i asked about this girl in the past for anyone that might by chance remember...i really like her, and we're reeeeeeeeeeally close. but i don't think she likes me, cuz she tells me she likes some senior (im a sophomore), but i don't know if she's using that as a "decoy" of some sort. we're in a school show together, and we're together every night backstage until next thursday. i figure that if i'm gonna ask her out, then now is gonna be the best time, while we're having fun doing this show. so i don't want her to reject me, cuz it's probably gonna screw up our really close friendship.. what should i do???
netsirk07 answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 11:04 am: Tell her this..
"____________<--Her name I want to tell you something very serious that I don't want to change our friendship no matter what. Promise me this won't change anything. (when she promises then proceed). Ok ________<--her name I feel more than friends towards you, I am very attracted to you and I feel really close to you, you're my best friend and I think since we know eachother so well that our relationship might work. Now I'll give you time to think over this and tomorrow I'll ask you what you think."
The next day ask her what she thinks and feels and then if she doesnt want to be more than friends drop it, but if she does hug her and give her a kiss and say "So, will you go out with me?"
I really hope I helped my best guy friend liked me and I didnt know but I liked him too and never told him and now we've been going out for 5 months and Its the best relationship Ive ever been in because I know him. [ netsirk07's advice column | Ask netsirk07 A Question ]
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