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Ok. There was this baby i was babysitting and a little kid. i put them to sleep and i was watchin TV. then i heard the baby cry. i ran upstairs and the little kid was ontop of the baby! i do not know hwat to do!! i dont want to tell the parents but the baby might be hurt. HELPP
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You need to tell the parents what the little kid did.. Indeed the baby could have been hurt or even might be hurt. You have to put yourself in the position of the parents.. if you had someone watching your kids.. and that happened.. Would you want the person to tell you. I know that if a little kid was ontop of my daughter i would want to be told...
Hope This Helps.. Good Luck
*Jackie*
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Okay when i was 13 i got drunk and had sex and he didnt use a condom. I got pregnant and told the father and he moved an i had my baby girl. Now im 15, every time i tell a bf i had a baby they end up breaking up with me. There is a guy who ive been dating for a lomg time now and he said hed be with me through all of the obsticals...well this is a huge obstical. Should i tell him i had a baby or say it is my mothers and tell my mother to go along with it till i tell him? (My mom had me when she was sixteen so she is young) (link)
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Wow. You were young but i am very proud of you because being that young I dont think I could have done it. Anyway. I think that you should tell your boyfriend that she is your baby. If you guys have been together long enough for him to say he would stay with you through all your obsticles then if he loves you and wants to stay with you he will understand and be there with you through it. Reassure him that you guys arent getting married or anything.. and that you arent asking him to take care of your child but to still love you for who you are and what you have rather then running away. A guy who would treat a baby as his own deserves to be in a childs life. I was 16 when i had my daughter Kadence.. She is 2 now... and Ive been with a guy for almost a year now.. and he treats Kadence better then any real dad.. Just be honest with him sweetie... If hes the guy he will be there.. if not.. then you dont need him... YOUR child should come before any guy... She is your daugther. Dont play it out to be your moms child.
Hope This Helps... Good Luck
Need anything drop one in my inbox!
~*Jackie~*
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why do you get uraniary trac infections? (link)
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I'm not exactly sure why you get urinary trac infections. But i've been told by a numerous amount of people that when you have sex you sometimes get them. So if you are sexually active this could be why you would get one. But you need to see a doctor about it if you have one. They give you meds for it..
Hope I helped.. Good Luck
*Jackie*
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My sister and I planned a one week vacation in Paris. She lives in Colorado and I live in California so we do not get to see each other often. I made all the arrangements and was very much looking forward to going. Recently, she got back together with her boyfriend and has canceled her trip with me because she would rather do something with her boyfriend. I feel hurt about my sister's choice and resentful towards her boyfriend (although my sister says it was solely her decision). I say she can see her boyfriend every weekend and during the week too and that she can go on vacation with him next year. She says this is her only opportunity to go on a vacation this year with him and she doesn't want to miss it. I know my relationship with my sister is more important than any vacation, but I'm having trouble feeling ok about this. Should my sister have honored her commitment to me? Should I just get over it and wish them well on their vacation? (link)
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No you shouldn't just get over it.. She is your sister and it is wrong to pick your boyfriend over your own sister.. Blood is thicker then Water I'm always told. I think you need to tell your sister exactly how you feel. But dont hold any of this against the boyfriend for your not positive if he had anything to do with this. But she has all the time in the world to see this guy and she doesnt see you often. I would feel the same way that you do. But The best thing i can say is to talk to your sister and tell her how you feel...
