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im 13/f and i weigh 135 pounds. am i fat? if it helps, i look like this:
http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j182/Babiixbrunette/024.jpg

i will only rate if you are completely honest.

and be honest because i am trying to lose 10 pounds and i need to know if it's worth it

Really, truly and honestly....you are not fat at all. You look very normal. Please don't drop 10 unnecessary pounds. It's not good for you if you don't need it.

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Does anyone know where I can get quotes from the movies Vanilla Sky or Eternal Sunshine of A Spotless mind? .. Ive been looking and I cant find any. So if you know of any please let me know! THANKS!



For Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, I pulled these of IMDb:

Joel: Constantly talking isn't necessarily communicating.

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Clementine: This is it, Joel. It's going to be gone soon.
Joel: I know.
Clementine: What do we do?
Joel: Enjoy it.

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[Clementine and Joel have broken into an empty house on the Montauk beach]
Joel: I think we should go.
Clementine: No, it's our house! Just tonight...
[she looks at an envelope on the counter]
Clementine: ...we're David and Ruth Laskin. Which one do you want to be? I'd like to be Ruth, but I can be flexible.

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Howard: He's gone off the map!

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Joel: Is there any risk of brain damage?
Howard: Well, technically speaking, the operation is brain damage, but on a par with a night of heavy drinking. Nothing you'll miss.

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Patrick: You know that girl we did last week? The one with the potatoes.
Stan: That girl? Yeah, that's this guy's girl.
Patrick: Yeah.
Stan: Right... Was. Took care of that.
Patrick: Well uh, I kind of fell in love with her that night.
Stan: What? You little fuck!
Patrick: What?
Stan: She was unconscious, man.
Patrick: Well, she was beautiful and... I stole a pair of her panties as well.
Stan: Jesus!
Patrick: What? It's not like - I mean they were clean and all.
Stan: Don't tell me this stuff! I don't wanna hear this shit!

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Clementine: You know me, I'm impulsive.
Joel: That's what I love about you.

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Clementine: Hi!
Joel: Excuse me?
Clementine: I just said hi.
Joel: Oh! Hi, hello.
Clementine: I'm Clementine... No jokes about my name.
Joel: I wasn't gonna make a joke.
Clementine: Oh, come on! Huckleberry Hound!
Joel: Sorry, I don't know what you're talking about.
Clementine: Huckleberry Hound!
[singing]
Clementine: Oh my darling, oh my darling, oh my darling Clementine.
Joel: I don't know what that means.
Clementine: Are you NUTS?
Joel: It's been suggested.

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Joel: Valentine's Day is a day invented by greeting card companies to make people feel like crap.

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Howard: ...Our files are confidential Mr. Barish so we can't show you any evidence. Suffice it to say, Miss Kruczynski was not happy and she wanted to move on. We provide that possibility.

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Joel: [In the house on the beach] I really need to go. I should catch my ride.
Clementine: So go.
Joel: I did. I walked out the door. I was too nervous. I thought, maybe you were a nut. But you were exciting. I felt like I was a scared little kid.
Clementine: You were scared?
Joel: Yeah. I thought you knew that about me. I ran back to the bonfire, trying to outrun my humiliation.
Clementine: Was it something I said?
Joel: Yeah, you said so go. Said it with such disdain you know?
Clementine: Oh, I'm sorry.
Joel: It's ok.
Clementine: I wish you had stayed.
Joel: I wish I had stayed to. I swear to god I wish I had stayed. I wish I had done a lot of things. I wish... I wish I had stayed.
[Walking out]
Clementine: Joely? What if you stayed this time?
Joel: I walked out the door. There's no memory left.
Clementine: Come back and make up a good-bye at least. Pretend we had one.

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Patrick: Baby, whats wrong?
Clementine: I don't know! I DON'T KNOW! I'm lost! I'm scared! I feel like I'm disappearing! MY SKIN COMING OFF! I'M GETTING OLD! Nothing makes any sense to me! NOTHING MAKES ANY SENSE!

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Clementine: HEY! Lets go out dancing! You want to go out to Montauk with me?
Patrick: Montauk?
Clementine: Yeah, NO! Come out to Boston with me!
Patrick: Sure, we can go next weekend.
Clementine: NO! Now! Now! I have to go see the frozen Charles NOW!

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Joel: Can you hear me? I don't want this any more! I want to call it off!

