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Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo."i refuse to sink."
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I'm just not sure. Yesterday at work I got off at 3:30; and Jesse came in at 3:35 and he was suppose to close; and I stayed with him the entire time and helped him out; ususally I hate working long hours; but last night I did it was ease. I feel a sense of guilt towards Riley. I mean, me and Riley have our good moments; more than our bad; and I truely love him. He's not allowed to get a job ti'll he is 18, and thats not his fault. Thats his mom because she lives off the government; and something about if he gets a job; she'll lose his check from his deceased dad; so he can't ti'll he's 18. I take Jesse home from work everytime we work together because he usually doesn't have a ride; Riley hates it. He gets mad. He knows about how Jesse feels for me, and he knows that I like him too; but I told him that I love him, but like Jesse. He told me to quit talking to him, but for some reason I can't.
I'm truely just scared. What if Jesse is just feeding me all the things I want to hear, just to get me where he wants me, and than change into he might really be? Than I'm really going to regret leaving Riley for him. Me and Riley spend everyday together; almost every minute unless I have to work; so he sees my parents ALOT. I feel bad because I don't want to change boyfriends on my parents because they get attached; my dad thinks I don't need a boyfriend; I need to focuse on school; but even with a boyfriend, I make good grades and I don't let them interfer with my work. I am already so comfortable with Riley. And he tells me I'm going to be the one to have his kids one day, and that I'm the one he wants to spend his entire life with. I'm torn in between the two, and I don't know what to do.
youve got to remember how young you are.. i had a boyfriend for 1 year and a half who said that wed be together forever and get married and all of this stuff, but it didnt work out because he is a psycho. but thats another story.
anyways, what im trying to say is that people say things, but it doesnt have to make you stay. you shouldnt feel bad for your parents or riley or jesse.. you need to think about yourself and ONLY yourself right now. what is it that you TRULY want ? do you want to be with riley and have him possibly break up with you leave you .. because his true colors are slowly coming out, and being cofomfortable with him does not mean that you need to stay with him. hes not the only guy you will meet.. especially when you go to college, but hes also being controlling by getting mad at you with the whole jesse thing and telling you to stop talking to jesse.. these are warning signs, trust me.
changing, growing up, moving on is all scary, so its totally normal that youre scared. but i think you are giving so many reasons why you SHOULDNT be with jesse, and youre not letting yourself actually see the reasons why he could potentially be great for you. everything i say, you go back at it to make riley look better.. its like youre TRYING to make riley better than jesse in your own mind, but convinving yourself of this will only go so far..
its not bad to just take a break from riley.. try out someone new, like jesse. honestly ? every relationship is a risk. you never know whats gonna happen or who they might turn out to be, but youll never know if you just stay where youre comfortable and not as happy as you could be. because youre curious of jesse.. youre curious of something new.. and youll never know what its like if you dont step outside of your comfort zone and actually do what you want to do.
you said it yourself, you like jesse. and this isnt going to go away. its just going to keep getting stronger. and rileys going to keep getting more and more possesive and promising things that might not even happen.
youre second guessing everything right now, and you just need to take a breather.. and take a break from riley.
open up to new possibilities, and dont make excses for riley or jesse.. just go with the flow.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo :]
Who Should Be The First One To Say "I Love You" first? The guy or the girl?
it depends on who feels it first.
it also depends on who gets the guts to say it first.
it also depends on the relationship between the two people.
there is no specific answer for this. in some cases, the boy says it first, but a lot of girls say it first also.. theres no right or wrong. but a lot of people think saying "i love you" will scare the person their saying it to away, which is why both the people are hesitant to say it first.
hope i helped ! good luck, xxo.
