just having sex to have sex with someone your not serious about isn't smart. sex has it's consequences so if you want to take it make sure your partner is everything you hoped for.
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I have a waxing kit I wanna use, but whenever I try, NOTHiNG comes off ! It's really annoying. Is there a right way to do it? Thnaks! (link)
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i suggest you get another waxing kit.
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okay, i have this problem.. adimting i need help. and after what happened last night, i really need to ask for help. so i was at the mall with 2 of my friends, my mom, and my sister. well my mom called the the B word, and i go w/e and walked off. then she came up and hit me with a rather heavey bag, and i just turned around and pushed her. i had NO idea what was going on. like .. i didnt relize what i did. and i was supposed to go to a party that night with those 2 friends. my mom took them home, and me back to my house and grounded me for the day. she also took away my cell phone, and she had taken away my AIM last weekend.
i dont know what to do with my self, i dont know what has gotten into me.. it just feels everything is happening. and i cant controll anything, also i suck at asking for help.
can any one help me on here?
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wow, your mom shouldn't be doing that to you at all. and since your only 13 i don't think you could save enough money to send her to the chiropractor or something (a massage therpist) because your not the one that needs the help. she does. what i suggest you do is start kick boxing when you get mad. close urself in your room with the radio on and concentrate all your anger on your strikes, it's a great stress reliever and it stops you from doing something stupid to yourself and others. if you do get to save up money, send your mother for a chiropractor appointment where she can relax and come home in a better mood. you'd also surprise her with your nice deed and you might get some of your things back.
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i ahve only made out wiht a guy 1. i want to experminent wiht my best friend...im afarid that if i makeout wiht some guy it would be worng and he will laugh and i dont want that to happen...i just dont kno how to bring it up.....were both 13 and known each other for the longest time about 5years i dont kno what to do?
pleaz help ...ill rate high! (link)
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will if you and your best friend are really that close then you shouldn't be worrying that much. the way i suggest you bring it up is start on the topic of guyz, then experience and hint how you kinda want to practice. once your on that topic the question shouldn't be too far away, be bold.
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i think i am way fat. everyone tells me i am skinny, but seirously, i am 5'3" and 112 pounds. my friends think that just cause i m going on a diet, i will be anorexic. help!!!!!!!!!!!!
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5'3 and 112 ponds is nothing. but if ur really serious about this then just let your friends see just what your doing for your diet and make sure it's healthy. eat lots of fruit and fat free things (lots) and excersize. if they see that your doing no harm to your body the worst thing they'll do is bug you about not needing a diet.
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I have bad stretch marks on my legs and I was wondering that when I turn 18 is there any procedures I can do to have them removed or something? Or do I have to put up with them for the rest of my life. I figured since there is plastic surgery for everything else than there might be for this. Also, until then (I'm 15) is there any way I can make this less noticeable? They are really, really bad and I don't know how I got them so bad! I'm not even that fat just a little chubby and I only thought bigger people got them! Well anyway, thanks for the advice, I wasnt sure where to put this! (link)
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my best advice is save up as much as you can and go to a pharmacy. these days there is always something on the market for what ever your needs. make sure you get what seems to be the best onne there and read the directions step by step. i'm sure there'll be some promising results.
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ok im home alone and i want to visit a pornographioc website for fun and out of curiosity on my laptop...if i delete the website i was at can my parents still catch me? like will those nasty advertisements be constantly popping up (link)
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well, if you don't have parental controls then it should be safe. just be sure you don't leave any traces after your done and nothing should come up. i hope your parents arent the type to go on ur account, if they're not, then you're golden.
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I told this guy how i felt and he said that he likes me also but just a little bit how do i get him to like me more? I mean like i understand that it will take time but i need some help i mean i REALLY REALLY REALLY LIKE this Guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Plzz write back,
Torn in 2
.P.S.I Rate High (link)
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Well, i know this is easier said then done but 'just be urself', don't try to be someone else.. and flirt a lot (but without being all over him) give him some space sometimes (no matter how hard that seems to be) because you don't want to come off as a clingy girlfriend. just smile a lot and have fun, sooner or later it will pay off but don't rush it. it might suck for a while (smiling on the outside but screamin at him to ask you out already on the in) but patience will get you what you want, and also determination. (be determined to show him the fun and lovable side of you)
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