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why does he push me away?
okay one of my best friends and i have dated before and we still care about each other even though we're not together anymore. we still care about each other a lot..but everytime i try to tell him that i still care about him and that no matter what happens to our relationship i'm always gonna be here for him..but everytime i try to tell him that he just pushes me away by saying whatever, sure, or mmmmhmmm...it's driving me crazy cause i'm always trying to make the situation better but he just makes it worse..it kills me to know that i'd do anything for him but he doesn't even care..if i had to i'd go lay infront of a car for him..i just wish he wouldn't push me away so much..PLEASE HELP!! i really love this kid!
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Its only a guess but I'm gonna say that he may want to be friends but perhaps you are making him feel you want more again. He may not want to date you again but doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
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Alot of guys are like that... and most of it is because they still have the same feelings their selves for you. and they just dont want to come out and say it. But the only thing I can say to you is that you've told him. and he knows how you feel. and one day he will come around and tell you how he feels.. If you really love this kid.. you need to sit him down and tell him what you just told me and make him understand and make him tel you how he feels.
Hope This Helped... Good Luck
~*Jackie~*
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I'm sorry to say but it sounds to me like either he's not interested or he thinks you're going overboard. Since you're friends, enjoy the friendship for a while. If he cares about you like you do him, you'll drift back into your relationship. Good luck.
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Honey,
this means that he's still upset about break-up and even though, you're telling him you care about him, he doesn't want to get hurt and he doesn't want YOU to get hurt either.
He's just a little upset and embarassed and sad from the break-up. Even if HE broke up with YOU, he's still upset because he's not over you.
If YOU broke up with HIM, he's definitly sad because he most likely loved you and you broke his heart but I don't know if you broke up with him or he broke up with you.
Either way, it's just a phase and he'll get over it in a snap. Let him regain his trust for you. The best thing you can do right now is to wait a little bit because you should probably just be friends right now. I'm not saying you can't SECRETLY love him ;-). Just don't put that much pressure on him.
You know where I am if you want to talk or need more advice. In my advice column, my email address is in there.
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Kayla ♥ ♠ ♣
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The reason why he is pushing away from you is becuase he probably likes the attention and that just makes you just keep on saying it...try not to mention it for a while and then he might start saying the same stuff to you...
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