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well it depends on the girl. some girls have horrible cramps but not always, for instance i don*t at all. The bleeding in itself doesn*t hurt @ all just a pain in the ass! haha hope i helped hun!! xoxo, chelsea

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I have to admit, I'm a huge wuss and I can't drink any hard alcohol straight. I always have to mix it with soda or something. Is there any way to make drinking alcohol straight easier or more tolerable?

well the more you drink the easier it becomes haha. But um yeah the stuff*s nasty straight but i mean if you want it go for it. But hard alcohal could also be enjoyable when you add it with yummi stuff.
hope i helped hun!! xoxo, chelsea

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ok well i have a bf that iv been gion out with for about 3 months,im not sure wether to stay with him or not,i mean all of my friends are telling me to brake up with him and try out some other gies,but i love him and sometimes i dont i have no clue what to do,pleasse help me!!!

well i don*t really no the guy so i can*t REALLY answer that. I think that you should go with your instincts. If you like him stay with him, i don*t kno y your friends don*t like him but give him a couple weeks and then decide!!

hope i helped hun!! xoxo, chelsea

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Now everyone is dating really young and having boyfriends when their 13. i'm 13 and have had a couple of boyfriends but guys are just plain jerks sometimes at that age. most girls are crazy about dating young but older girls that have waited say that it is worth it to wait to date until your older. does anyone have any opinions on the topic?

well i*m mixed a little prolly cuz i*m still young. Your rite a lot of boys your age.. and mine are jerks yes but sumtimes you just want sumone to be with. I know i do. Not EVER guy is a jerk, i had a boyfriend of 9 months @ 11, and it was actually sumwhat serious.. crazy i no. So i mean just do what you want but don*t have a boyfriend cuz your friends are find a guy you really like and have fun! your only young once rite? hope i helped hun!! xoxo, chelsea

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where can you get the program bearshare?
thanx

www.bearshare.com

be careful tho cuz that put sum viruses in mi comp.

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I'm just wondering, my friends say sometimes I act like a prep. And I dont mind that, cus like we were doing this quiz that like "sterotyped" you and they agreed on the answer. But I was wondering, what makes someone a prep? Is it like there popular or something ?

being preppy isn*t really about being popular. But it has to do with wearing nice clothes (for instance a polo shirt or sumthing argyle.. well that*s wut first comes to mi mind) most people who are preppy have a little bit of money. I don*t really think there*s a deffinition but that*s wut i can think of.

hope i helped hun!! xoxo, chelsea

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my bestfriend lives across the street from me.. well she talks to this guy who is 16 on aim and we are both 13 well hes not a virgin... since shes been talking to him her personality has changed big time. hes smokes pot and drinks all the time and shes starting to act like him. heres the bad thing she sneaks out of her house at 2 a.m and doesnt get back until 5 a.m. well she has done this the last 2 nights and im worried that something bad will happen.. they almost got caught out by the police 2 times.. id this keeps up shes gonna end up getting raped or something by him.. how can i tell her to stop this or something might happen.. any advice will be helpful and most appreciated..
thanks

signed
worried friend

Well first you could try talking to her bout your concern but she might not appreciate it so if that doesn*t work tell her parents, she*ll be pissed at first but she*ll get over it. but only do that if your really concerned about her. i don*t no wut else to tell ya!

hope i helped hun!! xoxo, chelsea

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ok...well this is really bothering me..cuz my brother told me i was spoiled and and i told him i do work around the house for my mom...this is the convo...

ME: i help my mom around the house i wash the dishes i clear n set the table i clean my room and make my bed daily and i always put away the groceries
HIM: how much do you get for all that?
ME: i dont get money i earn the stuff i want by doing that.
HIM: you are definetly spoiled.

please tell me if you think i'm spoiled...this is just gonna bother me alot((he's a half sibling))
different moms

i don*t think your spoiled you do more work than i do haha um yeah but i don*t think you should really be that upset by one comment, but don*t worry bout it, you don*t sound spoiled.

hope i helped hun!! xoxo, chelsea

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how can u be a better runner without going out and running..like leg excersizes that i could do at my house. and im running in a road race on thursday thats 3 miles long and i jsut wanna know what i should eat all of thursday before the race that wont give me craps.. i heard spaghetti and bananas were good! please help!

well you could always do simple things like lunges or find some exercises you like online or in magazines (they always have em) Bananas are awesome for running, so be sure to have those i don*t kno bout spaghetti, but you made me hungry haha.
hope i helped hun!! xoxo, chelsea

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is there any way to tan easier or faster without using sunless tanning products or tanning booths?

well yeah tanning oil also works. There is this stuff called Build-a-tan by Nuetrogena and mi friend uses it. You put it on and each time you get more color, but you can control the shade and it*s not streaky or orange. It also is like spf 15 so you can use it as a sun tan lotion as well! here*s sum sites about it!

