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Hey I'm Francesca!I know I havent been through everything, but I have had my share, and I would be glad to help you!
Ever broken any bones? How about rules?
What are the 3 things about you that you wouldn't want me to know?
1) I fall in love too fast 2) I HATE my body 3) I hide everything I feel
What is your favorite food color?
Purple
Do you sleep thru thunders and storms?
No, i'm a very light sleeper.
Are you a dog or a cat person, or rather prefer a comodo dragon?
i love cats, but I have a dog cause i'm allergic to cats.
What is the single feature people compliment about you the most?
My legs
Are you ALSO scared of spiders?
I don't like them.
What is your biggest fear, except for spiders?
Death, afterlife.
Name your most favorite part of day?
Daytime
Ever had an imaginary friend as a child?
Yes, her name was Masa
Ever been in an accident?
I have been in a car accident.
Have you ever stolen anything from a store or from someone?
I stole lotion from my grandma...
What are your turn on's and turn offs?
on's: attractive, loves God
off's: rude, having a "big head"
Are you a morning person?
I'm a morning and a night person.
What are your most favorite and least favorite foods?
Most: sushi
Least: black olives
Name the one piece of clothing you can't live without.
A bra
Do you have tattoos or piercings? If yes, how many and where are they?
I have a tattoo down my spine that says 'you are the light of the world'
My ears are pierced twice and my cartilage is pierced and my belly button is pierced.
What is/was your least favorite subject in school?
Math
Do you take showers in the morning or at night more?
After I exercise
What are the most important 3 things in your life?
1) God 2) my family 3) my friends
advice
I have known my fiancé for about 4 years now, in that time he has become my other half, my light, love, and joy. Sadly he had to move away due to work and it has become harder and harder to even talk. I feel torn apart because I miss him so much and it doesn't feel like it used to anymore, dating and all. I trust him, and know he would never cheat. I'm not worried about that. I'm scared of the loneliness I feel every night without him. I don't think about other men, just him. But it tears my heart apart knowing I can't reach him as easily as before. I know I would rather be lonely then not have him at all but I also feel caged. What can I do to get over this sadness? I feel like I've been trying to avoid it but now it's bubbling up...
How far away did he move? Why don't you visit him more often, or better yet move there by him! If those aren't really options than i suggest talking to him more often. I know you said it is hard to call him but come on, everybody has a few extra minutes every once and awhile to call someone!
Also, skype each other! Every day you can get on before he goes to work and say hey good morning! And at night you can say goodnight! It's a great way to see each other and feel close. Also what I do with my friends when I miss them is we constantly send pictures to each other. When we are sitting in class we send silly faces and just random pictures that show what we are doing. It's really fun!
I hope everything works out!
i want to see real boobs, porn websites are blocked here,can anyone know a girl who show her tits in webcam,i am 20
Get a magazine with pictures.
Or go onto a chat website and I guarantee you can find someone.
Im 11 how do I get a girl to have sex with me
Are you being serious?
I'm going to be 100% honest with you here:
Your ELEVEN. You should be thinking about what snack your going to eat at school tomorrow, not which girls pants you can get into easiest. If your 11 and already wanting to have sex than i can almost guarantee that your going to end up with an STD very soon. Stop thinking about having sex and focus on school and your future.
Is it attractive to wear your heart on your sleeve? Is this something that can be or become a weakness overtime?
Amin
Are you a boy or a girl?
Personally for me I dislike overly emotional people. I find it annoying, boy or girl. I probably would not date a guy like that or be friends with a girl like that.
Okay, so. I've just started having intercourse with a guy with a slightly shorter than average penis. I'm not very experienced when it comes to sex personally, so I am sort of clueless about this stuff. I love him and his penis, but I feel like he would maybe be more happy with his performance if we could work out some positions that work better than missionary.
So, which positions are advantageous for smaller guys?
I would try doggie style.