ok so i am a 13 year old female and i was really upset with my mom because she kept on yelling at me and overreacting when i was trying to make cookies. so she started yelling "stop! you arent making cookies aymore put everything back!" what really annoys me is that she had to concern herself with something my sister and i were trying to do on our own. so after we were forced to put everything away, we walked downstairs and i said "god you are such a retard" to my sister and i know i shouldnt have said tht but i was sooo angry. so my sister was like "i'm telling mommy" so my mom screams at me to come upstairs so when i do, she goes "sit in that f***ing chair and study" and i said "fine i was going to do that anyway" and so i sat down and she runs over and i flinch like any normal person would and curled up into a ball and she starts hitting me and pulling my hair and she smashes her face against mine and screams at the top of her lungs over and over again "don't give me a f***ing attitude do you f***ing understand me?!!!" so i said yes and then went upstairs and started to cry because i was so scared but then i figured "why bother caring. she does this all the time! it was worse last week whe i stood up for my dad when she was being a complete b**ch and she told me to go f*ck myself and gave me the finger and drove off so why be scared now?" but the truth is, i am scared. i have no trusted adults to talk to and friends who always just say "some people have it worse than you so shut up" i have nobody to reach out and i refuse to call hotlines because they will take me away or they will trace my number if i call as anonymous. im so scared because it seems like my whole life is a mess. im struggling with my mom and my sexuality. i told my friends i thought i was bi and one of them told another girl that i did not want to know and she told a bunch of others. it feels like i can not trust anyone anymore. please help me. i just want to curl up and die.
Do you ever talk to your dad about this? i think you should, if you dont. and i think you should tell him how scared you are and how you feel.
if you do that, or dont do that.. either way, you need to tell someone. i know you said that you dont have any trusted adults you can tell and your friends tell you to suck it up, and you dont want to be taken away.. but if you dont get help, your mom wont get help. and if shes already abusing you, your sister will most likely be next.. and i know that you dont want your sister to get hit either.
youre going through a hard time in your life, and its not your fault, at all.
heres a website you need to look at, it has a number you can call for help.. just scroll down to the bottom [i will also list the two that will help you, since i dont know what state you live in]
- http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/abuse/report-abuse-2/?gclid=CILXvpr-wqkCFY5x5QodKXgVgg
the first number: (800)-422-4453
the second number: (800)-799-7233
please, please call one of these numbers, or even the police. your mother should not be doing this to you. and she needs help. a school counselor, a teacher, a relative of yours [like an aunt or an uncle] you need to tell someone!
if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. hope i helped ! xxo.
I'm 18f and my boyfriend is 17m we have been together for almost 7 months; we have had our problems like most couples do, and we have got through it. He has a real bad problem with his anger, although he has never layed a hand on me before, or even came close; he just raises his voice at me often, and sometime curses. Well, there is this guy named Jesse. He's 17/m and he works with me, and went to the same school me and my boyfriend went to before we graduated this year; for the last three months, Jesse has had the biggest crush on me. He says he's in love with me and he's not going to stop waiting for me, and he doesn't want me to rush me and my boyfriend relationship; so he is going to wait patiently. I didn't believe him at first; I figured I'd give him a couple of weeks and he'd stop waiting and find someone else; NOPE. 3 months and he is still waiting; we having touched, or anything; so I don't see how he is in love with me; he tells everyone how he feels for me; and he seems very serious about it. He's a total sweetheart; which my boyfriend really isn't the type to have a way with words; and he doesn't really say sweet things to me as much as he should; (being a girl; we like to hear it!) I told him I was going to take my time with my boyfriend; and work out everything we can work through until we come across something that can't be worked through and I wasn't going to do anything to rush us breaking up. He understood and told me to take as long as I needed cause he'd still be there. We both agree if we are meant together we will end up together; The last month I have caught myself thinking about Jesse alot, and I think I have allowed myself to gain feelings for him; but I think its wrong, so I'm telling myself no. My life is about to really start. I graduated high school this May; and now I'm starting college for Medical. I have a car and a job; and I'm trying to figure out whats going to be best for my future. My boyfriend doesn't have a job or a car; and jesse had a job but no car; Riley wants to go to college but he doubts he will because he just wants to work; and Jesse wants to go to college for Culniary Arts;
I love my boyfriend dearly; and I've talked to him about this whole situation and he's hurt by it; and I completely understand; Ive thought about it for the last month and I'm torn. Do I stay with my boyfriend who we fight a little more than most; or try this new guy without knowing if it'll only bee a couple of month thing? Please help me out; I truely don't know what to do; at all.
from what youve told me, i think you're leaning towards taking a risk and trying someone new.
