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Perfect girlfriend
How does one become the perfect girlfriend? Internally and externally, how does a girl make her guy feel completely fulfilled?
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Hi, being yourself is good, and showing a guy that you have high self-esteem of yourself and are confident and ready to get on with life is good an all. Just be yourself, easily said than done I know, but that is all you can be. Daniel.
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You should just be you.To be the perfect girlfriend all you need is-you-. I mean that's why the guy is going out with you, right?He saw something in you.. and to completely fulfill him just fulfill yourself and take time to realize who you really are-and act upon it-
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No one is perfect, you just need to be yourself. Infact lots of guys love when girls are themselves. And when you are with someone who really loves you they see your flaws and accept you for who you are. The "Perfect" Boyfriend will love you unconditionally, so then it works vice versa. If you are yourself and accept your guy for the way he is unconditionally then in my eyes you are being the perfect girlfriend.
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If that is your goal, you really need to take a step back and re-evaluate yourself. First, nobody is perfect. You need to accept this before anything else. Everybody has flaws. Second, never go into a relationship thinking you must completely fulfill your partner! Thinking that way will get you taken advantage of, even abused! In a normal, loving relationship, both partners have their flaws. They fight and are not always happy with each other, but they love one another despite this. Relationships do involve sacrifices, but if you are sacrificing everything just so that a guy can be "fulfilled", you need to get out of that relationship! Be who you are. When you love someone, all you need to do is show him that you love him. You don't exist for his pleasure. I really hope that you get this way of thinking out of your head, because so many people let themselves be abused because they want to make their partner happy. A relationship should be equal. And if he really loves you, then, in his eyes, you WILL be perfect. ;-)
-Lea
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Perfection is definetely not necessary!..but
some qualities that could make you a good girlfriend include:honesty,caring for them and always listening to them,making them laugh,LOYALTY,complimenting them often and never making them feel underappreciated,and also being reasonable and not getting mad over little things. I think if your boyfriend loves you, you do not have to be perfect..truly loving him back is much better than striving for perfection,because that alone is enough to make a person feel fulfilled.
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Nobody is perfect, and those who are perfect are boring. If the guy truly loves her, he will always feel fulfilled in spite of your flaws.
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Dont try to be perfect, being who you are should make him happy. Love and communication is what you need. No one can be completely fulfilled it varys on days, because no relationship is perfect, couples always have goods and bads :]
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I totally think it depends on the guy or girl. Different guys have different tastes in girls. If you want a guy to like you, try acting the way you think he would want you to. It really just depends on the guy. Some guys like bad girls, some like good. If you really want a guy to like you, just try to appeal to his tastes.
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