I am a female, 13 going on fourteen. It's been about a year since i've seen this kid. He was the only reason I'd look forward to gym. But ... He was a special ed kid, still is. He never talked, hardly said a word to anyone. You'd think he was a fifth grader (then I was in seventh grade) but he was too in seventh grade, and we were the same age. He was small, inaudible, socially awkward, child-like, innocent. I was very attracted to him and because of that, it made me feel like bursting into tears. I know, I know, in a sentimental mood... But I felt like I loved him and now that I left that school (currently homeschooling) I miss him so much and i cant get him off my mind. I utterly regret never speaking to him because, yes what a big surprise, I was really nervous. And yes I'll admit it to the world, I really adore this special kid, and I'm very afraid I will never see him again. I am stuck. What should i do? Thanks.
Your infatuation with this boy is so adorable! I'm sort of confused as to how you like this boy though? Is it just a friend way or is it a boyfriend way or sexual?
Nonetheless, I would say you need to go back to the gym where you have seen him and next time he is there check if he is with anyone. Is his mom with him? Is he with a friend? If you don't think he can talk than go up to whoever is with him and introduce yourself and tell them you would like to be his friend. Going up to him and saying this will not help since he can't talk.
I hope this works well for you!
Well it was my sophmore year in high school and their entered a girl in my spanish class and oo how she took my breath away right that second she looked at me. I didn't know what to do so i sat next to her and started getting to know her and my feelings for her started to grow . I couldn't tell her how i felt because i had a gf and i was very confused. Never in my life had i felt so amazingly happy inside. Turned out i never got the chance to tell her how i feel and i can honestly say she was probably the love of my life . I loved her but couldn't tell her and i regret not doing it because she was my soulmate. Now she's gone and is in Washington and i want to go up and tell her everything i feel about her but i don't have enough money to go up their. Im so busy with football and don't have time to get a job but for her id do anything to just get that chance to tell her everything i wanted to back then. I don't know what to do but i know i have to keep trying because she is the love of my life and what sucks was that she really liked me also but never told me cause i had a gf . Help me i don't know what to do i miss her so much and i wanna see her so badly . She's everything a guy could ask for. help me plz
Firstly I would like to say that it is so adorable that you had love at first site, that is so precious. But to the actual advice, definitely do not go to Washington unannounced and show up proclaiming your love, it will freak her out and end up bad. If you still have a girlfriend, break up with her. Cheating is the last thing you want to do because she will be completely turned off if she finds out. Next, you need to get your thoughts together and call her. Don't start off with saying how much you love her and y'all are soul mates cause that might freak her out. Tell her that you have liked her for a long time, since the first time you laid eyes on her and that you would really like to get to know her better. You can't just keep living knowing your missing out on her so take charge and tell her!
Best of luck.
hi please answer! i need help please i\'m sorry is to long!
ok well i\'m in 7th grade nd i like this really cute guy that i think he likes me because he stares at me allot! so like i tough he really liked me i asked my frend if se could ask him so she did she asked do u like her? nd He said its not of your business is beetween me nd her Nervous soo den 3 days passed nd a frend told me that she heard that his brother that\'s on a grade more than him told him that i told him if he liked me two last year so my crush said ohh ok so i\'m not going out with her nd den 2 days passed nd he stared at me with like sad like thinking i don't knoe how to explain it nd that same day my frend told him the same nd he said no with his head down nd kinda sad nd den when she left another of my frend told me that she heard him telling a guy saying stupid girl o my gosh I can\'t believe he said that! it\'s cause i think he really likes me but is scared that he would be hurt i think he doesn\'t wants to go out with me because of what his brother told him nd yeah i asked his brother! omg i should\'ve not asked him but last year i asked him nd my crush is new to this school he wasn\'t here last year i didn\'t knew they were brothers nd yeah i understand that his big brother doesn\'t want him to get hurt but i really like him! how can i knoe the true? Please help i\'m sure i really like him nd i think he likes me to! Please help!
First of all, STOP and i repeat STOP sending your friend to ask him if he likes you. It's completely immature and i know your in seventh grade but even for a seventh grader that is immature. if you want to know if he likes you ask him YOURSELF! It's not that hard, even though it might be nerve racking it is the best decision and if he says yes than you can tell him you like him too!
Asking him is the only way you will know the truth.
Good luck!
Hi,I'm Jazz and I'm 14.My bestfriend Damaris and Jasmine asked me to go to homecoming with them.I agreed,because I need to find something to bring up my mood.But now,I just don't wanna go anymore.
