Question Posted Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:27 am
i was dating this kid, and then we broke up. he has a new gf, and i still like him. people say he still has feelings for me, but if he does, he wont admit it. it seems like he does because hes flirty, but since he has a gf i dont know what to think. how can i get him to say what he really feels?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xluvinux answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 3:26 am: You could try taking him aside one time and asking how he feels about you. You can't make him give you a straight up answer, but hopefully he'll do it on his own. If he truly liked you he would dump his current girlfriend for you. He's probably in the position where he's denying his feelings, but they are there. Ask him what he wants to do. No matter what, you've got to respect his decision. I hope he realizes he wants to be with you. =)
o0breezy answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 1:48 am: Alright, Guys love a chase. So, Don't let him know your still into him. Don't even tell ANYONE that your still into him. Be completely, utterly mysterious. This is going to make him come running to you, wanting to know where you stand. Flirt back with him, sure, when he flirts with you, just make sure to keep your true feelings secret from him. He's going to want to fight so hard for you.
If he's a typical guy.
Boys want to conquer, and win. If you become intriguing to him, he's going to want to win you over.
trlblzr4u answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 1:48 am: The only way to really do that is to keep talking to him and stay close to him. Most guys don't care to be all that open with how they feel and all that. It takes time for them to let that all out and even then it's only with people they trust. [ trlblzr4u's advice column | Ask trlblzr4u A Question ]
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