Hope This Helps.. Good Luck
*Jackie*
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Not long ago i came on here for advice between my boyfriend and another guy i really liked and decided to make a go of trying to spice things up.We went out clubbing together and had the night of our lives and soon forgot about this other guy i like.A week later me and my friend got together had a few drinks and decided to have a few more at the local.The other guy was there and as i was plastered, bought him a drink i owed him and danced and chatted with him all night.He invited me and my mate to his house for a few more drinks but my mate left at 3am leaving us 2 alone and then we had a drunkin kiss and ended up sleeping together.Im now meeting up with him and we have so much in common including partners.Now im confused coz i like this other guy but i love my boyfriend. (link)
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Ok.. I can see the story where you were drunk. But that shouldnt be the excuse of why you slept with this guy. You have to have more self respect than that. Anyway. You have 2 options here. You have to decide who you honestly have more feelings for.. have more in common with.. who you like to be around more... Who likes you for you.. not for something you have... and if you honestly love your boyfriend. I hope that you told him what happened so that way he doesnt find out from someone else and causes more problems in the long run. But that is the best advice I can give you. Sorry if it doesnt help..
Good Luck With Everything
*Jackie*
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I have been dating this girl for almost a year. Our relationship had been going great, accually it was amazing and I fell in love with her, and she says she fell in love with me. Then she took a trip for about a month and became close with a whole group of people that I dont really know, we talked a lot during the begining of the trip but kind of faded during the last half. She denys cheating on me while there, even though I kind of think she did. Now that shes back, she barely touches me. We have had sex 3 times in the past 5 weeks (we see each other maybe 2-3 times a week). She says when we get back to school things will be back to normal, and that us dating is the first time she has brought her school life home, because it is different for her. I just dont know what to do, she barely touches me anymore and is becoming harder and harder to get her to hang out with me. We used to do everything together, now it seems like we only hang out if I bring it up. Whats going on with her? (link)
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I'm kind of in the same situation. Except I'm the girl and I'm doing it to my boyfriend. I've never cheated on my boyfriend but we got in a car accident a couple days ago. and I'm just scared. anyway. Maybe you should try and sit down and talk with her and see if something happened on the trip. You guy have been together almost a year so i'm guessing your pretty honest with each other. You need to just tell her exactly how you feel otherwise when you do tell her it may be to late. Just let her know that whatever is going on you want to work through. You seem to be in love with her. and if she is in love with you. She will be honest with you.
I hope this helped. Good Luck!
*Jackie*
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i babysit little kids, and i think its really fun, but the ppl i babysit for are moving. and its stinks, i have no business and i really need the money (link)
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What you can do is put a ad in your local newspaper.. Saying that you will babysit... Give hours... paying rate.. that kinda stuff.. and maybe that will help get you some babysitting..
Hope I Helped... Good Luck
*Jackie*
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okay one of my best friends and i have dated before and we still care about each other even though we're not together anymore. we still care about each other a lot..but everytime i try to tell him that i still care about him and that no matter what happens to our relationship i'm always gonna be here for him..but everytime i try to tell him that he just pushes me away by saying whatever, sure, or mmmmhmmm...it's driving me crazy cause i'm always trying to make the situation better but he just makes it worse..it kills me to know that i'd do anything for him but he doesn't even care..if i had to i'd go lay infront of a car for him..i just wish he wouldn't push me away so much..PLEASE HELP!! i really love this kid! (link)
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Alot of guys are like that... and most of it is because they still have the same feelings their selves for you. and they just dont want to come out and say it. But the only thing I can say to you is that you've told him. and he knows how you feel. and one day he will come around and tell you how he feels.. If you really love this kid.. you need to sit him down and tell him what you just told me and make him understand and make him tel you how he feels.
Hope This Helped... Good Luck
~*Jackie~*
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can my girlfriend and I rent a hotel room overnight and we're only 16? like do they check your age and parent permission and stuff or can you just rent a room and they dont care? thanks (link)
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I live in New York and most of the hotels here you cant rent a hotel room over night when your 16.. I believe you have to be either 18 or 21.. But thats in NY.. Im not sure about where you live..
