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I didn't really know where to put this so I put it here.

What exactly is morning wood

When a guy wakes up with a boner.

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What turns a guy on, what makes him want to ask out a girl? RATE HIGH AND COMMENT! (include at least 5 diff things pls if possible)

I would ask out a girl who is...
-fun to hang around
-has a good sense of humor
-keeps herself up
-isn't rude or selfish
-knows how to turn something boring into fun
-isn't afraid to be herself
-smiles
-isn't stuck up but has confidence in herself

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Ok so you could say im that girl everyone knows and everything, Im known like all through the school! Im friends with everyone pretty much! So you could say im one notch below the top notch popular people. What can I do to be more popular?

Be yourself most importantly.
-be friendly
-smile
-say hey to people in the hall
-keep yourself up
-be fun to hang around
-be active in school
-when you go to parties don't be just one of the normal people BE THE LIFE OF THE PARTY
The last one is basically the main one. When you are at different places don't just be one of the people there be the life of those places. That way people will notice you and want to get to know you more.

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i asked about this girl in the past for anyone that might by chance remember...i really like her, and we're reeeeeeeeeeally close. but i don't think she likes me, cuz she tells me she likes some senior (im a sophomore), but i don't know if she's using that as a "decoy" of some sort. we're in a school show together, and we're together every night backstage until next thursday. i figure that if i'm gonna ask her out, then now is gonna be the best time, while we're having fun doing this show. so i don't want her to reject me, cuz it's probably gonna screw up our really close friendship.. what should i do???

If she tells you that she likes somebody else I think she is trying to hint to you that she doesn't like you.

And if she doesn't like you then move on to another girl.

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Okay, My sister Amanda gets really mean....and won't let me shop at "Abercombie" "Hollister" "Pac Sun" or "Zummies",and the only reson is because she shops at hot topic!!
also she won't let me listen to what music i like,
WHAT SHOULD I DO????????????


love,
sophie skilling

Don't let her control you. She's your sister not your mom, unless you are in a living situation that she has to play the role of your mom then she has no right to treat you that way. You should let your parents know about it. I'm sure they can do something about it.

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i am always feeling a different mood.. sometimes im feeling sad, mad, happy and all sorts of things . that leads me wanting to be skater, prep, tomboy, goth, punk, then just back to myself.. i really dont know whut i should do when im feeling this way? i rate 5s

Just go with the flow. Everyone is like that sometimes.

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i get good grades in class but the only time i hurt myself and my grades are when i get very lazy to do my hw i always wait till the last minute...is there anyway i can prevent laziness??or do my hw when im suppose to??

Imagine the end result if you do your homework. Get in a mind set where you think "If I just do my hw my grades will continue to be good". If that doesn't work then think about the end result if you don't do your homework. Get yourself in a mind set where you are thinking "If I don't do my hw then my grades are going to drop, parents are going to be dissapointed and I am going to be sad" Having the right mind set makes it tens times more easier to do.

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I am 14/f and i'm 5'6" I hate being tall so much. I'm going to grow more and i bet I'll end up like really tall. I don't really knwo for sure, but to me most of the pretty people are short. i am so self concious about it!! I wish i could be 5'4" and stay that way for ever. I think about it every day and it makes me really sad. How can i get over this. i'll rate high

I think tall girls are hot. So you shouldn't worry about it. Being tall is a big turn on for some guys. With time you will grow.

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I'm in love with my best friend, and he's in love with me. I know this because we went out with each other. We want to get back together, but he's going out with my other best friend. He wants to break up with her to go out with me, but I don't want people to think that he broke up with her to go out with me because he's not. What should I do?

Did he actaully come out and tell you that he was going to break up with her? If he did, did he tell you why he was going to break up with her?
If he is in love with you, but isn't going to break up with his girlfriend for you then how do you really know that he is in love with you?

I don't mean to bombard you with questions. Its just that some guys have a way of leading girls on while having a girlfriend. One of the most famous of them all ways to do this is to tell the girls you are going to break up your girlfriend or atleast make them think that.

I think that you should move on. If he does actually break up with her then go for it. But don't just wait around for him. You are worth much more.

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hey, well on may 27th that will be a month for me and my boyfriend. we ALWAYS talk in school. together we are very romantic and flirtasious. but out of school i only talk to him online. we NEVER go out anywhere and weve only talked on the phone once and it was for 15 minutes. this weekend he is grounded so he cant go online. i havent talked to my boyfriend since friday. we didnt have school today where i am because we got this bad storm and everything was flooded. so if today is monday and i havent talked to him since friday that means thats 2 day without speaking to him. the floods are still pretty bad and we might not have school tommorow either. what should i do? p.s the fact that he is grounded isnt stopping us from speaking because even when hes not in toruble we dont speak either. cait♥

Its only 2 days. If it means that much to you mail him a letter. That way he will get whether he's grounded or not. Well I'm not sure if thats a good idea. Since its flooded there the mail men aren't working?

