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hes sick


Question Posted Sunday January 30 2005, 11:38 am

well my boyfriend is really sick! and he is in the hospitol and i am worried about him! and i want to go and see him and he hasn't told me that he is there cause he doesn't want me to see him like that and hes afraid that i won't like him cause hes sick! but his mom called and told me and in 3 days we would be going out for 3 months, so i was wondering if i should go see him then? and to tell him that i do care about him and i don't care if hes sick or not because i love him? soo just let me now wat u think and if its the right idea?

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HellsBells answered Sunday January 30 2005, 7:03 pm:
It's great that you're prepared to support him. I think you should call his Mum and arrange a time to see him. Ask her to keep it a secret if need be so you can surprise him. My b'f came to see me when I was in hospital and it made me feel so much better. So yes, if you can handle the illness and his Mum thinks he can, why not :o) Hope he gets better soon.

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hottdancer134 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 1:22 pm:
i would just maybe suprise him one day by just going there! you guys really need to be together! he needs support now more than ever! hope this helps!

~Alyssa
P.S.- hope he gets better!

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Wowitzbrit answered Sunday January 30 2005, 12:46 pm:
Aww its a really good idea to go see him. Then he knows you really care about him. You should buy him something to make him feel better. I hope he gets better. Good luck.

<3 - Brit

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heddo answered Sunday January 30 2005, 12:45 pm:
You should definately go and see him. Just visiting him will tell him that you love and care for him even if he's sick.

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X0O_d0lL_faCe_O0X answered Sunday January 30 2005, 12:36 pm:
yea .. i think you should go see him then. you should say that evan if you are sick like this i will love you no matter what.. and you are thinking all the right ideas .. Happy 3 Monthsz :)

Dannie

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acsd answered Sunday January 30 2005, 12:34 pm:
i would deffinatly go visit him..even though hes telling you not to come, it will make him feel so much better if you came. bring him something he likes, like a movie, so you guys can watch it together on the tv in the hospital room...trust me, he'll like it alot!
&hearts;

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drjwlc4 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 12:15 pm:
wow thats weird cause me and my boyfriend will be going out for 3 months in 3 days to i think that you should go and tell him how you feel about him and you dont care because everyone gets sick and he is in the hospital and i am sure that you are all he thinks about so go to the hospital and tell him how you feel maybe by him a gift like a stuffed animal or something i am sure that you and that little stuffed animal will help him feel better
hope i helped
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drjwlc4

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Berri answered Sunday January 30 2005, 12:12 pm:
I can understand why he'd be embarrassed of you seeing him while he's laid up in a hospital bed. I'd be the same way. BUT, I think that deep down, I'd want my boyfriend to come visit me if I were sick. It shows how much you truly care about him, no matter what.

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LexybelNLisa answered Sunday January 30 2005, 12:10 pm:
Yes, i think its a really good idea.. he doesnt want you to see him how he is right now, but im sure deep down inside he really needs you and I think you being there will really make his day, especially the whole 3 month aniversary day. Just tell him you love him no matter what, and even when he feels like who looks like crap you still love him. Maybe dont use those exact words.. but just tell him you love him for more than just how he looks all the time, you know? Also, bring him flowers to put in his hospital room, and something he'd like.. hope that helps! and i hope he gets better VERY VERY soon

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