Whenever they ask me to do something with them,I say no,because I prefer to be locked up in my room alone,but they don't know that.
How do I tell her I don't wanna go to homecoming or her fifteenth b-0day bash,without making her think I don't wanna spend time with her?
hey Jazz, it sounds like your a little bit depressed? I'm sorry about that and i'm sorry you feel like you would rather be alone than hangout with your friends :( If this is something you would like to change there are lots of things you can do to be happy! I have gone through this and I started going to therapy and now I love being with my friends and having fun.
If this is not something you are looking for than there is an easy fix to your problem! Just be completely honest with your friends, tell them you would rather not go, it's nothing against them you would just rather be by yourself! I know if you are honest with them than they will understand.
I hope it works out!
I'm a girl and i am 16 yrs. old , and me and my guy friend will be dating very shortly and he has asked me for a kiss but it just never happened yet. I am 5'4 and he is really tall he is 5'11 , i never dated someone soo much taller then me but anyways i am soo nervous to kiss him i do not know what to do , i kinda want to make the first move so the pressure can be over but i don't know how to,i get a little nervous around him and he is drastically taller then me.... please help !
Have you ever kissed anyone before? Kissing comes naturally, it's nerve racking any time you kiss someone for the first time but once your lips touch it turns completely natural and your body just takes over! If you want to make the first move than i suggest doing it when y'all are sitting so it's not awkward with the height difference! Just stare into his eyes for a few seconds and start leaning in and I bet he will follow!
I hope it works out girl!
Ok so the guy I like I saw him at our homecoming with his date who he was not really around all night. I went with friends as a single. But now when I Facebook him to ask for homework when I'm sick nothing... He acts all into me in class and out of class on our way to lunch but I don't know... What should I do I like him a lot but couldn't stand not being friends with him help!
Just straight up ask him what's up! If he being 2 faced around you that's weird and you should know the truth about how he feels! Ask him why he flirts with you sometimes and other times doesn't.
Talking to my boyfriend the other day and I told him I'd like to start putting some money towards rent since I spend more then half my time there eat/sleep/shower/tv he laughed and agreed and said it was like I was pseudo moving in?
Not sure exactly what he meant?
Well if you are paying for some of the rent that means that you live there, so he might be thinking that you want to move in? basically when your paying for rent it is just another step into the direction of your relationship progressing. if that's what you want than go for it, but you might want to talk about it with him.
17/m
My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 7 months now. She is 16. The last couple of days I feel like I am not interested in her anymore. I am not sure if it is some sort of "hump" I am going through. Sometimes I feel like i see her too much, we have been hanging out a lot as of late. Sometimes things she does makes me feel annoyed or bugs me. Things that use to never do that to me. She has put me through a lot this past summer and that is when my feelings seemed to have changed some what, i kind of got "numb" to her but when she got back from her vacation (which is when she treated me terribly and stuff) i regained some of my feelings, she lied to me though about some stuff and hid things. I forgave her and stuff. This past week or two some days I wish i wasn't with her.
I thought I loved her, lately i'm not sure. I don't get the same feeling of happiness when she calls or texts me or anything like I use to. Maybe that just goes away after some time? I question if I want to be with her but I don't know how to even bring that up with her cause it would crush her. She has lost a lot of friends and I am almost all she has. I don't know what to do. Sorry if this is confusing just trying to keep it short :p
Thank you for your help
hey, I basically know how you feel, this happened to me too. I just kind of fell out of love with my boyfriend but I didn't know what to do to fix it. Honestly with me, the love never came back. i asked him if we could take a break because I felt like he was suffocating me. I thought a break would make me miss him and I would love him again but it never happened, I had to break it off eventually. I would say that you need to tell her exactly how you feel, communication is key! I know you don't want to hurt her but hiding this will hurt her more in the long run. So definitely have that conversation with her and maybe y'all will end up taking a break from each other and having time apart could help!
Well i hope this advice helped a little...
A want a cute name for my boyfriend what would be a cute one his name is dany?
Are you looking for a pet name or just a nickname?
