im 14 and im a girl, well theres this kid that i like and he likes me too, but i dont think he will ask me out because hes afraid that i will say no. I dont know if i should ask him out or just wait to see if he asks me. what should i do?
flavor_of_the_week answered Sunday May 22 2005, 9:37 pm: don't ask him about; let him step up to the plate. however, drop him hints that you like him. therefore he won't be in fear of rejection :-D. goodluck with you two !
sweetpea318_247 answered Sunday May 22 2005, 9:35 pm: ok well if you arent comfortable just asking him out just make sure to hang around him and drop little hints that you like him...keep it subtle though dont go too overboard with it coz then it might scare him a little bit...you kno how guys are about that stuff...lol...well just make sure to keep droping hints to him and then if it takes him too long and you feel more confident about asking him yourself then go for it...best of luck hunnie
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BWvolley answered Sunday May 22 2005, 8:55 pm: Don't ask a guy out. Let him step up and be the man. Don't make things so easy for him, cause he wants everything to be easy for him and that is not the way it should be. If he likes you enough, he will ask you out. Besides, it is a turn-off to some guys when the girl asks him out. Give him time, and get to know him then he will work up the courage to ask you out if that is what he wants. JUST DON'T ASK HIM OUT!!! If you do ask him out, then everyone will know that you are easy to get and not a challenge, and everyone loves a challenge!!! [ BWvolley's advice column | Ask BWvolley A Question ]
sourpatchkids379 answered Sunday May 22 2005, 8:49 pm: Hey!
Well all i can say is i had the same problem. but you know what i did i just talked to him a little more and flirted and big thing is BODY LANGUAGE if you tense up around him he will think you don't like him. a great way to get his attention is stare at him then when he looks up lock eyes for a couple seconds then you break the stare. Keep flirting and if he doesnt ask you i say go for it and ask him who says the guy always has to ask the girl?
Good Luck!
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