http://tm.ask.com/r?t=c&s=a&sv=0a300519&uid=00CF1AD490B8E7824&sid=1A533EA46CB330F24&o=10234&id=30787&p=%2Ffr&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.seabreezewholesale.com%2Fsuntanfoamde.html

http://tm.ask.com/r?t=c&s=a&sv=0a300515&uid=00CF1AD490B8E7824&sid=1A533EA46CB330F24&o=10234&id=30787&p=%2Ffr&u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.glow.com%2Fproduct_Build-a-Tan%2BGradual%2BSunless%2BTanning_3566.htm

hope i helped hun!! xoxo, chelsea

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I like this guy. I dont know him that well, but theres a connection and I really like him. The thing is he is super popular and extremley good looking. ALL the girls like him, and he usually dates just "hot" girls with zero personality. I'm not exactly pretty...or even attractive at that but I have an awesome personality. He is awesome and deserves way better than the girls he dates. Is there any way I can get him to have the same feelings as me? Will being his friend help?

Well first ya shouldn*t call yourself unattractive, but i do it too so i shouldn*t say that either. Ok well i think you should just make small talk with him and become his really good friend, he*ll eventually see that you are an amazing person and will go for you. If might take a while but i don*t believe a guy and a girl can be BEST friends without fallin for eachother!! hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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wat are the words to the andy milonakis theme song??
~thanx a bunch~

I rock peas on my head but dont call me a peaehad
Bees on my head but dont call me a beehead
bruce lees on my head but dont call me a lee head
now please excuse me i gots to get my tree fed

i rock the brands and make my own clothing
i hang out with an apple that loves self loathing
“i hate myself”
pancake on my face makes me extra happy
i like shampoo bottles that sit on my lappy
cause its my show you cant tell me what to do
when life hands me lemons i make beef stew

i know i got to go but its time for me to rock it
i put bolonga in my left pocket
smear creme cheese on my gold locket
cause its my show im andy milonakis
its my show im shmandi shmiloshmakis
its my show im andy milonakis

hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea

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My tampon gets stuck ALL the time so I need some good brand names so Im not soo embarassed when I go to the bathroom...HELP PLEASE!!!

well i don*t no exactly what you mean when you say it gets stuck but mi suggestion is Pearl or Playtex gentle glide. Maybe try one that adjusts to your body type (Pearl deff. does) and also it mite be getting stuck because you aren*t letting it get full. Sometimes taking it out when it*s sorta dry can hurt like a bitch! hope i helped! xoxo, chelsea

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What are some safe, free music downloading sites? Is limewire good? But what other ones are good out there? thanks!

I currently use Limewire and i love it. Some of mi friends have Warez and i*ve used bearshare before and was happy with it.

http://www.limewire.com
http://www.warez.com
http://www.bearshare.com

hope i helped! xoxo, chelsea

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i have like horrible sleeping problems...like sometimes i dont even fall asleep till almost 3 in the morning. does anyone have any like tips or something to help me fall asleep?

thanks ♥

well one way is just reading before you go to sleep, but you mite have insomnia so maybe you should go to the doctor and see if he can prescribe sumthing to get you sleeping easier! hope i helped! xoxo, chelsea

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if u gave a guy head, and they didnt cum could you still get a STD or aids?

you couldn*t get aids, but if he had herpes (which you*d prolly notice) you could get those whether he cummed or not. hope i helped hun, xoxo **chelsea

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Everyone says you can get cute things in thrift stores. Do they mean ones like good will and salvation army? How do I know if it's a good one? Im looking for accessories by the way.

yeah they mean thrift stores, you really just gotta shop around for cute stuff, there*s not ALWAYS gonna be sumthing! good luck hun, xoxo! chelsea

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where can i get the blinkie icons and lil stars and all at?!?

i don*t no what you mean by little stars but here are sum sites for blinkies and icons!!

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=LOVE_MY_iCONS_x3

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Request_Graphix_Blinkies

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=blinkies_galore2
the last one had lots of cute stuff! hope i helped hun!! xoxo, chelsea

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I know that to stop drinking soda is good if you want to lose weight. But is it okay to drink diet coke?

diet is better then regular, the bad thing about it is that it has no nutritional value so it*s not healthy either, but it*s better. xoxo, chelsea

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i have bunches of pimples or something on my back. is thhat normal?? i need something to get rid of it. does ny1 have any suggestions? help! [X♥]

yeah some people have that it*s comenly known as "backne" There*s this spray called Nature*s cure that i*ve seen in magazines before so maybe you could try lookin it up on google and seeing if your interested. hope i helped. xoxo chelsea

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