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complicated relationship.
ok so me and this one guy both like each other and have gotten very attached. The thing is, is that I am 15, and he is 18. I have kept him a secret for awhile, but I recently told my mother. She said it would be alright to hangout with him as long as my parents were home and the situation was controlled. My mom doesn't want me getting pregnant, she was 17 when had a baby, so she doesn't wanting it happening to me. And this guy who i like, he isn't intrested in sex til marriage and he's very good about things, doesn't get into trouble, very nice person. But how I am going to explain this to my dad? And I guess how would i basically continue or build a better relationship on this? Like if he were to come over, how would we be able to make out or etc? Cause my parents would be over. I hate age difference, but it's all going to change, cause he's going to a nearby college.
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well I am sure also that your parents just need to realize that he is a good guy. It is very hard to trust someone who is dating a girl that is pretty young especially because you are probably under the age of consent. I am sure your parents are looking out for you in more ways than one.
Don't let your parents discourage you from letting your relationship go forward. Also if he keeps coming over and showing your parents how good of a guy he is they might trust you enough to let him come over without them there. Or when you are the age of consent they might lighten up!
Just be patient, until your parents trust him!
Good luck!
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Try going out to places.If he has a car you guys could make out in there or something.When he goes to college if he gets a dorm you can visit him there and you would have total privacy.If you have a basement you could put on a movie and tell your parents not to come down and then you guys could kiss and what not.
Ask for telling your dad,tell him what you said on here.Say he's a very nice guy,dosent get into trouble,has good grades,has values,and really respects you and would'nt pressure you into anything.i would suggest having your parents meet your guy so they can ask him questions and get to know him better.If your parents like him and see him often,then they could trust you and him more and give you guys a little bit more privacy then they did before.
The guy seems like a real catch your lucky,not many guys that i know are like that.
♥ danielle
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