Hope This Helped... Good Luck
~*Jackie~*
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Ok... i see my boyfriend every day for at least 3 hours or so... well he works during the week...
is it weird that i miss him all day?
people tell me i'm too dependent on him but i just love him
and i miss him (link)
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No it's not weird that you miss him. I'm the same way with my boyfriend. He works from like 7 in the morning till 2 or 3 in the afternoon and after that hes got a meeting until like 5. But after that Im with him for the rest of the night and I still miss him like crazy when we are apart. People tell me the same thing all the time. But your young... In Love.... Let people talk... You have a right to feel the way you feel...
Hope This Helped
*~Jackie*~
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i just found out that my love is diabetic. i have no idea what it means. can anyone please tell me what it means? does drinking alcohol make it worst? (link)
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Hey Sweetie. I know exactly what you are going through... My boyfriend is diabetic.. Being diabetic just means that he cant have alot of sugar stuff.. like soda... Juice... candy.. Yes. and drinking alcohol does make it worse.. Hope this helped.. Need Anything Else... Feel Free to leave one in the inbox!
~*Jackie~*
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ok... i have to write an essay for my 9th grade english class about romeo and juliet. We have to dicuss whether or not they were in love. I feel that they werent really in love, just lust. I need help in finding information to prove my point, which is that romeo and juliet werent really in love. If any one has any advice about this please tell me! thanks (link)
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Hey Sweetie.. Im curious... How werent Romeo and Juliet in Love? Juliet killed herself because she in fact thought that Romeo was dead... and when Romeo came back and seen that Juliet was dead... he killed himself.. That is love.. When someone kills themself for someone they like its more then just lust... In fact.. its got to be love.. Im sorry to say.. but I dont think your point can be proven...
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Hey, so heres my problem, theres this girl. We like each other. But we have(more like she has) made the decision not to date until were like 16. So thats fine i'm willing to wait. But theres a lot of other girls that like me. And i do want to date and she said that she doesn't care if i date while i wait. But.....well i really like her. Like almost love her. Cus we've known each other since like the age of 3. But i moved when i was 8. And now at 14 she shows up at my church. So i'm really confused on what to do. So PLEASE HELP ME!!!
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Hey... To be honest with you.. If you liked.. or loved this girl as much as you say you do.. You will wait for her and not date anyone else.. Do you find people who are dating and love each other dating other people? well that was a bad example.. but.. Honestly.. if you love her like you say you do.. you will wait for her and not date other people.. but thats just my opinion..
I hope this helped... If ya need anything.. Drop one in my inbox..
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My Friend is going to have sex with a boy this febuary vacation and i want to do it too. but the boy that i want to do it with is my friends X but she is moving do you think i should do it or do you think i should wait until she moves so she wont get mad at me?
Please Help Me.
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Hey sweetie... She is your friend... I don't think you should do this at all with her x... No matter if shes moving or not... You gotta think.. How would you feel if she did the same thing to you... and by the way... How old r u ???
**Jackie**
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If I told you I was almost 15, and my boyfriend was almost 17, and that we want to get married, and have been together for over a year, and we're best friends, what would you say?
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Hey Sweetie... I know how you feel... Except... I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 15.. and we've only been together almost 6 months. and to be honest with you.. me and him talk about wanting to be together forever.. and that we want to get married and have kids... But to be honest with you... Its too earlier to say you want to get married... Yes granted you've been together over a year... thats still to early to want to get married.... me and my boyfriend are best friends... and I wouldnt want it any other way.. but thinking of marriage is a good thing.. but dont do it right now.... You need to grow up..and he still needs to grow up... and after this happens.. if you both feel that you still feel the same way about each other.. Then I say go for it.... I hope this helped :(
If not.. I'm sorry.. I'm having troubles of my own today...
If ya need anything else.. Drop one in the inbox..
~*Jackie~*
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i like a boy whose a senior and im a freshman.. ha if my mom knew we ever did anything shed kill me.. what do i do?.. continue to do what ive done the past 2 weeks behind her back.. or drop him? (link)
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well.. I'm a senior and I'm dating a freshman.. and his mom is pretty cool about it.. But if you really like him.. I'd keep going on with what your doing. Why wouldnt your mom like this if she found out???