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Joel: Sand is overrated. It's just tiny, little rocks.

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Mary: Blessed are the forgetful, for they get the better even of their blunders.
[they click glasses]
Mary: Nietzsche. Beyond Good and Evil. Found it in my Bartlett's.

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[Clementine is trying to comfort baby Joel by showing him her crotch]
Clementine: My crotch is still here, just as you remembered it.
Joel: Yuck!

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Joel: [narration as Clementine acknowledges him by raising her coffee mug] Why do I fall in love with every woman I see who shows me the least bit of attention?

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[Mary reads to Dr. Mierzwiak out of "Bartlett's Familiar Quotations"; the lines are from Alexander Pope's poem "Eloisa to Abelard"]
Mary: How happy is the blameless Vestal's lot! / The world forgetting, by the world forgot / Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind! / Each pray'r accepted, and each wish resign'd.

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Clementine: Joel, I'm not a concept. Too many guys think I'm a concept or I complete them or I'm going to make them alive, but I'm just a fucked up girl who is looking for my own peace of mind. Don't assign me yours.
Joel: I remember that speech really well.
Clementine: I had you pegged, didn't I?
Joel: You had the whole human race pegged.
Clementine: Probably.
Joel: I still thought you were going to save me. Even after that.

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Joel: I could die right now, Clem. I'm just... happy. I've never felt that before. I'm just exactly where I want to be.

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[Hammering noises in the background]
Rob: Fuck!
Carrie: Rob, give it a rest.
Rob: Carrie, I am making a birdhouse.

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Joel: This is working like gangbusters.

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[looking at the letter from Lacuna, Inc]
Joel: What is it?
Rob: I don't know, it's a place that does a thing...

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[as Joel and Clementine eat out, he thinks about the other glum-looking couples in the restaurant:]
Joel: Are we like couples you see in restaurants? Are we the dining dead?

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Rob: The plane crashed. I didn't crash the plane.

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Clementine: Joely? What if you stay this time?
Joel: I walked out the door. There's no memory left.
Clementine: Come back and make up a goodbye at least, let's pretend we had one... Goodbye, Joel.
Joel: ...I love you...
Clementine: ...Meet me in Montauk...

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Clementine: [whispers] Meet me... in Montauk...

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Patrick: Mary hates me. I've never been popular with the ladies.
Stan: Maybe if you stopped stealing their panties.

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Joel: Wait.
Clementine: Why?
Joel: I don't know. Just wait... for a while.

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Clementine: Drink up, young man. It'll make the whole seduction part less repugnant.

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Clementine: Joel, hide me in your humiliation!

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Mary: That was beautiful to watch, Howard. Like a surgeon or a concert pianist.

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Stan: You looked happy. Happy with a secret.

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Joel Barish: Pages ripped out. Don't remember doing that. It appears this is my first entry in two years.

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[Clementine is leading Joel out onto the frozen Charles River]
Joel: I don't know. What if it breaks?
Clementine: What if? Do you really care right now?

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Joel: Look at it out here, it's all falling apart. I'm erasing you and I'm happy!

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Joel: By morning, you'll be gone.

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Carrie: She decided to erase you almost as a lark.

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Howard: You want to empty your home, your life of Clementine.

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Clementine: I'm fucking crawling out of my skin. I should've left you at the flea market.

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Joel: Mierzwiak! Please let me keep this memory, just this one.

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Clementine: Sometimes I don't think people realize how lonely it is to be a kid.

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Joel: I can't remember anything without you.
Clementine: That's sweet, but try.

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[Mary is stoned, and Joel has just gone off the map]
Mary: He could wake up all half-baked and gooey! Mmm, half-baked. I'm hungry.

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Joel: My God, there's people coming out of your butt.

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Carrie: You're stoned and you're driving.
Rob: Pot balances me out. Pot brings me up. That's I smoke it if I'm going to be drinking.

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Frank: McRomance. Want some fries with that shake?

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Joel: I don't see anything I don't like about you.
Clementine: But you will! But you will, and I'll get bored with you and feel trapped, because that's what happens with me.
Joel: Okay.

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[last lines]
Clementine: Okay.
Joel: Okay.