I guess you just have to wait until you'll go back to school.

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I had something quite upsetting happen to me today. Well I had been looking forward to getting a birthday gift in the mail from my out of town bf. He even phoned me last week and told me that I would be receiving a small gift in the mail. Well you know the feeling when you're really looking forward to something? Imagine my disapointment when I opened my gift and it not only had no card; but was a cheap detachable glasses holder for my car that looked like he spent a measly 5 dollars at the most on. He also enclosed a cheap car antenna decoration of a canadian flag. I was SO disapointed because I put so much thought into his birhtday gift. I can't believe not only did he not write me a message in a card but the gift he gave me was SO tacky. I actually thought when he left the message that I would be getting a SMALL gift that it might be jewellry.
My question is am I overreacting? I know they say it's the thought that counts but judging from the gift he gave me he put hardly any thought at all.
Oh; before I forget it you're thinking he might be broke and not have a lot of money; he just bought a brand new chevy siverado truck so I know that's not the case.

I know a lot of girls think that us guys are on a different page and stuff. But I don't see whats wrong with the gift.

He got you something that you can use for your car AND an antenna decoration for your car.
You could do a lot of things with that.

But I guess he should have gotten you a card with a message in it.

If you don't like the gift. You should next time let him know what you want.

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The size I wanna buy for a cami at american eagle is size "4." What is that equivalent to? Like small, medium, or large? And it's a cami, NOT jeans!

Thanks in advance.

You do know that I'm a guy right?
I'm going to take a guess and say that a 4 is equal to a small.
But I'm not 100% sure I recommend asking "jealousyxo" she probably knows.

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How do you know when you are in love with someone? And how do you know if it is true love?

In my opinion love is a strong passionate feeling you have for someone that you know you can't go with out them.

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I am fond of eating banana but my bros dont want to see me eating banana. its impossible for me to eat banana in front of them and in public. Why the banana is related to bad thoughts?

It reminds a lot of guys of a penis.
They are probably over protective of you. And don't want to think about you giving a guy head.

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ok i have no friends really and i want more..how?

Well ofcourse be yourself. But have qualities that people look up to.
Like...
-keep yourself up
-good hygiene
-easy to talk to
-sense of humor
-don't be selfish
-don't be mean
-consider other people's feelings before you act in things

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I am girl/15.I dont know why I do this. I am spying on my brothers.When they are out I enter their room and search their personal things such as magazines, undergarments, DVDs,toiletories etc. I enjoy to smell their under garments and also wear them. I also try to peep in their room to catch a gimps their nude bodies. My bros are 12 and 17.
Pleeees.........advi....

That is all the way 110% disgusting.
Reading this makes me so grateful for my two sisters.
You need to get some help because that's not normal AT ALL. You should talk to your parents about it and go see a physicologist.

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What are some meaningful songs about a mom and the things she does?

"A Song for Mama" by Boys 2 Men
http://www.niehs.nih.gov/kids/lyrics/songmama.htm

"Thank You Mom" by Good Charlotte
http://www.lyricsdepot.com/good-charlotte/thank-you-mom.html

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totally random question, I know..but howcome you can always tell when a note is written by a girl/boy, I mean it's pretty obvious when it's a girl, cause we write more..bubbly? I dont know, but you get it right..? Like howcome all girls write pretty similar, bubbly and compact, and..well..girly. Like us girls, we write in more "round" forms, and guys write more squared, straight..you know what I'm saying?

WHY is that??

Is it something in the brain we're born with?
Cause it obviously has something to do with gender..

I'm an 18 year old guy and people tell me I write like a first grader. I guess its because I don't care if my hand writing is neat or not. The way I see it is if its legible then its okay. But I know some girls who write sloppy also so that theoery isn't always true.

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well im only 14 but i've been going on n off with this guy 4 more than a year but i dont evn know because we've never really been together it's kinda just been like idk something but he knows i love him to death and for the first time he said he loved me yesterday and everyones been telling me even him that he wants to be with me like officially a couple but that was like 2 days ago n still 4 some reason even tho every1 at school knows we're 'together' n in love he wont do nething at school like is afraid to let ne1 know whats going on but he treats me like a goddess outside of school so does what do i do? i know he loves me btu how do i get him to be more open with it at school?

He's shy showing his emotions around his friends. Most guys at that age are. Some mature faster than others. You can let him know what you think and see what he says. But there isn't really a way you can get him to stop that. Its one of those things that he will stop doing as he matures.

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i'm sorry but i don't know what masturbation is...my boyfriend's talkin about it all the time...

Well its when you give yourself pleasure.
your hands + your private area + horniness = masturbation

Since your boyfriend talks about it all the time. You should ask him to go into detail for you.

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