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Q: I am 17 , 18 in Nov. I am still a virgin and i have my first actual Bf. The thing is i've been getting really Horney but when I am hangign out with him i dont get horney unless were making out and i am sitting on top of him and i can feel he is hard, ... >_< idk what to do.. how can i calm my horamones, and yeah i play with myself quit a bit sometimes.
Any advice?
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You could do oral sex on each other,or masturbate together.You can also masturbate yourself.There's really not much else you can do that would "calm" them down.It's normal to get a little bit "horny" sometimes ;)
♥ danielle
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Q: i might be able to get a tattoo when i turn 16 in a few months. i've been thinking about tattoo ideas since i was 14 and i can't really come up with anything. i want something that has like a meaning, any ideas? i was thinking of either getting one on my foot, back of the neck, or under/behind my ear. no butterflies or stars please.
i'm a girl by the way. just throw any ideas out there hah thanks!
or if you know a good website that has tattoo ideas because i haven't found a good one yet.
again thanks =]
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I actually like these too tattoos,one is in white ink and it says "breathe" on the wrist,it meaninds like if live gets a little to hectic or your getting all worked up about something you can just look at the tatoo and remember to just breathe.Another one i like is "only god can judge me" which you pretty much get the meaning behind it,that's what my name actually means too :) or you could get something that represent a chapter in your life,just like what angelina jolie does. You could get your name or nickname behind your neck,or a single word like faith,destiny or something like that.Or a little foot tattoo it meanings like how your progressing through life,or making or own footsteps.You could also do your favorite saying,or a name or word in another language which i thinhk is cute.I like this one la bella vita which means a "the beautiful life".You could also do a tattoo of a symbol of something you love like for example,if you love music do a music note behind your ear or something.Or do a title of your favorite song that has alot of meaning to you.
http://www.vanishingtattoo.com/tattoos_designs_symbols_b.htm
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v457/lolly_890/bmepb375885.jpg
http://www.vanishingtattoo.com/celebrity_tattoos.htm
http://www.tatguy.com/tattoopages/Girls%20and%20their%20tattoos.htm ( i like first girls tattoo betsy,and the angel wings too behind the back or neck)
http://www.tattoofashion.com/acatalog/tf_leg_foot.html
http://steeleforsenate.org/archives/2008/03/24/the-meanings-of-the-most-popular-tattoo-designs/
http://www.helium.com/items/847588-tips-for-choosing-meaningful-tattoos
i spent like half an hour on finding tattoos haha i got caught up in it,that's all i could really find.It would be better if like i knew what you liked and were interested in but hopefully you'll like some of the ideas showed you and came up with :) if you have anymore questions just leave one in my inbox.
♥ danielle
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Q: do tea bags help in one time or do you have to use it for a period of time for your eyes to stop being puffy? because ive used chilled spoons and tea bags and they dont work. do i have to use it consistently? for how long? :(
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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061204175942AAfCxI3
http://ezinearticles.com/?Puffy-Eyes---Home-Remedies-That-Actually-Work&id=1062140
http://myhealthbeautycare.com/2008/07/21/dark-circles-puffy-eyes-what-you-should-do-to-eliminate-them/
http://www.thriftyfun.com/tf96652829.tip.html
http://www.sabaidi.net/health/?p=29
http://www.wikihow.com/Cure-Puffy-Eyes
http://www.howtogetridofstuff.com/health/how-to-get-rid-of-puffy-eyes
http://mattmaison.blogspot.com/2008/06/cure-puffy-eyes-with-cold-spoons.html
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080805134329AALHyM3
http://ezinearticles.com/?7-Ways-to-Get-Rid-of-Puffy-Eyes&id=404975
i found a TON of websites for puffy eyes,i gave you a couple on here,if none of these work (which they should) just leave a question in my inbox and i'll happily give you more websites :)
♥ danielle