i know its scary and you dont know if youre making the right choice, but if jesse makes you smile and is already devoted to you, even though youre in a relationship, thats gotta mean something.
right now, youre moving on with your life. youre getting older and more serious, and your boyfriend isnt. he doesnt want to go to collge, he has no ambition to get a car and he'll probably be living off of you.
you have to think about whos being more serious. even your boyfriend doesnt tell you sweet things like riley does.
you KNOW whos better for you. you dont need me to tell you that. i just think youre apprehensive and nervous to let go of someone youve spent the past 7 months with. [almost 7] but in the scheme of things, 7 months isnt that long. youre having second thougts. jesse is there for you.. hes willing to wait.
take your time, but in my honest oppinion, i think jesse will be a better fit for you.
good luck, hope i helped. and im here if you need anything else ! :] xxo.
Ok so Im Gracie and Im 13. So I just got my period a couples of months ago, this is like my 3rd time. Anyway whenever I get my period For some reason I just feel really dirty or weird so I take lots of baths when Im on it. Everytime I take a bath or a shower I never,like bleed when Im in the water. Is that normal? I mean Im not complaining, Id rather not have blood everywhere (I know that's gross, sorry lol) but I was just wondering why. If I go swimming will the same thing happen? Will all the blood just stay inside me?
I actually bleed in the water too. haha. it just depends on your flow, everyones different !
but you should definitely wear a tampon in the water when you go swimming, just to be safe.
good luck ! hope i helped, xxo.
i liked this guy in my class
and everyone keeps on telling both of us that we make a great couple
but im not sure if he likes me back
he:
looks at me during class
he tells me everything(and im always the fist)
he always compliments me
he always laughs at my not so funny jokes
he keeps on telling me that im beautiful
he always listens to my advice and always gives me advice
my friends say that he doesnt ever stare at someone not even a girl the way he does(in a good way)
but today i was on msn with him and he randomly tells me that my best friend just asked him if he liked me(but he never told me his response)
Does he like me or not
(we are both in 6th grade)
yes :] it sounds like he does like you.
maybe you should ask him for advice, and give him hints that you like him throughout.. like, "so i like this guy, hes my friend, and we always talk and he calls me bautiful, but i dont know what to do."
or you could just ask him if he likes you.
or you could tell him you like him.
or you can just wait for him to tell you :]
anyways, good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
is it normal for a 13 yearold girl to not have had her first kiss yet? cause I haven't and idk I feel pressured to and like a prude just because I'm nervous too. it's okay to be nervous for your first kiss, right? how old were you guys when you had your first kiss?
Yes, it is totally normal for a 13 yeart old not to have had a first kiss yet.
dont feel pressured, everyone goes at their own pace :] i have a friend whos almost 19, and she still hasnt kissed anyone. so dont worry ! youre not a prude. let people think what they want to think. youre still so young.
and yes, its okay to be nervous for your first kiss, i was TERRIFIED. honestly, i freaked out. i had my first kiss around the age of 15/16. im 18 now, so really.. youre fine and normal.
when you feel its right, youll have your first kiss.. whether youre 13 or 30 :]
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
Love is relationship or sex?
love is a relationship.
love is a relationship with your family members, friends, and if you have a significat other.
if you have a significant other, its a relationship and when youre bothe ready/comfortable, it includes sex. but haveing sex doesnt mean love.
hope i helped ! good luck, xxo.
i need songs to tell my boyfriend how i feel. that i love him so much, please help! weve been going out for 8 months.
wellllll. mine and my boyfriend's song is; thompson square: ive got you.
but here are some others you might like:
- switchfoot: you.
- switchfoot: on fire.
- avril lavigne: smile.
- the starting line: the best of me.
- the spill canvas: so much.
- all time low: painting flowers.
- selena gomez: i promise you.
- selena gomez: naturally.
- teddy geiger: these walls.
- teddy geiger: youll be in my heart.
- jimmy robbins: turn it up.
- jimmy robbins: home to me.