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i know its stupid but all my friends and other guys in my grade keep giving me crap about the guy i'm going out with. i love him so much. and he means the world to me. i hate it when people give me this crap though. and one of my friends that i thought was my friend did something that she "claims" she didn't do. its a long story, but i didn't think she'd do it. i don't know how to handle it. please help me. i need to know what to say to people when they give me this crap. thanks in advance. i rate high. (link)
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Sweetie.. If you love this guy as much as you say you love this guy... Then just let the crap they say go in one ear and out the other. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months. and I love him more then anything.. and alot of my friends dont like him.. and say some bad things about him. But when you love someone soo much. You just let it go... You know how he is.. you know your feelings for him.. dont let what they say get to you.. Act like it doesnt bother you... Like parents always so... They will just do it more if they know it makes you mad... and if they were true friends. They wouldnt say stuff about the person your in love with. I hope this helped...
If you need anything else... Just drop one in the inbox... ~*Jackie~*
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im 14/f and i really want my belly button peirced! i finally got my mom to say yes its just my dad. he says he doesnt want me to get infected and thinks im too young but i told him id clean it alot and everything but he still doesnt know. how do i get him to say yess?? pleasee helpp (link)
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I didnt get my belly button pierced until i was 16... and my mom was fine with it.. but my stepdad didnt want me to get it done.. But...I told him that I really wanted to get it done.. and that I would pay for it.. So maybe if you had some money saved up... you could tell him you would pay for it yourself.. But if you get it done.. Be very careful.... They get infected easily... Dont play with it with dirty hands.. the oils on your hands will also get it infected... I hope this helps... If you need anything drop one in my inbox.. ~*Jackie~*
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i have a sore on the inside of my lip is there any way to make it go away of do i just have to put up with it until it goes away itself? (link)
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If its on the inside of your mouth it is probably not a cold sore....I've gotten these things before... I was told to gargle with warm salt water a couple times a day and it will eventually go away... Hope this helped.. ~*Jackie~*
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Okay Where do i start theres this guy(Johnta) who i have been goin off and on with for the past two years.. and recently i broke up with him because i started liking this guy(Steve) i met at the beginning of school, i mean yea me and Johnta went to the same school but he never walked me to class and whenever i did see him all he did was give me a handshake like he was ashamed of me or something, and people came up to me and was like "Johnta said yall dont go out" and we did.. so i decided that maybe i should get to know steve better and i did and he treats me with respect, he walks me to class, carries my bookbag, and just makes me smile whenever i am around him, But now Johnta and Steve dont like each other because of me the other day they were about to fight in school and they didnt but they were in each others face and the only thing that came out of johntas mouth was " Fuck You! You Fucked With My Heart!" and i felt really bad.. but steve really likes me and i can tell he acts like it but when me and johnta were goin out johnta acted like we didnt.. i just dont understand why ALL OF A SUDDEN johnta acts likes he cares.. I Cant break up with steve i've gotten to know him and I REALLY like him ALOT.. all my friends tell me to break up with steve but they just dont understand how i feel.. what should i do? (link)
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Hey Sweetie.. I'm kind of in the same situation. Except there isnt another guy. My boyfriend doesnt really talk to me in school. I feel like hes ashamed of me.. But... I'm not sure. but anyway. Thats besides the point. You need to do what you think is right. Personally. if I were you.. I would stay with Steve. Only because from the way you described him he seems like the type of guy every girl should be with.. Sweet.. caring... respectful and you like him alot... Give it a chance. Johnta is just being like he is because he cant just come and go in your life anymore.. and hes jealous of steve. I hope this makes since.. But.. Stay with Steve. You need someone who appreciates you.. and isnt afraid to admit you 2 are together.. I hope this helped.
If you need anything else. Drop one in my inbox.
~*Jackie~*
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