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Dare to be Great Moment...
several years ago, I was best friends with this girl , we were each others confidant, and could tell anything to each other. The rest of the crowd really didn't matter if we were together. It was after a year of knowing her that I realized that I was absolutely in love with her. I didn't do anything at that point because I was in the middle of applying for school.
It's been a couple of years now, and I'm still in love with her. She went off to college in another state, and our lives have gone off in different directions. Her life has changed (she's popular, beautiful etc. which she wasn't in high school), so i don't talk to her anymore, but I still can't get her out of my mind. I haven't been able to date or even be interested in another girl- because I know that she was the one for me. We both graduate next year, and I'm wondering if I should just lay it all on the line, and offer her my heart. WHat do you think? I rate well. -LloydDobbler-
P.S. This is a really complicated story and if you want to help me beyond this, i'd appreciate it.
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You should go for it. You only live once and I wouldn't put it off until I graduated if I were you. You never know if tomorrow will come or not. J
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Sometimes we hide our feelings because we are afraid of the answer. The first thing you need to do is start talking to her again. You have to re-establish the lines of communications. Then you work your way back into her life. So whwn this is done she will be able to confide in you again. Right now yoy are like a starnger to her because of the time frame. A couple of years can change someone, so you need to see if she is the same person you fell in love with. If she is great! If not at least you will know and be able to move on to find the right person.
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as a girl's point of view i think you should tell her...it is a lond over due thing you should've told her a long time ago - not to make you feel bad- but if you really love her and you would do anything for her all i have to say is go for it...good luck... i hope she feels the same way...
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tell her.
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lissin you were really close friends rite?.
so why dont u go ahead and find her # and call her. if you two were really goods friends ,like u said then i think she would be quite happy to hear from you ...sure she is popular but i am sure her personality is still the same ,
if you go ahead and talk to her and tell her how you feel and she feels he same way ...then alls well...but if she doesnt... i know you will feel beeter just knowing that you told her your feelings.
just dont back away from telling her cause you will soo regret it FOREVER
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You need to look her up. True love doesn't happen very often. If you are sure that she is the one for you, don't let her get away. You will regret it for the rest of your life.
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well maybe you should get her # and maybe call her and then you to start to talk like every day and then you guys finally see each other and then you offer her your heart it seems like she liked you to and have you guys talked since hyigh school? well just give her a call get on a plane find out were she lives and go to her house and suprise her well i hope i helped and every thing works out
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You need to tell her how you feel about her. Even if she doesn't feel the same way back, you'll be happy knowing you told her. Then maybe you can move on with your life and start loving someone else. Some people when their bestfriends, one falls for eachother or they both do. Their just scared to tell eachother because they could lose a great friendship. Maybe she did have a crush on you back in highschool and didn't want to tell you. But you should tell her, no matter what the outcome.
♥ Krissy
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Dont let her slip away without telling her how you feel! This will be one of the greatest regrets of your life if you dont let her know the way you feel! Just think..in 20 years you wouuld STILl think.."what if i talked to her about how i felt?" It will bother you to the grave! Even if she does reject you..its not the end of the world. You can live your life knowing you didnt keep your feelings bottled up..and you wont have to live life wondering what could have happened if you told her how you feel. Go for it..dont hold back!
If you have anything else you would like advice on feel free to drop me something in my inbox..i would love to help more if you need
-melissa-
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Think about this: Which would you rather have? A definite answer, or spend your life wondering what could have been? I think that you need to tell this girl how you feel. Whether she rejects you or not, you'll be glad you asked.
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