- kesha: hallucination.
i have sooo many, so if you want more, just inbox me ! hope i helped. good luck, xxo.
ive read your column, and i see you have a boyfriend. im just really curious... what about him do you like? what attracted you to him? how does he feel about you being a virgin? is he a virgin too? just tell me generally about it. i have a project for health im doing and im basing it off of relationships. thanks! ill rate you.
im flattered that youve read my column haha, thank you. and yes, youre very observant ;] i do have a boyfriend. weve been together for a little over 6 months now. its funny though, because i liked him in 8th grade.. dated him frehsman year for like a month, and then cut off all communication with him because .. well, thats a long story, but still hahaa. and now, senior year, after i was in a terrible relationship for over a year, he texted me. out of the blue. we were in math class together.. and it was just.. fate. destiny.. whatever you wanna call it haha.
thats a little background information fo yuhh.
but anyways, i dont like things about him, i love everything about him. yeah, we can get on eachothers nerves sometimes, but what couple doesnt have that problem ? seriously. hes just fun. and awesome. and always there for me. i love him :] so much.
hmmm, what attracted me to him.. his personality. he was always shy and awkward around me and i loved that because i knew i effected him in that way :] his smile, his looks, his eyes.. his overall features just attracted me to him. he looks like the bad boy, but hes really not.
uhhh, about me being a virgin, i dont know. i think hes okay with it. i mean, im not really sure. I just know he doesnt pressure me into anything, which is what im so incredibly happy about. i go at my own pace and im actually comfortable enough with him.. this time around ;] hahaa. and no, hes not a virgin.
i just am in love with him. hes amazing. i wouldnt have it any other way. i love his family, his dogs, him.. i just love it. hahaa.
good luck with your project ! i hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.
Wat is a cute nickname for my boyfriend?!
hmmm, heres a few ideas:
-baby
-babe
-boo
-boobear
-bear
-monkey
-champ
-handsome
-hunk
-hunky
-stud
-stud muffin
-lamb
-prince
-superman
-cuddles
-cuddly
-cuddly bear
-honey bear
-tiger
-charming
-muffin
-love muffin
hope i helped ! good luck. xxo.
I'm 19 and a virgin. All of my friends have many partners and I'm still a virgin. Don't get me wrong, I'm no prude, I've done my share of things with guys and have had 2 long-term serious relationships and many opportunities to have sex. I feel like the reason why I'm still a virgin is because I'm afraid I'm going to get too close to that person. I guess I'm just one of those people who always have their guards up. But I feel like whenever I go to parties and we play never have i ever NOBODY is a virgin, and i mean nobody. People have made fun of me before saying things like "she's 19 and still a virgin!" and "i hope she loses it this summer"...but to be honest I don't want to until I know I have the right person. One of my "friends" always brings it up that I'm still a virgin at parties and I feel like its not necessary to just flat out tell people about my sex life. She has slept with 40 guys and I don't tell people that...I'm tired of being made fun of and looked down upon. How would you handle this?
im 18, and im still a virgin. and ive had and am in a long term relationship right now.
honestly. you just have to not care about what people think. you have morals and youre the girl guys are going to want to bring home to their moms.
you can do all of three things:
- brush it off and let it go [ignore it].
- stand up for yourself.
- let it get to you and peer pressure you into being like them.
and i KNOW youre not going to do the third option :] which im proud of you for. but i stand up for myself. im PROUD to be who i am and im proud ot be a virgin. im not a prude either, but i have no problem admitting im a virgin. im just waiting for the right time, the right guy, and someone who i know i can trust and who wont just leave me, because i am also afraid of getting close to people. and honestly.. losing your virginity is something that is very meanigful.. and for the girls who just give it away, dont respect themselves. at least you can say your clean and that you respect your body/morals. because the people who make fun of you are only trying to make themselves feel better.
i always tell myself that kind of stuff when people make fun of me, im almost 19.. i can think for myself, i dont need anyone else's opinions on how i choose to live my life. if someone has different views, fine. and if they wish to share their views with me WHILE making fun of me, ill go right back at them and stuck up for myself. it shuts them up real quick. you just have to be confident with yourself :] and i believe that you are.
dont let assholes get to you. i know how you feel, completely.
good luck ! i hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
How do you French kiss/make out? What does it feel like?
well, you start off with just a kiss [ a regular kiss, closed mouth] and then you open your mouth a little, and both of your tongues will touch and you basically like.. massage eachothers tongues with your tongues.. if that makes sense. haha.
i cant really describe the feeling to you, because some people like it, some people dont. it depends on who youre french kissing, and the feeling that person gives you.
with my boyfriend, its fun and playful and feels good. it give you butterflies in your stomach.
but some people cant get past the fact that another person's saliva and tongue are invading their mouth.. so thats what it feels like.. another tongue in your mouth and your tongue in someone elses mouth.
well.. i hope i helped ! good luck, xxo.
