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Wam Bam Thank you Mam?!?!?!
Theres a boy i've liked since forever, and well we started to text, but we lost contact of each other becuase i found out i was a hit and quit ( i found out and left before anything happened) and i was shocked that a guy like him can actually break my heart after telling him that i liked him for a while, and im wondering if i was just some one he tells his firends that he got some some action, for he can look good. i really wonder if he liked me back does anyone know how you can find out if someone really liked you? does he still me if he talking to another girl? does anyone have advicce on what to do and how to react around him?
-loverslanecrashedcar
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It seems like he got a wam bam, and you have yet to be thanked, ma'am. Guys like him do not LIKE girls, they just like to use them. You are nothing more to him than a "hit and quit."
If he really likes you, he would make an effort to keep in touch with you, instead of losing contact right after having his way. He is nothing more than a player, and you do not deserve an idiot like him. If he is talking to another girl, it could very well mean that she is the next "one" on his list (of girls to screw). Forget about who else he is talking with. Forget about him. When you see him, act your natural self- do NOT go out of your way to be nice to him. Do not initiate conversations- he does not deserve your time. Just forget about him and move on- he is not worth it AT ALL.
One last thing- when I was 19, I really liked a guy, and found out he had a girlfriend (almost right after he "hit and quit" me). I thought (in my naive mind) that maybe, just MAYBE he liked me too, and would at least want to talk to me. NOPE. This guy you described, like the guy I was with five years ago, is nothing more than a player. I have learned since then that NO guy (or man) is EVER worth your dignity, and has no right to toy around with your body and emotions. All women, at least the ones with a shred of decency, deserve men who will treat them with respect.
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The only way is to ask him.I mean he liked you in a sense,but not in the way you wanted or thought.If he's talking to another girl,then he obviously did'nt care about your feelings and just used you.(trust me,i was in the same situation as you,i was "used" myself).He will only start talking to you again only if he wants something from you.React normal around him,don't let him know that he hurt you,think in your head like "alright whatever,you used me but im not going to let you bring me down, im better than you" :)
My advice,would be to not even worry about it and move on the guy sounds like a loser anyways and you sound like a nice girl you deserve then that,and hat's off to you for leaving before it got worse you did the right thing. :D
♥ danielle
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loverslanecrashedcar, (lol)
umm i think you should just ask him. youll never get the best answer from anyone but him. you should just go straight up to him and ask. get him to tell the truth. maybe all this time, this guy was just trying to get to konw you. but the thing about your relationship that would've helped you guys is if yall had real dates. just by instant message, you cant tell what the opponent is really thinking. yoiu can't tell sarcasm or exaggeration as well.
but just try and talk to him. get all the information you need from him.
good luck!!
lori 16/f
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