Ok, I miss this guy that I like, really badly. I haven't seen him in like almost three weeks because he hasn't been at church or anything. I don't have his phone number, AIM, or anything like that. What should I do? It's not like I can just go over to his house or anything like that. I could see him in a few days if he goes to the church stuff, but what if he's not there? What I am I supposed to do?
if hes not there then dont stress over it,...ask around and see if anyone you know at your church knows him...and if you dont have any luck with it then find someone else...i'm sure everything will work out...if its ment for you to see him then you will...remember everything happenes for a reason...I hope i helped, Good Luck -Nikki
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I like this guy, hes my friend, and I wanna know if he likes me back. I wanna kind of ask him out, but not REALLY ask him out.. Like i wanna give him hints and see if maybe he will ask me out or something. I'm afraid that if he finds out I like him or if I ask him out and he rejects me, then things will be akward between us and our friendship will be different. And I couldn't stand it if I wasn't able to talk to him afterwards. So how do I ask him out.. or give him hints.. in a VERY subtle way, so that if he doesn't like me, it will seem like I never liked him in the first place?
i would say to get one of your friends to ask him for you...then you wouldnt look stupid or anything and your friendship wouldnt get all weird and stuff...oh and hang out with him more! If you dont want a friend to ask him then get up the courage to ask him yourself...just say...Hey i was wondering if you like me and i dont want this to feel weird for you by me asking you this but i like you and i want to get to know you better or something like that...if your to shy to ask him then write it to him in a note...and if he says no then at least you would know how he feels and then you wont have to keep wondering and if he says no then find someone else...Good luck and i hope i helped...-Nikki
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'i'm being sexually harrassed by this guy i know, and so is every other girl in myclass except for two. His sexual harrassment is getting me in troubel with some of my teachers. It's cometothe point that i'm afarid to be alone with him because i'm afaird of what he'll do to me. He's grabbed by breast slappmy ass, rubbed on my crotch and other things. he's messedwith other girls in my class but he seems to dothst tome the most.Lately he's stop but i'm afarid he might start up and do it again. I tell him what he's doingis wrong but he doesn't care.Iused to think of himas my friend untill it all started.Now i don'tknow what to do.
tell your parents or someone who is over the school! dont let it keep happening or else you might end up being raped or killed so tell someone.
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Okay here's the deal I'm a freshman in high school. I know, I know ugh freshman. Anyway this's the deal I like a guy, and he's kind of a senior. He's taller than me and we... sort of get along. We argue about almost everything, I love it. Only thing, he has a girlfriend and there's a three year age difference. Now I know some of you are going to tell me to move on and try to find someone my age, but I really like him. =(
And I don't want to tell him I like him at least not yet, I love him and his friends, and I like his girlfriend too. So if I say something then they're all going to act ackwardly around me.
if he has a girlfriend then you should leave him alone and just be friends with him and find someone else who doesnt have a girlfriend. Alot of people really like someone but sometimes we cant have that special someone we like but we just gotta get over it and move on.-Nikki
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im thirteen and i was datin this fifteen yr old until i found out what an ass he was...he always tried to go down my pants and kiss me...so about two weeks ago i broke up wit him...i still went to his house and we r really good friends...after i broke up wit him i met his uncle who is 19...and i found that he likes me....then he called me and asked me out afta we got to kno each otha...(IM NOT GONNA DO ANYTHING WIT HIM BECAUSE I KNO THATS RAPE!!) i said yea so eva since we have been goin out...i luv him a wicked lot and he luvs me to but all my friends say i should dump him...i dont want to but my friend kayla gives the best advice and shes the main one who makes me feel like i should
>should i dump him or not?
thanx a bunch
your only 13...not even really old enough to have a boyfriend...no offence but he's 19 and your 13 thats not good and he will try to get in your pants more then the 15 year old would dont take what i'm saying the wrong way but hes to old for you and yes he could go to jail...and the only people who date younger girls is rapest...sry to be so harsh but its true. I was only 13 when i got raped and the guy was 19 so yes you should dump him...you shouldnt even be with him!