I have a really hard time to get guys to like me. I flirt with them, but I don't know if they like the way I'm flirting, or maybe they don't like me at all. What should I do?
all guys like different things. its a matter of opinion, so you cant pin point what EVERY guy likes. but mostly, they like playful remarks and girls with a sense of humor. you also have to be confident. seriously, confidence is key.. its a huge turn on for guys.
if they like your flirting, then theyll flirt back. and youll know.
you should just keep flirting. everyone flirts differently, so dont worry about what anyone else thinks, and just go with the flow. if you think about it too much, itll make you even more nervous, and less confident. you have to just be yourself.. no matter how cliche that sounds. boys like natural girls.
but dont act stupid or dumb around guys. this isnt flirty or attractive whatsoever. theyll just think your ditzy and craving attention 24/7.. which is not a turn on for guys at all.
im sure youre flirting just fine. theres really no right way to flirt. trust me. you have your own style :] im sure. so just be confident and be you.
good luck, have fun, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me; hope i helped ! xxo.
i've been dating this guy for 3 months now, and when we cuddle with eacother, he usually puts his hand on my stomach a lot. Not only that, but when we hold hands, he sometimes nibbles on my fingers. what does his actions mean? female/17
hes probably just testing your limits and seeing what youre comfortable with and not comfortable with.
these actions could also mean that he wants to go to the next step with you, which probably means kissing you.
or he could just be doing it to be playful :] lots of guys do this.
hes just comfortable with you.
[it could also be all of the above]
maybe ask him next time, and see what he says. communication is key !
hope i helped, good luck and have fun ! xxo.
Is it ok if I put peanut butter on my vagina then let my dog lick it?
NO !
NONONONONONONONO !
NO.
xxo.
I'm just wondering, is it against the law to hit a girl? Because there is this girl in my class who i wanna smack, would i get in trouble? If it helps i live in Ontario, Canada. Thanks
yes... it is against the law.
dont do it.
xxo.
So I've been dating this guy for about seven months but I've been wanting to take it reeeally slow because he's seventeen, gonna be a junior and I'm fifteen, gonna be a sophomore. The other day I let him finger me and it was the first thing I've done anything like that but he's pretty experienced though haha he's pretty much done everything including sex but he told me he'd be patient with me and he really has been. He's never pressured me or anythinng. Anyway that's not what the questions about. While it was happening, he had two fingers in and it felt fine I guess, I was a little uncomfortable. And he could kind of tell but then he started trying to get a third finger in and I was like ouchh, like it reallyyy hurt. so he stopped and was kind of like "that hurts?? really??" not in a mean way, but suprised. He kind of chuckled a little bit too. And then we just kept kissing and didn't talk about it. I'm not bothered but I'm confused. Is that not normal? Like are most girls able to get more? I don't reallyy wanna bring it up with him haha and if thats abnormal should I be concerned?
nooo. youre not experienced. which is not a bad thing, trust me.
it hurt because you're tight. you havent had anything in there, except maybe tampons [if you use them] so its normal that it would hurt. your fine. one finger first would probably be best, then two, and then later on three.
he was also probably surprised because all of the girls he has been with have been more expereinced [dont be ashamed of your innocence, its super normal, and youre still young. im the same way haha, but im 18]
you should not be concerned :]
i hope i helped ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. good luck, xxo.