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Clementine: Let me show you something... come on...
Joel: I think I heard a crack.
Clementine: It's not gonna crack, or break, or... it's so thick!... Show me which constellations you know.
Joel: Um... oh... I don't... know any.
Clementine: Show me which ones you know!
Joel: Okay... okay... oh! There's Osidius.
Clementine: Where?
Joel: Right there... see? Sort of a swoop and a cross, Osidius the Emphatic.
Clementine: You're full of shit, right?
Joel: Nope. Osidius, right there, swoop and cross.
Clementine: Shut the fuck up!

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Clementine: I'm gonna marry you... I know it!
Joel: Ummm... okay...

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Clementine: Look, I'm sorry if I came off a little nutso, I'm not really.
Joel: That's okay, I really didn't think you were.

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Joel: I'm so ashamed.
Clementine: It's okay, you're a little kid.

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Rob: It's not about us, it's about Joel, who's an adult, okay, not "Momma Carrie's kid"!

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Clementine: Look man, I'm telling you right off the bat I'm high maintenance. So I'm not gonna tip-toe around your marriage or whatever it is ya got goin' on there. If you wanna be with me, you're with me.
Joel: Okay.

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[4-year-old Joel watches his mother leave the room]
4-Year-Old Joel: I really want her to pick me up. It's amazing how strong that desire is.

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[first lines]
Joel: [voice over] random thoughts for Valentine's day, 2004. Today is a holiday invented by greeting card companies to make people feel like crap.

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Clementine: I wish you'd stayed.
Joel: I wish I'd stayed, too. NOW I wish I'd stayed. I wish I'd done a lot of things. I wish I'd... I wish I'd stayed... I do.

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Joel: I love being bathed in the sink - such a feeling of security.
Clementine: I've never seen you happier, baby Joel.

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Clementine: Wish me a happy Valentine's Day when you call. That'd be... nice!

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Clementine: You married?
Joel: No.
Clementine: Let's move into this neighborhood!
Joel: I do sorta live with someone though.
Clementine: Male or female?
Joel: What? Female... female...
Clementine: At least I'm not barking up the wrong tree!

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Clementine: My embarrassing admission is I really like that you're nice, right now.

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[Patrick knocks on Joel's car window while parked in front of Clem's apartment]
Joel: Yes?
Patrick: Can I help you?
Joel: What do you mean?
Patrick: Can I help you with something?
Joel: No.
Patrick: What are you doing here?
Joel: I'm not really sure what you're asking.
Patrick: Oh, thanks...

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Clementine: You're not a stalker, or anything, right?
Joel: I'm not a stalker. YOU'RE the one that talked to me, remember?
Clementine: That is the oldest trick in the stalker book.
Joel: Really? There's a stalker book? Great, I gotta read that one.

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Clementine: [Clementine has dyed her hair orange] You like? To match my sweatshirt, exactly.
Joel: Ahaaahhhhh! Ohhhhhh! I like it!
Clementine: You do?
Joel: You look like a tangerine!
Clementine: Hmmm, Clementine the tangerine.
Joel: Juicy... 'n seedless.
Clementine: I like that.

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Mary: I wanted to understand as much as I could about the procedure as possible... I think it's important for my job to understand the inner workings of the work that we do, well not that I do, but the work that is done by people where I also work, the work of my colleagues.

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[Joel calls Clem on the telephone]
Clementine: What took you so long?
Joel: I just walked in.
Clementine: Do you miss me?
Joel: Oddly enough, I do!
Clementine: You said "I do" - I guess that means we're married!
Joel: I guess so!

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Carrie: I saw you talking to someone pretty!
Rob: Yeah, man, who was that?
Joel: She was... just a girl.

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Frank: The only Valentine's Day cards I get are from my mother. How pathetic is that?

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Clementine: I would like you to call me. Would you do that? I'd like it.

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Clementine: I'm a vindictive little bitch, truth be told!

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Clementine: What are you, NUTS?
Joel: It's been suggested.

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Joel: I think your name is magical.

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Clementine: You're really nice... God, I have to stop saying that!

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Joel: I had a really nice time last night.
Clementine: Nice?
Joel: I had the best fucking night of my entire fucking life, last night!
Clementine: Thaaaat's better!

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Clementine: You don't tell me things, Joel. I'm an open book. I tell you everything, every damn, embarrassing thing.