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I need a little advice here. The guy I like seems to always be too busy. I try to talk to him as much as i can, but I'm not sure if i get the point across that I like him. I have a suspision that he likes me back, but the one time I asked him if he liked me online, he wouldn't answer because he said we had to talk in person. Is this a good thing? And how do I tell him that I like him? Am i supposed to wait for him to make the first move?
Thanks to you if you answer..
i would make the first move and tell him that you like him...theres this guy i liked and he liked me as well i mean we was talking and getting to know eachother and then all of a sudden i lost contact with him...everytime i would call his grandma would say hes not here and the last time i called she said he moved out and i havent talked to him sence...he has my number and he knows where i live but hes proven to me that he doesnt like me i guess...and well i'll get to the point here...if the guy you like is to busy to talk to you then think of how it would be if you got in a relationship with him...you know...if you would be able to see him, spend time with him and everything like that and if he stays busy all the time then it would be hard for you to be in a reltionship with him...well i hope i helped you somehow...-Nikki
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well theres this guy that ive been dating for like the past 2 months or so and we both really like each other and we liked that we were dating but not officially b/f and g/f.. well ive decided that i like him enough to be with him but he says he still doesnt want a g/f and see im 14 and hes about to turn 18 ( tomorrow actually ) and about to graduate so i mean for one im jailbate or whatever you wanna call it and hes about to move on and i can kinda understand why he doesnt want a g/f but then at the same time he always says he doesnt care if i go on a date with another guy but whenever he even thinks i might like a diff guy he gets jealous and he calls me his baby and everyone associates us together so i dont know what to do -- ive talked to him about it before and hes just said he doesnt have the answers.. all he knows is that hes really grown to care for me and trust me but he isnt sure he wants a g/f right now.. what should i do? wait around or give up?
i would talk to him and tell him that he needs to stop playing mind games with you...and that hes either with you or hes not and if he says he doesnt wanna a g/f then just move on and find someone else...there are other guys out there just wateing to find someone who will care for them and treat them right so if and when you talk to him if you take my advice into consideration then if he wants to be with you then good luck to the both of you but if not then tell him you really like him and everything and you wanna be with him and he needs to tell you what he wants insted of playing mind games with you!...well i hope i helped!-Nikki
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okay .. well i joined the handbell choir at my church like last week .. and 3 people i know do it and then the teachers son is there and does it too..well i met him for the first time and i think he's so cute and like is my type .. i talked to him but i don't kno how to 'flirt' when i'''''''m trying to like do something for church .. so i was thinking of as my guy friend who is also in it to ask him what he thinks of me .. but i dunno how that will go over well .. so i was wondering if ne1 could help me in my situation .. thnx x0
i would get your guy friend to ask him and see what he thinks but tell your guy friend not to tell him that you wanna know...thats a good way or you could ask him yourself and get to know him and talk to him more and everything...i'm sure either one will be great!-Nikki
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I hate my life and myself. My parents love me and all, but all we do is fight. My friends and I are fighting, I'm not good enough for any boyz, and I'm always finding myself getting mad. I don't think i'm that ugly, and boys tell me I am. THey like the popular girlz. Please help me. What do I do with myself?
i hope you take this into consideration...ok...your just like i am to be totally honest with you...i mean i'm always negative about almost everything like the way i look but what people dont understand is they need to stop looking on the outside of people and get to know them and see whats in the inside...thats why so many people in this world are Haters because they are to judgemental...i mean everytime you think something negative about your life or something then think 3 positive things about your self and see if that helps...you could be a depressed person...i mean if you hate your life and yourself then you could have some kind of depression...i'm not trying to be harsh but i'm trying to give you an answer on what might could help you...talk to your parents about it and ask them if you could have a depression disorder or go to a doctor and talk to them about what you've been going through and see if they could give you some kind of med's for your anger...i hope i helped you in some way.-Nikki
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Gosh, how can I make myself STOP procrastinating??? I mean I've got it bad. I come home from school and don't even start my homework till' about ten at night or after. I get on the computer...eat...clean my room...shower...anything but do homework, and it's making my grades suffer. If I would just start studying for tests a few hours earlier, I would do so much better. Any tips?
