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Hello. My name Is Solemnstar.
I'm a fifteen year old (assumed) male-to-female Transexual.
I want to help, plain and simple.
I like plain and simple, I like to catergorize people, ptu them into nice little boxes in my head.
and I LOVE figuring out the ones that don't fit.

Chatspeak annoys me, It takes an extra two seconds to type the real words.

I don't anwser advice as often as I should. Mainly because of School.

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i saw my bf kissing his friend (a man)on his neck and it's been a 3 monthes we hadn't any sexual contact , yesterday we tried to hav but he was not able. is he a gay?? bi sexual ?? or what?
am a 20 f

have you asked him these questions?
from where i stand it looks like hes gay.

Solemnstar

Hi, I'm 15/m. There's this girl that I like a lot, but she says shes bisexual, but leans more towards girls. We're really good friends, and we like a lot of the same stuff. I've tried asking her out before but she said no because she wants to be truthful to herself and not hurt any guys, but that we could still be friends. The bad thing is that I'm afraid to be her friend, because I'll always want more. Every time I look at her and think about her I want to be able to hold her... kiss her... be there for her as a boyfriend but I know I can't because... she's more lesbian than straight. She seems to really like me a lot and we seem to flirt a lot but I don't know. I still want to be with her though... She's like the sunshine in my rainstorm, and at school, she's the only person I'm looking forward to seeing. So, the question is, I really want to be with her, but I'm afraid to be her friend. What should I do?

... this is word for word, one of the worst moments in my life...except when i asked, and went out with her... thats another story.

go for it man.. if she says no, meh worse thinsg can happen. thast a remarkble thing about life. when we hit rock bottom, we can still get lower...

Solemnstra

I've been going through a lot the past couple month (serious knee injury, parents splitting up, gramma dying) and im gonna talk to my priest about it. I am very comfortable talking to him, but i dont know what to say. I can tell him how I feel .. but what will that do? idk im so confused, HELP ME

hey, if he cares, he wouldnt need you to start anywhere... if thats what you want.. if you trust him and he is your friend there is no need for a "start" on topics like this. just talk, even if it sounds stupic, talk

You're funny, can I adopt you as a little brother? Please? I'll be nice! honest!?

ummm only if your older then 14....i guess..... wait, what?

hi again. sorry ive been asking so many translation questions, but the sites i go on never have it. could anyone please give me the japanese word for *graceful*?

thanks

優美

hope that helps...... im kidding, i have no clue.

i want to get rid of the flab underneath my arms and what i do is called a Dip. i found it here.

http://www.toneteen.com/exercises/arms_dips.htm

but im doing like 200-300 a day. should i do more. and doing 200-300 dips a day how long do you think it will take to see reslts so i can feel confident wearing shirts to school instead of sweatshirts.

drummer person:
eat less fat, fatty.

Me: ummm i cant do like 10, so yeah. if you see no progress just try something else.

There is a condom lodged in my vagina how do I get it out??????

pull it out?

Solemnstar

Why is sex a sin? I know that its not a sin if your jewish, so why is it when your cathlic?

the definite answer? i asked my pastor and she kinda avoided the question.

i think its because early in the churchs day the illiuminati were holding them back, so they spread lies that the illiuminati had orgys and sacrificed children and all the things we associate with modern satanism. to keep others from following it, they tried to make all thingsto do with sexuality bad. because paganism, the predominate religion, was all about exploring that... then again almost all modern christian holidays were adapted from pagan ones..

Yule-Xmas
easter- the month of april was a celebration of the goddess.

so there you have it....what was my point again...