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Clementine: Joely?
Joel: Yeah Tangerine?
Clementine: Am I ugly?
Joel: Uh-uh.
Clementine: When I was a kid, I thought I was. I can't believe I'm crying already. Sometimes I think people don't understand how lonely it is to be a kid, like you don't matter. So, I'm eight, and I have these toys, these dolls. My favorite is this ugly girl doll who I call Clementine, and I keep yelling at her, "You can't be ugly! Be pretty!" It's weird, like if I can transform her, I would magically change, too.
Joel: [kisses Clementine] You're pretty.
Clementine: Joely, don't ever leave me.
Joel: You're pretty... you're pretty... pretty...

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Clementine: I apply my personality in a paste.

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Joel: If only I could meet someone new. I guess my chances of that happening are somewhat diminished, seeing that I'm incapable of making eye contact with a woman I don't know.

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Mary: Adults are like a combination of sadness and phobias.

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Mary: Adults are, like, this mess of sadness and phobias.

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Joel: [on tape recording] And the whole thing with the hair - it's all bullshit.
Joel: I really like your hair.
Clementine: Thank you.

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Hollis: Don't be a monster, Howard. Tell the poor girl. You can have him, sweetie. You did.

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Joel: [talking to Clementine in the train] Sorry, I'm just... trying to be nice.

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Joel: He's seducing my girlfriend with MY words and MY things. He stole her underwear! Jesus Christ, he stole her underwear.

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Joel: He's seducing my girlfriend with MY words and MY things. He stole a pair of her underwear! Jesus Christ, he stole her underwear.

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Clementine: Anywho, sweetie, I done a bad thing. I kinda sorta wrecked your car...
Joel: You're driving drunk. It's pathetic.
Clementine: ...a little. I was a little tipsy. Don't call me pathetic.
Joel: Well, it is pathetic. And fucking irresponsible. You could've killed somebody. I don't know, maybe you did kill somebody. Should I go inspect the grill for small children?

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Can feeding ur cat grass help it? i heard it can.. what can it do to it?

Cats usually swallow a lot of fur, and that's not good for their digestive system. They eat grass, and they vomit the hair. The gras helps them to clean out their insides.

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okay i know that none of these foods are "healthy" for you but i need to chose one. i'm going out for breakfast at like midnight tonight. its going to be fun and everything, but i've been trying to eat healthy and stay thin since its bathing suit season and i'll be wearing bathing suits ALL SUMMER. so which is better for you/has less calories a belgiun waffle with butter and syrup...OR... a silver stack of chocolate chip pancakes with butter and syrup?

i don't mean to be rude or anything but i need an answer by like 11:00 pm TONIGHT because i'm leaving around then.

thanks soooo much :]

The waffle is more healthy. It has more egg in it, and egg products have less calories.

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So i'm tryint to put a picture up of me and my friend on myspace, but on the actual profile, not where u go look at the pics. problem is, i dont know how to make the pictures smaller. when i upload it it turns out really HUGE. i already tried saving it as gif. but it didnt work. does anyone have some help for me? please and thanks =)

Copy-paste the pic into "Paint." On the tool bar, there's an option called "Image." click on that, and click on "Stretch/Skew." Stretch it or skew it to the size you want, and then save it. Re-upload it, and it should be smaller.

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This kid came up to my friend Noelle and said she had "googly eyes." Me and her have no clue what he meant. A little help here?

It means her eyes roll around and bulge out a lot :/

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what is 10% of 83 cents?

8.3 cents.

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14/f...i've been trying to eat less calories and stay thin. a daily eating pattern is this

breakfast -- a vanilla crisp Special K bar
lunch -- one red apple and one chewy bar
dinner -- whatever my dad makes (it varies everyday from hot dogs to pasta)

but all of the sudden my dad has been trying to get me to eat more food. he is always thinking that if i eat too little then i'm going to become anorexic. whenever my dad cooks he makes me eat more then i want to eat to stay thin. what can i do? and today him and my mom started saying that they don't like how i eat a special K bar for brerakfast. they want me to eat something more suitable for breakfast like cereal..but that would put more calories into my diet and make me gain weight.

1 special K bar for breakfast isn't enough. Ditto with an apple and chewy bar.

When you're eating, just keep eating until you're full. You're only 14; you need more energy. A bowl of cereal will not make you gain weight, unless it's something like Fruit Loops.