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Q: Last year, I met/dated this guy. I was 14, he was 18. We only went out for like a week but we still talked/hung out. I really liked this boy and I guess he knew that, he was using me. We hung out when he was bored, when he felt like fooling around I guess. I was a virgin though, and I wasnt ready to give that up, he never pressured me too either. Then he moved to another state, after about 2 months of living there he visited. We'd been talking, and we decided to hang out when he visited...we'd been talking about having sex. He knew I was a virgin and he said i didnt have to if i didn't want too, that we'd still hang out. I thought I was ready, that I wanted to. I really liked him, loved him even..and I knew he at least liked me, just not enough to stay around. Anyway, he came down and we ended up having sex.I found out the next day that he'd met up with his ex-gf[whose still totally in love with him] and slept with her too. Same weekend. Me and her became best friends.I went months without talking to him, then he came back.After a couple months of being back, he starts showing up at my house.We start hanging out a lot. It was innocent at first.Then we're at the movies and he kisses me.We talked about everything, he tells me he likes me.We start dating again, i'm totally happy. I lose my best friend, his ex. But..I love him. He tells me he loves me. I believe him, it was the look in his eyes. I could see love in there.We were together for only a month and a half. He breaks up with me. He had to start school/get a job. Lots of reasons, basically "I'm a distraction." I can't explain everything he said to me...it all made sense though. But maybe he was just using me again. Was he? I love him. I really do, theres no doubt about it. Its so hard to get over him, I want to call him. I want to see him. But I can't, I won't. I want him to miss me. But maybe he wont. And when he does, will he call me just for sex? I think thats my question, do you think he used me? I know he'll talk to me again eventually, he always does...if I allow him too, will he just be using me again?(I'm now 15, almost 16; he is now 19.)
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Ahh same situation as me!
i was talking with this guy for a year,and he would text me only sometimes and say "why dont we hang out anymore?" or "why wont you talk to me" things of that nature.I would think oh he still likes me,he must miss me.I would hang out with him and then we would end up making out when we hung out,then he would text me and not stop talking about when he kissed me like he was proud of it or something,then he would ask me how "far" i would go with him.He also told me he did'nt want anything serious which crushed me because i was really falling for the guy.It was difficult because he was in one of my classes and my bus and he would never talk to me in school which made things awkward for me because i wondered why he wouldnt talk to me?(He got with one of my good friends too,i told him i was upset about that and he said im sorry i was "drunk",i dont really talk to that friend anymore because she betrayed me)i knew i was used,i shouldve stopped it the first time he said he didnt want anything,but i kept believing oh maybe he'll change his mind or but he really likes me.I was denying the fact that he was using me,i hated to be thought of like that.I'm actually still struggling with it,because he is still trying to talk to me.
That was from my experience.I know it's difficult to come to grips with but im sorry hun but he used you.I mean, a guy who takes something so important to you and sleeps with another girl the next night? thats awful and im so sorry that it happened to you.And the whole "your a distraction" line is bull,i've heard that one before myself,he just wants to "play" and not have to worry about being tied down to anyone.In my opinion,i think that you should cut all ties off with this guy.If he texts you or calls you ignore him.Whatever you do DONT start talking to him again because that's what he wants,he knows whenever he calls you you'll come running because he knows he "has" you.Best thing for you to do is move on,your young! you have plenty of time to find that speical someone.There's alot of other guys out there who will treat you with the dignity and respect that you deserve,don't go back to a loser like that guy.
i hope i could help hun tell me how everything goes! and if you need anymore help just leave another in my inbox ;)
♥ danielle
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Q: ok so me and this one guy both like each other and have gotten very attached. The thing is, is that I am 15, and he is 18. I have kept him a secret for awhile, but I recently told my mother. She said it would be alright to hangout with him as long as my parents were home and the situation was controlled. My mom doesn't want me getting pregnant, she was 17 when had a baby, so she doesn't wanting it happening to me. And this guy who i like, he isn't intrested in sex til marriage and he's very good about things, doesn't get into trouble, very nice person. But how I am going to explain this to my dad? And I guess how would i basically continue or build a better relationship on this? Like if he were to come over, how would we be able to make out or etc? Cause my parents would be over. I hate age difference, but it's all going to change, cause he's going to a nearby college.
