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The love of my life is a thousand miles away
Well it was my sophmore year in high school and their entered a girl in my spanish class and oo how she took my breath away right that second she looked at me. I didn't know what to do so i sat next to her and started getting to know her and my feelings for her started to grow . I couldn't tell her how i felt because i had a gf and i was very confused. Never in my life had i felt so amazingly happy inside. Turned out i never got the chance to tell her how i feel and i can honestly say she was probably the love of my life . I loved her but couldn't tell her and i regret not doing it because she was my soulmate. Now she's gone and is in Washington and i want to go up and tell her everything i feel about her but i don't have enough money to go up their. Im so busy with football and don't have time to get a job but for her id do anything to just get that chance to tell her everything i wanted to back then. I don't know what to do but i know i have to keep trying because she is the love of my life and what sucks was that she really liked me also but never told me cause i had a gf . Help me i don't know what to do i miss her so much and i wanna see her so badly . She's everything a guy could ask for. help me plz
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Firstly I would like to say that it is so adorable that you had love at first site, that is so precious. But to the actual advice, definitely do not go to Washington unannounced and show up proclaiming your love, it will freak her out and end up bad. If you still have a girlfriend, break up with her. Cheating is the last thing you want to do because she will be completely turned off if she finds out. Next, you need to get your thoughts together and call her. Don't start off with saying how much you love her and y'all are soul mates cause that might freak her out. Tell her that you have liked her for a long time, since the first time you laid eyes on her and that you would really like to get to know her better. You can't just keep living knowing your missing out on her so take charge and tell her!
Best of luck.
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I'm sort of in the same situation, only circumstances are a little different.
One thing you want to make sure is that you actually love her and it's not lust or you rushed into feelings too fast because that could cause problems down the line. But if you say you love her, then I won't argue that.
Is there anyway you guys can communicate without being face to face? Like maybe a facebook or twitter, cell phone... Even skype works if you want to see each other. You can tell her how you feel there, instead of getting money, going to see her and face possible rejection, which in a sense would be a waste of your money and time.
But if you can't do anything I said above, be patient. If two people are meant to be, they will cross roads again, and who knows, maybe you two will.
Good luck. xo
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I don't know how to help you from here :( but anyway don't worry . If she is your real , true love then no matter how apart you guys are , both will be together again in the future . In the meantime , if letting her know everything is your wish , go for it ! There's always a solution to a problem but only you have the key to this ! Chase her and let her know the truth before it is too late , but you gotta have the real courage for this . Sometimes , this is why love hurts and it hurts really deep and wait a minute . How about your current girlfriend man ? And how can you be so sure this girl is your soulmate ? Well , i'll always support what's the best for you and everyone and if you don't have time to get her , make time . Plan and remember , once you're in this , please don't regret it in the future . Think carefully first and do your best in this ! Plan plan plan and hey , nothing is impossible so don't give up . Don't give up once you have made your choice .
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