You NEED calories. Calories are energy. Everything you do burns up calories; walking, typing, digesting food. An average woman requires 2000 calories a day. Apples have a lot of calories anyway. Considering that apples are VERY high in fructose, an apple has 500 calories. Too much calories will be stored up as fat. But if you're thin, your body's metabolism will burn it all up.

It's not the AMOUNT of food that counts as much as the CONTENT of the food.

What I would advise is that you don't worry so much about the calories unless you have a slow metabolism and you've had past experiences with obesity. If you cut the calories too much, then you'll have no energy. I once went on a long walk without eating anything, and I got very sick. Don't learn the hard way.

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This is long so be prepared...

I'm 13/f and I'm having trouble with my body image. I used to be overweight (about 2 years ago) but then my mom helped me get into a better diet and now I'm not SO overweight and fat. Over the past few months I've been starting to eat sweets here and there but I'm still exercising a lot. The feeling of "Oh my gosh I've gotten so fat" suddenly came on in the past month. I have even gained weight and I'm really, really close to being over weight according to the weight chart. I will admit that I'm one of those girls who says "I'm fat" in front of my friends and especially my mom and expect to hear "oh no you're not." So when I said "I've gained a lot of weight!!! GOSH I'm starting to get so fat again..." to my mom she didn't say anything like "you're over reacting...you look just fine." She simply said "well, you're going to have to work on that." I was shocked =O I couldn't believe that even she had started to notice (and in a way agreed with me) and now I'm starting to wonder if other people notice. So...I got really depressed about it...and said to myself "if I could just be skinny I'd feel so much better about myself..." I hate thinking that the only way to get thin is to just not eat. I also realize I'm putting how I LOOK in front of my HEALTH and it's bothering me that I am ignoring what becoming a semi-anorexic would do to my health. I'm not exactly "huge" but I do have plenty of extra pounds I want to get rid of. At the moment I'm really upset because I don't know what to do. When I talked to my mom she just said "well, you need to get back into eating healthy" but I am and it ISN'T WORKING. She also says "You are also over reacting about becoming anorexic. you're being such a drama queen." HELLO! I'M SERIOUS HERE!! and i don't plan on becoming skin and bones. I really need some advice on what to do...I'm worrying myself by the way I'm thinking! =[

I could easily tell you "Is how much you weigh the most important part of you? Everyone is beautiful in their own way." However much it may be true, most people don't take their own advice, and think that way until they start looking at themselves. lso, lots of people just say that if they want to get a 5 without doing any work.

Don't listen to the user below that said "being overweight can't hurt you and you'll grow out of it." Being overweight is very dangerous to your health, and unless you do something about it now, you're going to grow up overweight. I should know---my mom is a pharmacist. The majority of overweight women have always been overweight---but if you take certain precautions now, you'll be fine.


I don't know how much you weigh, and whether you're truly overweight or not. Either way, it's pretty clear that you're having some body image problems and it's preventing you from having a realistic self-image. So what I propose is that you get into shape, do a bit of sensible weight loss, and maybe you'll be able to see yourself in a more sensible way.

However, you're not going to get rippling muscles overnight. It's going to take weeks--maybe months---to start noticing muscle.

Get at least 2 hours of cardiovascular exercise (meaning exercises that make you breathless and send your heart thumping) a week. This does not have to be a sport, though not discouraged. You can dance to your favorite music, bike to the grocery store......so on and so forth. Crunches and pushups aren't going to make you lose weight.


Don't plan on eating ANY junk food until you've gotten into shape. Ditto with red meat, butter, whole milk, bagels, cheese, avocados, anything made with a noticeable amount of oil, or any excessive amount of carbohydrates or protein. Definitely no on the deep oil-fried Twinkies.

For your source of protein, eat lots of nuts (the amount of fat won't hurt you), chicken, fish and soybeans. The last one sounds gross, but seriously, once you steam soybeans, it's really good. Trust me on this one. A great, healthy dinner could be chicken soup and fruit for dessert. Now, I don't mean Campbell's Chicken Soup. I mean REAL soup. When you get home from school, boil about 2 pounds of chicken bones WITH THE MEAT STILL ON and let it cook under low heat for a few hours. This will give you a nice chicken bouillon. Spoon out the oil on the surface, put in a few stalks of cilantro and enjoy! Feel free to add black sesame oil and noodles. Sesame oil is the only kind of oil that's good for your cardiovascular system. You can find the oil and chicken bones at any Chinese food store.