Personally I agree with the other answer too, I think Dany is cute! But if you are looking to change things up you could try Dan, or using his actual name which i'm guessing is Daniel, sometimes using a boys full name can be sexy! Or maybe even add in his middle name? Also you could call him big D or just D.
as for pet names there are tons, baby, babe, big boy, boo, cutie, darling, handsome, honey, hun, love, lovie, dear, sweetie, etc.
I met this guy during the summer at church. Ever since I saw him Ive liked him. But during the summer one of my guy friends ask me out for one of his guy friends tht everyone was saying I should go out wit. Then this year me and him r in the same homeroom. Him and the guy I like r friends I see them sit with each other everyday at lunch. And today web he asked me who I liked and I told him he might hav got adfended. I just don't want to hurt anyone and I don't won't thing to be weird between us I just want to b friends. Can I please get some advice!!!!!!
So I disagree with the other answer...
You shouldn't be worried about what other people think about you. Obviously you don't want to hurt anybody and you don't want any awkward situations, but if you really like this boy than you shouldn't be scared or try hiding from your feelings! You need to embrace them and go for it! Maybe the best thing isn't to tell the other boy you like the other one cause that might hurt his feelings so I would stay away from that topic with him. Just go with what your heart is telling you and it will lead you to happiness.
Hi, I'm 13 and female of course. This may sound weird but when I put a tampon in in my bedroom, I squat and put one leg off to the side. Then, when I put the tampon in and actually push it in, I feel like it is pushing against something inside my vagina. I don't know if its my uterus/cervix or something but it feels weird just for a few minutes after it is in. Is there something wrong with that? P.S. I am well experienced with tampons and use them very often. Please help me if you know why this is!
Hi, i'm guessing you are still a virgin, and I used to have the same feelings when I put a tampon in. Maybe you are putting it in a little differently? Unless it hurts than I don't think this is a bad thing, especially since you said the feeling goes away. I think it is just your body isn't used to the feeling. It's okay if it's pushing on things inside your vagina, that's what it's for. So basically I wouldn't worry about it cause nothings wrong!
Ok so I met my boy friend when I was 15 just abot to turn 16 and anyways I fell inlove, I know it maybe puppy love but it didnt feel like it at the time, anyway about 5 months into our realation ship I had a "best friend" who came over everyday without fail and i use to ask him why he always sent me to like the shops or constantly saying oh go see your family, iv now been with him almost 3 years and it turns out that 6 months straight in our realationship he had been cheating and he always used to flirt with all my friends, now that hes scared of losing me he says he loves me, whats your honest oppinion?? What do I do it plays over in my mind 24/7 and always in my dreams :"( oh and im now 18
I have been in your situation and I know how hard it is and it sucks so i'm sorry :(
In my situation we had been dating about a year when I found out and he was my very first love, it honestly broke my heart when I found out he had been cheating. The thing is, once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. i know that sounds harsh but it's true. Once a guy knows he can get away with it when he is with you, that will just give him more reason to keep doing it, and next time he will be even more sneaky. I know he says he loves you but if he actually loved you as much as you love him he would not have done that to you and hurt you like that and put you in that situation. My opinion, dump him, don't let him hurt you anymore.
i love my hair with alot of volume , i tease it like once a week and some days its cute and really teased but other days it doesnt stay for long .....any tips ??
Use hair spray! A lot of it!
Hi I'm 21 and people say they can smell my bad breath. Even when I'm done brushing my teeth with Colgate toothpaste and listerine someone says its still smells bad. How can I cure this because this is seriously EMBARASSING. Thanks for the help!
Try gargling with hydrogen peroxide, it cleans your teeth really well! And just keep gum or tick tacks with you all the time!
I'm sorry about this though!
My Fiance and I are thinking about getting Married this winter. We don't have much money but we are going to try to save up the most we can. We want to have a private ceremony. Him, I a priest and I would like a photographer there. To vow our love to each other so we can really embrace, feel our love. Then in a couple years we would like to have a bigger ceremony, renew our vows and have our family, friends there. My question is what can we do to make our private ceremony special. I want the priest to say words very true and beautiful. I would like the entire ceremony to be very nice and special. Ideas please?
Write your own vows to each other! That is a great way to make it more personal and romantic. And do it somewhere that is meaningful to you, or somewhere that makes you feel happy!