Okay so here's the thing, I'm a 13 yearold girl and one of my best guy friends liked me, but apparently he stopped cause he has a girlfriend and I don't really like her and I dont wanna see them go out cause I don't think there good together. But the day before they started going out I started to get feelings for him. I dont no what to do and I know I shoudlnt be upset by this but I am. and sad, so if anyone knows how to help me with this. PLEASE do :)
i know you like him, but you dont want to break up him and his girlfriend by telling him how you feel. just because you dont like her, doesnt mean she shouldnt have a chance with him.
theyre going out now, and youre only 13... theres plenty of guys out there, youre young. so is he. they probably wont be together forever, so youll eventually have your chance [if you dont find someone else by then ;)] but for right now, you dont want to get the label as "home-wrecker."
lets put it this way:
if you were his girlfriend, and a girl felt the way you do now, and she didnt like you and wants to be with your boyfriend, possibly try to break you two up... how would you feel ?
.. im sure you wouldnt feel too good about it. so i suggest that you just let everything play out by itself. see how things go for now, and then talk to him about your feelings [if you still have them] later on. but just keep your options open and try to catch some other fish in the sea ;]
i know youre sad, but youll be okay. hes stll your best guy friend, so just keep it that way for now.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
Hi! Im Gracie and Im 13 years old. I have an older brother named Matt(16) and a twin sister called (Lissa). Our dad is a single parent. Hes 36, he and my mom had kids really young. Hes 2 years older than mom. Dad says my mom had depression, I think it was Post Partnum depression. Anyway, My mom left a few months after we were born. Me and Lissa were 8 wks early so we had to stay in the hospital longer than most babies. Mom left a few months after we got out. The thing is, Ive been feelin a little upset lately and Ive been thinkin about my mom alot. I love my dad, he's the best dad in the world but I really wish my mom were around. Dad doesnt get things like boys and periods and hair and make-up. Its embarassing when I have to talk to my friends mom about periods and what to take for pain and its kinda annoying when I have to come on this website and ask people I dont even know about things that my mom should have been here to tell me (although I am grateful for the advice everyone here on advicenators give me, I didnt mean to be offensive guys). I just see other girls with their moms hanging out or going to school stuff and its not fair. Everyone tells me that I shouldnt get upset about something I cant change, but I cant help it. I try to get over it but I cant. Its stupid but I miss my mom even though I never got to know her. I guess I want to know how to stop feeling so bad about my mom, and how to get over it? Ive spent my whole life thinking about my mom and how great it would be if she came home and how awesome it would be to have a mom around like all my friends do. But Im soo sick of thinking about stuff that'll never happen but I STILL cant stop wondering, why did she leave? Why didnt she love me enough to stay? I really wanna forget about it, and stop caring because If she cared about me at all she would be here,right? Anyway, sorry for rambling and venting soo much, I sound pathetic lol. Any advice?
nono, you dont sound pathetic at all ! anybody in your position would feel the same way. and i cant say that i know how you feel, but i understand why you feel the way you do.
have you ever thought about talking to a therapist ? maybe a counselor in your school ? sometimes, talking to a professional really helps with what you have to deal with because what youre going through is not easy.
but you have to remember how many people in your life love and care about you. you have your dad, your brother, your siser, your friends.. a lot of people care about you. and i know it sucks that your mom just up and left your family, but you still have a family and thats not going to change.
i also know it sucks to have to ask about your personal stuff with people you dont know or people who dont really know you.. maybe you could talk to an aunt you have or a grandma. but if you dont have those people in your life either, you always have your friends, and your friend's moms and your dad. you ALWAYS have them. even though it might not be who you want, but theyre always going to be here for you.
you just have to look on the bright side. you have your health, your family, love, friends, the future... you cant dwell on the past. yes, your mom left.. but she left for her own reasons, you have to be stronger than she was. show everyone how strong you are, because you ARE strong.
youll never forget what happened, and that your mom left.. but you can use that memory to strenghten you instead of weaken you. let it be the motivation to not be like your mom, and to help yourself. talk to people. vent. see a therapist, and everything will get better. time is key.
maybe write about how you feel [poems, stories, songs.. etc] or sing, or draw.. anything to get your feelings out. involve yourself in a sport or a hobby, maybe even volunteer work to busy yourself with. hang out with your friends. just try to be happy and occupy your brain :] youll be okay, i promise.
i hope i helped ! good luck and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.