Solemnbstar

hey, i used to be the former leader of my clique at school. then for some reason the people that i used to lead became retarded and started acting dumb. so i have a new group of people now, but everyone is pretty much individuals. like i wouldnt be able to boss them around. basically they wouldnt let me lead them. what should i do.

you're kidding right?
right?
although i don't support your actions. i reccommend blackmail.
or bribes.
control them with dirty little secrects and a webs of lies.all the things that will blow up in your face.

ok hey. so, i'm in highschool (i'm a sophomore.). i'm a female (pretty obvious?) and i need advice. duh. i haven't dated/liked ANYONE since llllaaaasssssttttt year. i really want to find someone that i can like and will like me. all my friends have boyfriends, and they are neglecting our friendship to hang out with their stupid boys. this isn't just about them, though. i really want someone who i can be with romantically. do you have any advice to help me when i don't have a boy, or to help me get one?

You have friends right, who have boyfriends,who most likely have guy friends of their own.
thats all i can think of for meeting one. or get good at gaming, if you are not. alot of guys ten to play videogames im sure

You know a forum where people can talk about prophetic dreaming (dreaming and then having that dream coming true in the future)that has people who post frequently?

Mind-n-Magick.com

go to the forums, and post what you want to know.and it is very active.

what are work ethics and what are some examples? thanks

umm is that ethics in the workplace you mean?

those are all respect issues, like giving fair deals, being reliable,honest and communicative(not sure if thats a word)

im so nervous!! ive never had a real job before (i just turned 16) and im about to go get an interview for an ice cream place. what are some questions they might ask me?

umm ive got a list of question, my Teacher Madame Boutroucas was basically telling us what to expect. practice interview will often help, and test yourself on worse-case sinarios

I know that there are some people who are just naturally really skinny, but there are some people who are mega needle thin. Is that possible for people to be naturally that thin??? Brigitte Bardot had a 20 inch waist-----Scarlett O'Hara from "Gone With The Wind" had a 17-inch waist. 17 inches! Jesus! I just can't see how people can be just born that way.

alot of them, it most likely is not natural, but you can achieve this with those waist tightner thingys(i dont kow what they are called) as long as you wear them in increments you can acheive the waist size. to a degree of course, you cant fit a 40' waist into a 20'.

is it true that guys are only your friends if they are some what attracted to you .. like theyd only be your friend if they like your of if they think your hot is that true? - 15/f

not to be mean to them, but some of the girls im friends with i think are downright ugly and annoying. though a few i met through my GF so that may be why i put up with them... so i gues the awnser to your question is yes and no, it depends on the guy.

I am thinking about getting an IRIVER instead of my ipod and i was wondering what people thought of theres, as well as how many songs do they hold? and are they compatible with my already existant itunes library?

my friend has an iriver. he always has a few hours of music on it. so far i have no clue how compatible it may be.

My guy is mad at me because he thinks it's fun to be mad at me . This is totally not cool by my rules. What can I do?

THanks soooo much !

like, joke-type mad? if not, yeah just leave 'im.but if its fun.......no JK hehe.

Solemnstar

My mom workshift has changed, so she is no longer able to take me to school. So now I have to ride a bike to school. And I just feel so embarrased. People in the car when they drive by sometimes laugh and point. So I just want to know how does everyone else get to school. You know do you take the bus, ride, walk, bike, etc.

i only drive to school if its -40. winnipeg gets that cold.
or if im at my dads which is just a 5min drive. but to walk takes me 30 minutes. i dodle. otherwise i walk

would like to get thoughts of ex outa my head
i know he will be having a good time with other women and stay home sad

pizza and video games.in a closet. in the closet everythign goes away. jk basically do something you enjoy

i just edited a movie me and my friend made.. and i saved it and tried to upload it too bolt.. but it wouldnt work because its not saved under the right type. it needs to be of type .flv, .mov, .avi, .mpg or .wmv so how do i do this?? it only saves under one type at the moment

change the last letters in the file to change its type.
ok for EXP:

make a "paint" and save it. now find where you saved it to. it should say Untitled.bmp got o how to edit it.(i thinks its one click) and change th ".bmp" to .GIF and its changed. you may get a note saying that risks error or something.

ingnor it.

Solemnstar

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