For carbohydrates, eat whole wheat bread, corn, potatoes and pasta. Make this food category your last priority.

Eat lots of fruits and vegetables. Don't eat too many plums/prunes, though. You'll get a horrible case of diarrhea.


Happy eats!

-Loma

PS. Congrats on being the first 13-year-old I've seen in ages to use proper grammar, spelling and punctuation =]

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if i started to shave my arms, would the hair grow darker and longer?

ps. my arm hairs are black

It would grow back longer, but not darker. You'd have to keep up with it every few days or so.

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ok..
so im only 16.. im about 5'7".. 140 lbs
and my breasts are already an overflowing size of 36D.
im pretty sure that they arent gonna grow anymore.. but i love looking at cute bathing suits.. and it SUCKS that i cant even find any that are the right fit for my bust! Guys always stare and it makes me self coonscience.. because i am always thinking that guys are only talking to me.. and think im pretty because of them...also.. girls think that theyre jealous.. but they really arent.. because i dont see how you could want boobs THIS big.!
Any comments?!

Don't worry. If you get a sports bra, it'll make you look smaller. And there are plenty of great swimsuits out there for curvy girls. Go to Copeland's Sports, they have some large sizes for the top part.


Have fun!



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ok well i'm going on vacation tomorrow to the beach, & i just got my period today. this isn't the first time i got it, the first time was in may, i actually got it twice in may and never got it in june. well i'm going to the beach, and i'm going to be wearing a bathing suit/going in the water. [i'm not like a person that will be swimming underwater, i'd probably just be like jumping the waves lol] it's not like i'm going to be in the water the whole time, just in and out. i've only been wearing pads though, not tampons. i've heard that your period stops when you're in the water but what about when i'm out of the water? should i just wear a tampon [i've never worn one before] would it be okay to wear a pad? idk what to do! please help? thankss :]

I think you probably can. I went river-rafting on my period, and it went okay. Just make sure you wear two pads instead of one, because one might not be enough :)

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whats the disney movie with donald duck and they are like in mexico and stuff

The Three Caballeros

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How exactly does one become a famous singer?

You must have:

*An INCREDIBLE voice. And I mean incredible.

*A great body. Sorry if I sound mean, but I'm telling the honest truth. Unless you have an almost superhuman talent, they'll never hire you if you're not pretty.

*Charming performance qualities. You have to be fun to watch, and connect with your audience.

*The look. You have to have that confident, star-quality persona about you.

*You must have connections to somebody who can offer you a record deal.

Don't listen to those people below---it's not at all easy to become a famous singer. It's not like you can just go to a bar, do some karaoke and expect to be an American sensation. It has happened, but those are total exceptions. And even if you win American Idol, who says that you're going to be famous? The only American Idol winner that has made any albums not related to American Idol is Kelly Clarkson. There are hundreds of thousands of very talented singers who spend their whole life as waitresses in futile hopes that they will get discovered. And I hate to break it to you, but if you are planning on becoming a famous singer, you might as well give up now unless you have all of the qualities I've mentioned above, because if you don't, it's probably not gonna happen.

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why do so many people hate emos?

Because emos are silly children who wear too much eyeliner, pick out every single little problem in their life and act like depressed drama king/queens about it because they're bored with their own lives and want to attract some attention.

I'm starting to get annoyed when everybody jumps on me for steriotyping. People say "not all emos are the same." The very definition of an emo is what I mentioned above. It's like saying "stop steriotyping humans for having legs!" If you hate someone just because they DRESS emo, then that's a steriotype because you're just judging them by the way they dress. Anyone can like whatever clothing style they want. But it's the attitude that I mentioned: silly children who wear too much eyeliner, pick out every single flaw in their life and act like depressed drama king/queens about it because they're bored with their own lives and want to attract some attention. To be a true emo, you have to have the attitude, and it's the attitude that is so ridiculous.

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Let me start of by saying: I would not be asking this if I didnt already feel bad && want to change this. SO please, don't preach.

Down right to the point?
I stole my friend's new 300 dollar digital camera. (reminder: I know it was wrong, no lecturing)

While doing it, i KNEW it was wrong.
When she noticed it was gone, she cried.
It broke my heart.

I know God forgives, but my gut tells me..he won't.

