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i know its stupid but all my friends and other guys in my grade keep giving me crap about the guy i'm going out with. i love him so much. and he means the world to me. i hate it when people give me this crap though. and one of my friends that i thought was my friend did something that she "claims" she didn't do. its a long story, but i didn't think she'd do it. i don't know how to handle it. please help me. i need to know what to say to people when they give me this crap. thanks in advance. i rate high.
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If had the same problem before. The thing that helped me get through it was by telling people i was truly happy and it was messed up for them to be talking about me that way... ESPECIALLY since there "friends". It sounds simple but i know its hard, and if they respond with the whole, "you can do much better thing" thats total shiesta! Because they don't even make those kinda list!
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If people ask you "Sally why would you go out with him.. ick.." or whatever be like hey i like him for him not him for his looks. Hes nice to me he treats me good and i like that. He makes me feel speacial and loved. And i like that. Nothing is wrong in that answer. its a safe answer-hope i helped you please rate me!!
Trixxy
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Sweetie.. If you love this guy as much as you say you love this guy... Then just let the crap they say go in one ear and out the other. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 months. and I love him more then anything.. and alot of my friends dont like him.. and say some bad things about him. But when you love someone soo much. You just let it go... You know how he is.. you know your feelings for him.. dont let what they say get to you.. Act like it doesnt bother you... Like parents always so... They will just do it more if they know it makes you mad... and if they were true friends. They wouldnt say stuff about the person your in love with. I hope this helped...
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Just tell them that you dont care what they say and that it dosent bother you. That should get them to stop and if it doesnt...JUST INGNORE THEM! hope i helped!
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Just shoot back 'At least I have a boyfriend! And I love him!' or if thwy have a boyfriend say 'I can't control who I love'
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i know what your going through. i curently have a boyfriend that alot of people dont like but i love him alot also. you just gotta ignore them and think to yourself how much he really means to you and how much he loves you. Its better to ignore them then to keep what they say in you mind. Dont let them ruin your relationship with this wonderful guy of yours.
Hope this help
xox SwEeT DrEaMs xox
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okay,just tell them you love him so much and its YOUR life not theirs,and if they were good friends they would understand!hope i helped xoxo nicole
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I had the same probelm..What worked for me was telling them to back off..whenever someone said anything i would talk to them and just be like "dont worry about me dating him, it has nothing to do with you, i love him and thats how its gonna be, get over it" i admit, i kinda snapped on everyone, but it worked b/c they all stopped..
Sometimes you just gotta be firm
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when they say bad things about your boyfriend just tell them "does it look like I care? I don't think that about him and that's all that matters so f*** off" then just walk away, not mad or anything, but satisfied. Good luck with this one. Hope I helped. -Angel
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well, if they dont have a bf, or gf, be like "hey stupid piece of bitch, atleast i HAVE a bf! suck on that!" hahah lol well ya, bye hope i helped
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You just have to ignore all their opinions about your boyfriend. They can't change the way you love this guy. Just tell these people to mind their own business because they aren't the ones going out with him! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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If you feel that strongly about it, do you think it matters what others tell you? I know there is such a thing as pressure but you have to try to let it not bother you. Just let them make their comments. At least that's what I would do.
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You love him, thats all that matters. Just tell them to mind their own buisness..I would actually ignore your "friends" completley. Tell them your going out with him..not them..so dont worry about it
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