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Hey!!!! It's Alyssa!!! I'm currently a level 1 moderator!

[a]ge: 14
[b]irthday: March 27
[c]andy choice: CHOCOLATE!!!!
[d]rink of choice: Coke or Gatorade
[e]xciting things happening:Pennsylvania
[f]ood of choice: Chinese or Mexican
[g]reastest acheievement: superior @ theatre fest!!
[h]ottest guy on the planet: Sean Faris!!!!
[i]ndoor activity: dance
[j]unk food of choice: chips and dip!!!
[k]oolaid of choice: grape
[l]ove: GUYS!!!!! and Dance!! duh!
[m]usic of choice: POP!!!!
[n]icest friends: Chelsea!!!
[o]bsession: DANCE!!! duh!
[p]izza place of choice: Pizza Hut!!!!
[q]uestion most asked: about styles!!!
[r]adio station: 96.7 kiss F.M.!!!! duh!!!
[s]aturday activity: mall or friends house!!!
[t]ake out food: chinese!!!
[u]r favorite movie: Mean Girls!!!
[v]ery best friend: Chelsea!!!!
[w]hat you wear: everything!!!
[x]yz??? look down idiot!!!
[y]our favorite singer: i have a lot!!!!
[z]odiac sign: ARIES!!!!!

I'm always here when you need me!! So ask me ANYTHING!!!

advice

Question: I have the "Partika" or whatever layout on my site, and I want to make it so that the scrollbar isn't that plain old blue color. I got the HTML code to change it, but I don't know where to put the code. I put it in the Personal Profile (or something like that) box, but it just deleted itself. Where am I supposed ot put it? And is it even possible to change the scrollbar color with this layout? Thanks in advance.

i think you put it in the colum settings box! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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ok well im bulimic..im trying to deal with my problem but i haven't been doing it for that long but like everytime i stick my fingers down my throat it like feels like i scratch something in the same spot everytime and then it starts bleeding..is that the reason its bleeding?
xO thanks

there is a reason why it is bleeding. you have acid in your stomach that burns the inside of your mouth! you really should tell your mom that you have this problem! she won't be mad, she'll be happy that your going to her for help! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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For v - day... if i got my boyfriend two little teddy bears... (ones a girl and ones a boy)... that have magnetic noses so its like they are kissing... would that be too girly like giving him teddy bears and stuff?

personally, for a boy that is way to girly! sorry! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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My fourteen year old daughter has been going out with this nineteen year old boy since the beginning of January, first of all she lied to me saying that he was sixteen. I am quite worried about this. Can somebody help me and tell me what I should be doing. She is my only daughter, in fact my only child. I am worried. Help.

you need to break them up! first of all, your the mom, you have a say-so in her relationships, second of all, it's illegal for her to be doing that! if they've done anything, it's rape! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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I have an extremely sore throat. It wouldn't be a big deal but I have singing try-outs for the school play on Tuesday. Does anyone know how to heal a sore throat fast? Thanks.

i would just go to the store and get sor throat medicine or cough drops. the sooth your throat! hope this helps! and good luck w/ the tryouts!

~Alyssa

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well my friend sarah is away at camp this weeekend. so her little sister spent the night at my house. she hung out with me n stuff.. and she was telling me about all the foul/rude/mean things sarah says about me.

1..* she said that im trying to steal a guy named bob that likes her. she concluded that just becasue ive talked to him a few times on the internet. im so not that kind of person! i wouldnt "steal" a guy from my best friend.. thats so messed up!

2..* she said that i am lame and i cant get any of my own friends cause i talk to hers. omg i have so many friends. thats not why i talk to hers, im just trying to be friendly so if i ever see them i wont be shy or anything.

theres otheres but they're not important.

what do i do? shes gonna call me today and idk what to say to her. im so upset with her, and im pissed she actually says things like that about me! help!

*Me

you don't need friends like that! if she really thinks that way about you, kick her to the kirb! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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Wow i am slow and dumb i do not know how do get back rounds on a page on advicenators. Can some one help me out :). I know i am dumb

1. go to colum settings
2.go to the URL website it has
3. pick a background!!!

your not dumb!

~Alyssa

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I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for 2 months and 1 week. I really like him and all..but sometime he bugs me so much!! I kind of miss being single and I dont know what to do..
and i dont want to break up with him...ugh..i'm sucha mess...please tell me your answer

well, whatever he does (ex. if he would call you on the phone like every 5 sec.) then just poliley ask him to stop! he'll understand! hope this helps!

~alyssa

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Im kind of unsure about what to do about this one guy I like. I've liked him for a long time and he knows I like him but he doesnt know if he likes me. Last night we went to a party together but the party was really weak. Me and him never danced and all everyone did was chill and talk and eat..and listen to music. There were a bunch of instances of him flirting with me but sometimes him and one of my friends would gang up on me and sometimes they went to far and really got on my nerves. He says that when he does that stuff, hes only playing and he doesnt want to hurt anyone and if he ever does, hes sorry. But now I dont really know what to do. The first time me and him actually went somewhere together and it turned out so lame. I want to go to the next school dance with him but hes going with one of his old friends. He doesnt like her like that but you know how it is when you have a friend you've been friends with for a looong time. I have to admit though, I am a bit jealous.
So anyway, I want to ask him if he likes me because I think Ive given him enough time to decide and next weekend I might go over his house if he wants. His mother already invited me over. I just need some advice on what I should do about all this. I'm still kind of bummed out about the turn-out of the party...

just ask him to save a dance for you! i'm sure he'll say yes! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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okay im bout 4 9 1/2 grl and weigh bout 80-90 lbs. and i want to become thinner idk why but so many ppl cal me fat so then i start beleving them even though i shouldnt does anyone have a safe way to lose bout 5 lbs and is this normal to feel this way? i rate high unless you give ma a stupid answer

DON'T LISTEN TO THEM!!!! your a perfect weight for your size! don't let ppl get to you like that! it is normal to feel this way, but if you really want to loose weight then you can run, or do crunches! hope this helps!

