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healing quick after breakup


Question Posted Thursday April 6 2006, 5:55 am

would like to get thoughts of ex outa my head
i know he will be having a good time with other women and stay home sad


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Vikki27 answered Thursday April 6 2006, 4:55 pm:
It always hurts to break up with someone you care about and unfortunately (much as we all want one) there's no absoloute cure.

However, my recommendation is almost always the same. Go out and buy a tub of the best, fattiest, most expensive ice cream (or other dessert) that you can find. Get a few weepy movies, your pj's and a BIG box of tissues.

Then lock yourself in your bedroom have two days of stuffing your face and bawling your eyes out about the whole thing. Get it out of your system. Write a letter to him, telling him how you feel (DON'T post it!!!) and then either burn it or rip it to pieces and throw it away. The point of all this is to get your emotions out in a confined space of time.

Once this is all done, draw a line under the whole thing. Resign yourself to spending no more tears of thoughts on the matter. Go out with some friends and try not to think about him. Laugh, smile - even though you might not feel like you can yet) and set your mind on meeting new guys. Trust me, there will be PLENTY out there waiting to meet you.

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Solemnstar answered Thursday April 6 2006, 12:56 pm:
pizza and video games.in a closet. in the closet everythign goes away. jk basically do something you enjoy

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babiigirl answered Thursday April 6 2006, 11:06 am:
Call up a few friends and ask them to bring you out for a good time because you are feeling kinda crappy. They'll understand and you will be able to think about something else other then your ex.

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Dominicangrl123 answered Thursday April 6 2006, 10:17 am:
In order for you to move on you should, find a boyfriend or a best friend for yourself....to get him out of your mind......the best way to move on is to find some one new

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