I don't know, I want to send it back to her.
I think I will, as soon as I get her adress.
i CAN'T APOLOGIZE THOUGH. I CANT TELL HER.

I don't even know why I did it.
I love her. Im not jealous of her.
I don't need a digitial camera.
I don't want one.

But I did it anyway.
Just because I knew I could.
I knew I wouldn't get caught.

I'm evil. I'm a really bad person, I know.

Yet, I can't change it.
Here's where I need help.

- appologizing to God for this.

HOW? I knew it was wrong while doing it, I knew the devil was pushing me and God was telling me not to, yet I listened to the devil.
It's happened before. I never learn.
I'll always do the wrong thing.
So what? he's just going to keep forgiving me?

- how do I stop this

any ideas?

- this feeling

even if I give it back, I'll never forget what I did. seeing her cry. knowing how much it meant to her yet still taking it. how can i forgive myself for it? what should I do? I know myself very well. I wont change, I'll do it again. And I wont let myself forget it. I know I'll always feel bad because of this.

AHHH GOSSSHH just help me please, I feel awful.
what should I do? with everything?

this feeling is sick.
I want to die.

First about the camera. Admitting to her is letting her know that you stole her prized possession. Regardless of how noble/honest it is, she will never completely trust you. You can trust yourself. So I would recommend this: The next time you see her, bring the camera along and sneak it into her bag when she is away at any time. Or if she regularly goes to a particular place with a lost-and-found (like a church or school), put it in the lost-and-found.


Don't blame God or the Devil on your wrongdoings. You have full control over whether you do a bad thing or not. In my opinion, people just make up "the devil" as an excuse to do bad things. You can definitely change yourself without the help of God. I don't believe in God or the Devil; if I can be a good person, you can too.

First, set yourself away from God and the Devil for a moment. I see your problem is mostly that you feel the Devil is making you do all of these things. It's not the Devil. It's yourself. Next time you are tempted to do something bad, tell yourself "the Devil can't control what I do. Is stealing this worth the tears of *insert name here* afterwards?" Then, exercise as much self-control as you can, and don't take the item.

I'm sorry if this wasn't much help. If you need anything, feel free to give me a word in my inbox.

Best of luck.

Loma

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One day before gym this guy Jon was like "Matt likes you." And matt was right there. I turned to him and he must of been really embarrased so he made up a stupid reply: "Uh who are you." He knows who i am it looked like he was just embarrased. I didn't say anything, i just said to this guy Austin to change the subject "Oh you beat me in a basketball game yestrday" That was back in like February. I go to a day camp with Matt and he shows no signs of liking me or anything. Well once some people were sitting on a window ledge at camp and all the spaces were takin up except one between me and his only friend at camp. I can tell he wanted to sit down but he just stood there, so I got up and moved casually somwhere else. What do you think is up with him?

If Matt shows absolutely no interest in you whatsoever, it's most likely a joke. Jon was just bored, and he just said that to make something interesting. Guys are like that a lot. And if he really meant it, he wouldn't have said it right in from of Matt. This has happened to me many times, and I will tell you from personal experience that it is JUST A JOKE. Don't push it further. Just casually let it pass over, and nobody will remember.

Of course, there are always exceptions. Maybe he does like you. But sweetie, we can't always count on the exceptions in life. Assume he doesn't like you, move on, and if he does, be pleasantly (or unpleasantly) surprised.

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How does one become the perfect girlfriend? Internally and externally, how does a girl make her guy feel completely fulfilled?
Thanks

Nobody is perfect, and those who are perfect are boring. If the guy truly loves her, he will always feel fulfilled in spite of your flaws.

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Occasionally, usually once a month, my face gets covered in blackheads, and it drives me crazy. I try everything to get rid of them, but they just keep coming back. What is the easiest way to get rid of blackheads? Will rate high =]

Twice a day, apply a coating of Erythromycin Topical Solution all over your face---once in the morning, once in the evening. If you can, do it three times. That should do the trick.


The Erythromycin Topical Solution is something you can only get at the pharmacy. Get your doctor to write a prescription for it.

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well me and my friend where arguing which name is hotter, better (don't ask me why)
so i want you guyzz opinon so we can finally settle this whole thing. which name is hotter amy or pam..why? thanxx a bunch will rate high

Amy's hot if the person's hot. Pam is so plain. Instead of shortening it to Pam, say Pamela. That's way hotter!!!

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