i would say...whenever you get home dont worry about anything else...just try your hardest to do your homework...i know i know its boreing and everything but if you dont do your homework then you will end up failing...i hardly ever did my homework and i'm just like you are...i would get home...go to my room watch t.v. get online, talk on the phone or anything besides homework and it made me suffer as well...so the best advice i can give you is just try harder...dont worry about getting online or anything else untill you get your homework done...and you dont have to do you homework untill you get it all finished...but just take breaks...like set up a time to do it...like 30 mins homework and then 10 mins free time...try that and see if it works...hope i helped!-Nikki
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I have this one friend, but she gets really annoying sometimes. She'll talk on and on, and i never get a chance to say anything, and im not the quiet type. She always dominates the conversation, and is always being bossy. Most of my friends think she's annoying too, but i dont want her to have no friends, but also dont want to be her friend out of pitty. what can i do?
talk to her about it and tell her that you want to talk just as much as she does...and tell her that you hardly ever get to talk and if she takes it the wrong way then shes not a true friend to you...and if she bosses you around then shes not worth haveing your friendship...i'm sorry if this is being Harsh but its the truth...she should show the same amount of respect to you as you show to her...i hope i helped!-Nikki
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I have been friends with this guy since the end of October.. We talk a lot, and at first I didn't like him "that way" but every day I begin to like him more and more. He has told people that he doesn't know who he likes, or he likes 3 people and I'm at the top of the list. My friend told him that I like him (with my permission) and he sort of just blushed and wouldn't answer any of her questions. If I am at the top of his list, and he knows I like him, why doesn't he just ask me out? What should I say to him? Or should I just wait patiently for him to make a move? Thanks
either you can go and talk to him about it yourself and tell him how you feel or move on and find someone else...if not then wate for him...but if you decide to wate for him...and someone else has come along to sweep you off your feet then give the other guy a chance...thats the best advice i can give you...i hope i helped!....-Nikki
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Well..My ex boyfriend Daniel and I broke up about 3 months ago..we had dated for over a year. He broke up w/ me cause it was a 25 min. drive to come see me. Well I will always have feelings for him..but a month after we broke up after I could sob no longer.. I decided to move on to someone else cause I guess you could say A LOT of guys like me. So me and my new boyfriend Ben have been dating 2 months, and I`m happy with him. But now and then I still talk to Daniel at times. Like on Thanksgiving I called his house and wished his parents a happy thanksgiving and everything. The other night he called me out of no where just to talk about his day and how he still had feelings for me, but the story there is.. he is dating someone too. When I first found out I was so upset but I`m okay w/ it now. Its like everytime I talk to him I want to date him again even though I know that won`t happen. Should I just stay with my current boyfriend which I do care for a lot, or just break up and wait for him?
if i were you then i would stay with the current boyfriend because if Daniel broke up with you once because of the 25 min ride to go see you then he might do it again.....if you really care about Ben then stay with him...thats the best advice i can give is to just stay with Ben.
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my best friend has been wit her boy 4 3 months...they say they love each other..and hes really trying to get her to have sex...and well she says she wants to..i dont think shes ready..but i mean, its her decision..she wants 2 use 2 condoms! for extra protection of gettin pregnant!..please help!
well the best advice i can give you is to just talk to your friend...if they havent been together for that long then they shouldnt have sex but i mean its her and she might not listen to you but just give her the best advice you can and tell her that haveing sex isnt a good thing untill your married and if your married befor you have sex then you'll know that the guy wont leave you...theres all kinds of STD's out there and condoms break...even if you had 2 condoms on at once it doesnt matter theres still a chance of her getting pregnant...so just talk to your friend. I hope my advice helped!
