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I don't know what to do
I'm a girl and i am 16 yrs. old , and me and my guy friend will be dating very shortly and he has asked me for a kiss but it just never happened yet. I am 5'4 and he is really tall he is 5'11 , i never dated someone soo much taller then me but anyways i am soo nervous to kiss him i do not know what to do , i kinda want to make the first move so the pressure can be over but i don't know how to,i get a little nervous around him and he is drastically taller then me.... please help !
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Have you ever kissed anyone before? Kissing comes naturally, it's nerve racking any time you kiss someone for the first time but once your lips touch it turns completely natural and your body just takes over! If you want to make the first move than i suggest doing it when y'all are sitting so it's not awkward with the height difference! Just stare into his eyes for a few seconds and start leaning in and I bet he will follow!
I hope it works out girl!
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You shouldn't be nervous around your guy. There is nothing wrong with making the first move but don't just kiss him out of no where. Make sure the time is right. Ask him to go out to dinner and start telling him how much he means to you. Than when the time is right (trust me you will know when it is) lean over the table and kiss him. It will be very sweet and romantic. Once you get the first kiss out of the way it won't be awkward when you guys kiss again this time standing up.
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My wife is 5'4", and I'm 6'6". We've somehow managed to make it work - sometimes with the help of a convenient step or curb. You probably won't even need that; just stand on your toes a little and look up at him, and you'll find a way to meet in the middle.
You'll want to wait for the right moment; I assume that this is your first kiss, so make it memorable. That doesn't mean that it has to be on top of a mountain at sunset or something, but it should be a moment when you can really take the time to appreciate it.
There's nothing wrong with you making the first move, but you should telegraph your intentions, so to speak. Don't just suddenly kiss him; look him deeply in the eyes for a moment first and move in slowly so that he knows it's coming. You'll feel nervous, but don't try to suppress that; revel in it and let it be part of the emotional experience. He's probably nervous too.
Don't go for tongue action or anything like that; it should be just a simple, sweet, lips-to-lips that lasts somewhere between five and ten seconds. Then pull back and look him in the eyes again. Share the moment.
And if your first kiss isn't perfect, don't worry. You'll get plenty of chances to practice.
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