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Third Wheel Jealousy


Question Posted Sunday July 17 2005, 5:56 am

I just dumped my boyfriend, and I feel really bad about it, but I had to. I never see him because Im so busy with things this summer, and he got his computer and cell phone taken away. I dont have time for him and I knew it was time to let it all go. My problem now is, I think im in love with my ex boyfriend again. Sometimes I can tell that his feelings for me are mutual (my first ex) and I dont know if theres a way I can be with my first ex, without making my new ex entirely too jealous. Part of me dumped my boyfriend because I still have feelings for the other one. Now I dont know how to go about being with him, without the other one being extremely mad at me.

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Girl2GirlbM answered Monday July 18 2005, 6:23 pm:
Yeah that is always hard. Well when you broke up with you're boyfriend, did you tell him it was because you had no time? If you did, you might want to wait before you get a new boyfriend. For quite a few reasons :
1) If you didnt have time for that one, how will you have time for this one?

2) That other boy will take it like you lied to him, && may loose all respect for you

3) He will be crushed, imagine if a guy did that to you

4) Dont rush into something with out thinking bout it first!

But if you feel you're ready & none of those four things really matter, go for it. =)

-- hope i helped.

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anne_givings answered Sunday July 17 2005, 2:41 pm:
you shouldnt worry about making another guy jealous, just be honest. if you still like him then dont lie about it. and if it doesnt come up in conversation, all the better!!!
hope i helped,
anne givings <3<3

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oliveyoux3 answered Sunday July 17 2005, 6:38 am:
heyy well ur really sweet to be thinking about the boy youve just dumped but you have to move on..ur ex will just relize that it wasnt ment to be, and you need to relize that sumtimes in life your gonna hurt people, but you kant just let people control you, if he really loved you anyways hed just want you to be happy, muchh lovvee,

AsHeR!!!
<33

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