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talking to some one
I've been going through a lot the past couple month (serious knee injury, parents splitting up, gramma dying) and im gonna talk to my priest about it. I am very comfortable talking to him, but i dont know what to say. I can tell him how I feel .. but what will that do? idk im so confused, HELP ME<3
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I'm sorry things aren't the way they should be. Remember life is never easy, even on anyone. Anyway, you should first tell him the first thing that's bothering you, then the rest will come out like running water. Just tell him what you feel, all preist are here to help out others in the name of the lord and to help spread comfort in his place. Just take a couple of deep breaths and you'll be fine. Hope this helps
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sorry about everything that is going on with you, but i think that when you talk to your priest that things will just come naturely for you and that everything will be able to get out of your head while you are talking to him you'll just hink of more and more to say so i would'nt worry about it, hope this helps and god bless
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sorry about your grandma dying and parents splitting up i no its not nice to have to deal with almost all at once but if you feel you can talk to your priest then you should, he's not gonna care what you say or how you say it it's not gonna matter to him if you cant find a place tostart, just see him and see what comes out when you open your mouth.
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hey, well my parents split too. its very hard to go through. i think talking to a priest is a good idea. maybe i should have done that. anways whatever you tell him he cant repeat. so basically your secrets are safe with him. so go ahead and tell away! if you want someone to talk to send me a message in my inbox asking for my AIM s/n because i wont give it out here. cait♥
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Talking to someone about your feelings will help you, even if the listener carn't do anything exept listen. keeping feelings bottled up never helps and you'll feel better after talking even if nothing has really changed. Its important you talk to someone you can talk to openly and be totaly honest about how you feel, someone who you can trust. If that person is your preist thats great.With him being a priest I will say this though - you need an imparcial, open minded listner, so make sure thats what he is - not telling you the way things are or should be according to his religious belifes. If you need us, we're hear. Buy Buy just now. OWEN xx
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If you don't know where to begin, just start with what's actually happened. Telling him how you feel will "unbottle" your feelings and just generally relieve you of a lot of stress (if you're not used to telling people things, it sounds weird, but it does work).
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hey, if he cares, he wouldnt need you to start anywhere... if thats what you want.. if you trust him and he is your friend there is no need for a "start" on topics like this. just talk, even if it sounds stupic, talk
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