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My boy, "best friend."
Okay so here's the thing, I'm a 13 yearold girl and one of my best guy friends liked me, but apparently he stopped cause he has a girlfriend and I don't really like her and I dont wanna see them go out cause I don't think there good together. But the day before they started going out I started to get feelings for him. I dont no what to do and I know I shoudlnt be upset by this but I am. and sad, so if anyone knows how to help me with this. PLEASE do :)
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You feel competitive with the other girl for him. This isn't a constructive way to think. You have to accept things as they are and move on. It is likely that if they break up he will turn to you since relationships at your age tend to be rather shortlived. So relax and deal with what you can control rather than what you cannot.
Besides, it gives you more of an opportunity to meet a guy even better than the one you're interested in.
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i know you like him, but you dont want to break up him and his girlfriend by telling him how you feel. just because you dont like her, doesnt mean she shouldnt have a chance with him.
theyre going out now, and youre only 13... theres plenty of guys out there, youre young. so is he. they probably wont be together forever, so youll eventually have your chance [if you dont find someone else by then ;)] but for right now, you dont want to get the label as "home-wrecker."
lets put it this way:
if you were his girlfriend, and a girl felt the way you do now, and she didnt like you and wants to be with your boyfriend, possibly try to break you two up... how would you feel ?
.. im sure you wouldnt feel too good about it. so i suggest that you just let everything play out by itself. see how things go for now, and then talk to him about your feelings [if you still have them] later on. but just keep your options open and try to catch some other fish in the sea ;]
i know youre sad, but youll be okay. hes stll your best guy friend, so just keep it that way for now.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
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