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Try going out to places.If he has a car you guys could make out in there or something.When he goes to college if he gets a dorm you can visit him there and you would have total privacy.If you have a basement you could put on a movie and tell your parents not to come down and then you guys could kiss and what not.
Ask for telling your dad,tell him what you said on here.Say he's a very nice guy,dosent get into trouble,has good grades,has values,and really respects you and would'nt pressure you into anything.i would suggest having your parents meet your guy so they can ask him questions and get to know him better.If your parents like him and see him often,then they could trust you and him more and give you guys a little bit more privacy then they did before.
The guy seems like a real catch your lucky,not many guys that i know are like that.
♥ danielle
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Q: i usually get charlie horse's in the morning from streching and they are so painful but they go away soon. but on sunday i got a charlie horse in my calf and its still like there. and now its in my calf + thigh and its now tuesday. it hurts to walk. HOW DO I GET RID OF IT?!?!
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http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080712161241AA94mg6
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080611193518AAhkEHM
http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/24161
http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Rid-of-a-Charlie-Horse
http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080430054119AArBgzD
all those sites pretty much tell you the same thing, stretch,vitamins,drink more water,and eat bananas.If you need anymore websites i have a few more just leave one in my inbox :)
♥ danielle
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Q: Any interesting (first hand) stories about Ouija boards? Do they seem to actually work, or have any results? Are there certain rules you should follow?
We've got one in my house, but it must be at least thirty years old. I don't know if that counts for anything, but yeah.
Thanks for any help!
-Jess.
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My friend had an ouija board,i would play it all the time when i went over her house.I was like in 5th grade when i started playing it and did'nt know any better haha she always had to move the little glass mover piece thing and would never let me touch it,she claimed a spirit would move her fingers to letters.When i finally got to try it out myself,it did'nt work and my friend said that i just did'nt have the "magic" or whatever you call it(she still won't tell me that it's really her that moves the cursor,she still claims it's a "spirit").I realize now that it was a completely bogus game.I asked one time who my next boyfriend would be and it said johnny texas? (my friend obviously made that name up lol).It's a bogus game that's all for fun.None of my predictions ever came true lol.If you have a sleepover or something it's a good game to play in the dark and sike yourself out.
I foudn a website that tells you how to play:
http://paranormal.about.com/cs/ouijaboards/ht/use_ouija.htm
♥ danielle
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Q: I know this migth sound a little wierd but i have a friend (girl) and she said that she is ready to lose her virginity.... so she ask if guys liked girl that dont shave their pubic hair because she didnt want 2 be embarrased by the boy i didnt know how to answer her and i couldnt give her an answer..... can you guys give me one???????? PLZ HElp....
(15,f)
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It really depends on the guy,some guys dont care.I asked this question to my guy friends before actually lol and they said that they would prefer a girl to be completely shaven "down there".But honestly,its totally up to you and do whatever your comfortable with.
♥ danielle
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Q: do you have to take tampoon out to pee?
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well usually you have too.Since a tampon is used to absorb blood(it's a liquid) so is pee so it would soak up on the tampon.It's also very unsanitary.I would change your tampon eveytime you use the bathroom.
♥ danielle
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Q: when my boyfriend comes to visit he wants to eat me out. i feel as though i am ready for this and i am excited that my boyfriend wants to please me in this way but i was wondering do guys like it if a girl wraps her legs around his neck while he is eating her? just wondering because i dont want to do something that makes him uncomfortable
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It really depends,people do different things.Some girls just leave their legs on the side of the bed,others just lay completely flat it's totally up to you,do whatevers comfortable.Wrapping your legs around his neck is fine,it would be a way of him knowing that you enjoy it.Just don't wrap your legs too tight around his neck,because then it would be like your strangleing the guy lol
♥ danielle
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Q: 15/f
Okay, well i met this guy that i didn't know at a party and he told my friend he thought i was cute. So we exchanged numbers through our friends and we texted eachother as friends for about 2 weeks. Then eventually started "talking." We talked for about a week and then he asked me if we could just be friends because he has to get a job and he said he had a lot going on right now. Why would he want to start "talking" to me for just a week and then go back to being friends? Also, do you think he still likes me even though he just wants to be friends right now? I don't really know his situation but he said that he has to get a job and it sounded like he had some stuff going on. I don't really know what this means. I don't know if he likes me or not. Now, we just text eachother as friends but not like the flirty messages we sometimes send. Thanks!