~alyssa

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I was bullied at the age of eleven by my so called best friend, because she was jealous of what I had. This made me depressed from a very young age.
The weird thing is, I'm still friends with this girl now. She's changed, and after all she was only young when she did this to me.
However, the bullying still scars me. This girl and I are forever competing with each other for peoples attention and we argue often. We never talk about the past because it's over now, but I think we're both hurt inside.
What should I do?

well if i were you i would talk about it to her and ask her why she would bully you and everything. that way you could find out why. hope this helps!

~alyssa

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Well, to make a long story short.. I like this guy. He has just recently broke up with his girlfriend but they are always on and off and he said this is the last time hes going back to her. And he says its over. This time he said serisouly that he isnt going back to her, and i really belive it. I don't know how to tell him that I like him and were doing this thing together with alot of other people like a play thing. I'm really not sure how to bring this up .. help please, and thanks in advance.

-inlovex3

well just get one of your friends to tell him that you like him! or write a note to him saying "i like you". it's nerve racking i know but if it will get you a good guy, it's worth it!

~Alyssa

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im about 4'11'' and i always have a really hard time finding clothes that fit me especially pants. im like size 1 for most jeans and stuff and i usually wear extra small shirts. where can i go to get clothes that fit me? if u need more info tell me. i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off!

well...you could shop @ any where they sell jr. clothing! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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ok im basicly a dancer vollyball chick yea know the flexible thing but not good with ice.. ok so in gym class the past week weve been playing arena games and i found out its a lot more work playing out there without skates on!! and i go to the gym everyday with my sister soo ive been puttin myself threw a lot but im used to the gym soo i know thats not my problem but when we play on the ice i slip and fall and have to use alot of muscle just to keep myself up .. if theres anyone out there that can help me out with tips onto how to stay up better and to use less muscle that be great thanks!!!

what...?

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Okay I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I have been talking about having sex. Well I have a few questions....

1) I'm not a virgin but I told him I was. The 1st and only guy I had sex with was very small and I was wondering if my (virgin) boyfriend would be able to tell I wasn't.

2) Also...after sex do things change between the two people?

i don't think there's anyway he can tell and they definetly do change! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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well my boyfriend is really sick! and he is in the hospitol and i am worried about him! and i want to go and see him and he hasn't told me that he is there cause he doesn't want me to see him like that and hes afraid that i won't like him cause hes sick! but his mom called and told me and in 3 days we would be going out for 3 months, so i was wondering if i should go see him then? and to tell him that i do care about him and i don't care if hes sick or not because i love him? soo just let me now wat u think and if its the right idea?

i would just maybe suprise him one day by just going there! you guys really need to be together! he needs support now more than ever! hope this helps!

~Alyssa
P.S.- hope he gets better!

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hey first of all thanx to advicenators for helping people in their problems...i have a problem of my own..my bestfriend and this guy love each other to death and the guy LOVES HER TO DEATH but the thing here in egypt is that not alot of ppl prefer to date now so they dont date but they see each other in school and they talk on the phone and they go out and all but the girl feels that she needs to be loved she perfectly knows that but she needs to feel that he cares for her and he's too shy to make a move and now after 3 years together she finally decided to leave him and i dont want her to do that so i wanna help them...can u help me to help them??? thnx

well maybe if their parents saw how much they really care about each otehr they'll be okay w/ it? hope this helps!

~alyssa

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my b.f n i have been dating for about a couple of weeks n hes the sweetest guy i've ever met and we do everything together but idk wat to get him for v-day! hes 15 (16 in may) and hes into baseball and basketball! and i want to get him something that he'll like and not something stupid! something to show that i care n i love hiM! i need ideas please help

you could get these @ academy. the have the huge baseballs that you could get all his friends to sign and then give it to him. i did that for my b/f last year! hope this helps!

~alyssa

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respected advicenators,
well i am from india, and currently doing my master of science in life sciences- biotechnology.
but after completing the course this year i would like to for mba. well how is my decision? secondly, should i do a job first gain an experience and then go for an mba or just start preparing for mba entrance without and job experience.
i have taken this decision since i am not interested in research jobs. please to provide me a proper advice. i am really very confused.
thanking you.

if i were you, i would go for a different job first, the more experience, the better you'll be @ your next job! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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Hey! Okay...really gross problem (and I only want you to answer if u have had the same problem and had it fixed) well i sweat really bad. Even without doing physical activity...it's really gross and I'm sure people notice it cause you can see it through my clothes (under my arms). I've tried lots of deoderant and baby power and it doesn't work...what should I do?

all that you need is deoderant w/ an anti-persperant in it. it will stop the sweat and the smell. Trust me!

~alyssa

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