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Back in August I missed the registration date to go back to school. (I should be a junior in high school.) I was pretty much just having a bad year and didn't care about going back so I've been out of school all this year. I was wondering if I could go back now or if I would have to wait until next year to go back. I could make up the work that I've missed instead of just waiting until next year and being a whole year behind.
I was homeschooled for almost 2 years and i just started getting homeschooled again because the school i went to lets just say i hated it...so i decided to get homeschooled and being homeschooled is very fun...i mean u can do whatever you want and you only have to do homeschooling for 4 hours a day instead of sitting in school for 8 hours but i would think whatever fits you best...if you got homeschooled you can get through with school faster then you would in a high school....or if you want to go back to school then just go to your school and tell them...they have to let you go back to school but if you dont finish by the time your 20 something then you have to drop out...but thats my advice...i hope it helped you somehow.
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im 18 i have a son and im still with his dad but we fight alot the problem is i have a crush on this guy i grew up with he has a kid too and brings his son to my moms daycare i know he likes me but he has a girlfreind they fight sometimes , i want to tell him how i fell but i think that would be tottaly out of place and wrong what do u think ? thanks
i think you should do what ever you think is best...think about your son and if this other guy would be there for him and think about how it would be if you and this other guy got together...think about your son befor makeing any sudden moves u know...and if i were going through what your going through then i would talk to the guy and tell him how i felt and ask him if he felt the same, i hope i helped and i hope everything works out for you!
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my dog died...and i am having trouble getting over her death...what should i do?
its hard to get over a death...theres really nothing you can do but just know that he or she is in heaven with god and just know that your dogs watching over you and that hes still in your heart...and just know he or she is happy because he or she is in heaven and you will see him again someday...you'll always miss your dog...the first dog i ever had got put to sleep from my brothers grandma cause she doesnt like me which i'm not gonna talk about that but...it took me a while to get over my dog...and i miss him and think about him alot but theres nothing i can do but know that hes in my heart and so i hope this advice helps you in some way if not at all.
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Well, My parents bicker and fight about things that they shouldn't. My dad is being a real prick and my step mom ends up in tears. It pisses me off why he has to be a real ass, but I am always told to "mind my own business" or to "shut-up". I get very stressed out and I hate it! It pisses me the F*** off and I have no say in anything that goes on. So, this is the part where you throw advice my way :-/
just tell your parents that they need to stop fighting all the time and if they tell you to shut up or stay out of it then say no...i wont stay out of it because i'm sick of seeing and hearing yall fight all the d*** time and see if that works.
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I'm going into my second semester of college and I live in a dorm with two bedrooms where I have one roommate and two suite mates. All four of us became very close and have had a good first semester. Unfortunately, my roommate is now moving out to go to a different school and I will be having my friend move in with me next semester. My friend I have known for 18 years and we have had many fights and many good times. Over first semester, my long time friend and I have had our discrepencies even when we didn't live together and my suite mate has heard me talk about it all so she thinks she already has an idea on what type of person my friend is. Although I had previously asked my suite mate if she cares that my friend will be moving in and she said no, she now says she doesn't think she can live with her because they won't "get along". The problem is, my friend has already moved her things in and there is no turning back. I just don't think my suite mate has even given my friend a chance so I would like to know what I can to do help solve this situation and make sure we all have a great second semester. Thanks so much!
just let your suite mate know that your friend is a great person to get along with and that she should just give your friend a chance befor she judges the situation...tell her that if she doesnt give your friend a chance then no it wont work out...tell her that they should get to know eachother and hang out and get to know eachother.
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hey I need help. I'm 13 and my friend likes this guy I like and we were best buds now I hate her. She thinks she should be the only one to have a boyfriend and she thinks i'm to shy to talk to him. HELP!!! ps i'm a girl LOL
that sounds just like the girl i USE to be friends with...i liked someone and even though she had a boyfriend it seemed like she didnt want me to be happy and got mad everytime i would date someone...and say that she liked him...sounds like shes not a very good friend...talk to her and tell her how you feel and that she needs to be happy for you...if the guy likes you and not her then she shouldnt stand in your way.
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