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Same thing happened to me.He basically just wants stuff out of you (you know what i mean) kind of like the love'em and leave'em type of deal.In my opinion,i think that he knows that if he ever asks you to hang out or "do stuff" you'll jump at the chance to say yes which he wants.So in a way he still kind of likes you but not in the way you think it is.I would just forget about the guy,he's using you and used the whole "alot is going on right now" excuse,don't fall for it.Your still young,there's plenty of other fish in the sea trust me :)
♥ danielle
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Q: Theres a boy i've liked since forever, and well we started to text, but we lost contact of each other becuase i found out i was a hit and quit ( i found out and left before anything happened) and i was shocked that a guy like him can actually break my heart after telling him that i liked him for a while, and im wondering if i was just some one he tells his firends that he got some some action, for he can look good. i really wonder if he liked me back does anyone know how you can find out if someone really liked you? does he still me if he talking to another girl? does anyone have advicce on what to do and how to react around him?
-loverslanecrashedcar
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The only way is to ask him.I mean he liked you in a sense,but not in the way you wanted or thought.If he's talking to another girl,then he obviously did'nt care about your feelings and just used you.(trust me,i was in the same situation as you,i was "used" myself).He will only start talking to you again only if he wants something from you.React normal around him,don't let him know that he hurt you,think in your head like "alright whatever,you used me but im not going to let you bring me down, im better than you" :)
My advice,would be to not even worry about it and move on the guy sounds like a loser anyways and you sound like a nice girl you deserve then that,and hat's off to you for leaving before it got worse you did the right thing. :D
♥ danielle
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Q: is there anyway or any program i can use to get a full view webcam live image? i have vista.
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http://www.110mb.com/forum/full-screen-webcam-software-t23886.0.html
http://www.filedudes.com/Webcam_and_Screen_Recorder-download-41580.html
http://www.softpedia.com/get/Windows-Widgets/Webcams/FSCamView.shtml
http://www.jakeludington.com/ask_jake/20050623_webcam_image_quality.html
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070221110109AAQjL8u
http://www.download32.com/webcam-and-screen-recorder-i27556.html
http://www.dailysofts.com/program/863/14144/Webcam_and_Screen_Recorder.html
http://www.bluechillies.com/details/36578.html
any of those will hopefully help you out,if not i have a few more just leave one in the inbox ;)
♥ danielle
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Q: so you know Megan from I Love Money? well even if you don't she said she has a retarded dog that she adopted. are there really places you can adopt them? how do people know if they are mental? i just wanted to know because i kinda feel bad for them, might want to adopt one. thanks!
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i want to adopt a disabled dog when im older :)
There are places where you can get a dog with a disability.Like this site http://www.petswithdisabilities.org/adopt.html or your local pet shelter,ask if they have any dogs with a disability(in many cases they do,and their the ones people don't want to adopt)
As far as to know how they are mentally challenged,just like what doctors do for humans,they treat them and dignose them with that problem.It could also be if they were treated badly by a previous owner,who say would shake the puppy or bang it's head which causes permanent brain damage causing the dog to be mentally challenged.
♥ danielle
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Q: im looking for someone to share their weight loss success story with me. i want to know what you did...what exercises you did..how often..what you ate...to achieve weight loss goals. im 19 years old...130 pounds..5'3. help =]
thank you so much. send me a message if you dont want to publicly state this info. or if you have any suggestions at all! :)
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Well i don't know if mine would nesseccarily qualify for a "success story" but here's my story.In middle school was not "fat" but chubby.I was 5'2 or 5'3 in 7th grade and weighed around 135-140 pounds.I was embarassed of myself,i had a best friend who was really pretty and all the guys liked her which put me down.Guys had no interest in me,they would call me "ugly" or "beat" (which is another term for ugly).I would come home everyday crying because i couldn't stand school.When my friend wanted to hang out expecially with guys,i would say i was sick or not allowed out.I was ashamed to eat in front of people,so i would sneak food in my room or under the table in the kitchen so no one could say anything to me about what i was eating.I felt like i didn't belong anywhere.There was a point where i was so depressed and unhappy that i didn't even want to live anymore.But i decided to turn myself around and not let things get to me.The summer before 9th grade i decided to work on myself.My mom had this pilates tape which was a 30 minute video.I would do that 4x during the week monday-friday when my parents weren't home so my parents wouldn't know i was excerising,they would've make a huge deal out of it.Besides that,i would also go on an exercise bike that i also did'nt eat after 7 p.m,That was the tough part because i was a big late night snacker.I also had to watch my sweets.I did that the whole summer.When i started high school,everyone noticed i was losing weight and saying i looked great.It boosted my confidence greatly.In 8th grade i was at a size 11,going into 9th grade i became a size 9.During the school year i still continued the exercise routine i had,along with gym in school (i had 80 minutes for gym which really helped me out with losing weight).In the middle of my freshmen year,i became a size 7,then in sophomore year gym helped me out once again.I got to use the weight room in my school which taught me how to use different machines to target my problem areas,i used them for about 5 months along with that exercise and eating routine.That year i went into a growth spurt and was a height of 5'6,which also thinned me out.I got to a size 5.By the time junior year came around i was a size 3.I can even fit into some pants that are a size 1!Which surpised me so much.I dropped 5 sizes in about 2 years that's amazing to me because i never though i could do it,and i accomplished my goal.People say i can't even recognize you from when you were a/in freshmen/middle school.They say i look amazing now,i mean it's weird to see that im giving my best friend a run for her money now lol.I look at pictures from back then and feel sorry for that danielle who felt like she was hopeless,but then i smile because that danielle is gone now,and she's the happiest she's ever been.I love myself now which i could'nt say before.So after you read this,go take a walk around the block,it feels good trust me!(i used to hate walking and running but now i love it)and you'll feel so much better.I know it's hard to start out and drop those potato chips and just start exercising.True,that is the toughest part starting out,but once you get over that point,there's no stopping you.Don't tell yourself you can't do something,because you can!
GOOD LUCK! :D
♥ danielle
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Q: where cani buy l.a.colors make up?
also, NYX make up..
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Dollar General
Cherry Culture.com
Ulta
nyxcosmetics.com (the website also shows you where a store near you carries them)
Chérie Chérie
Rite Aid
makeupgeek.com/store
eBay
♥ danielle
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Q: i was wondering if you can order NYX makeup over the phone?
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no,the only ways are through the website and at beauty supply stores like Ulta.
♥ danielle
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Q: does anyone know where kyle cease's "these are my shoes" line came from? if so, can someone send me the clip of it? haha, thank you!
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http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0147472/board/nest/87493833?d=96201522&p=1#96201522
http://www.comedycentral.com/comedians/browse/c/kyle_cease.jhtml
http://www.answers.com/topic/kyle-cease?cat=entertainment
i tried looking for the clip everywhere! lol but i could'nt find it.You could try youtube or google maybe?
♥ danielle
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Q: How do you edit your advice column?
Like write stuff , i can't figure it out , is it something to do with cookies cos i have vista and i dont know how to get them.
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Go to the left hand corner,where it says Welcome(username) then go down too "Profile Settings" and you will find a box that says "describe yourself in your column..." with a huge box.There,you can type what you want in your column.I don't think cookies has anything to do with it.If your still having trouble,just leave one in my inbox :)
♥ danielle
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Q: i am trying to chose if i school get a fox racing backpack or a METAL MULISHA backpack what do u think!
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Hmm,i like fox racing backpacks,but it's really which ever one you like better.Their both different.
♥ danielle
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Byes guys im done on advicenators it was a good 6 year run :)
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Gender: Female Member Since: September 27, 2005 Answers: 795 Last Update: August 7, 2009 Visitors: 62387
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