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me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 9 months now and we havent had sex... it'll be 9 months on Jan.9th, and i was over his house yesterday when his parents werent home and he tryed to have sex with me, which he does all the time, and he got pretty far until i said no because his little sister was home and i didnt want her 2 walk in on us... but anyways getting to my point, should i have sex with him? plz help me im so confused, and i really dont no what i want to do either... oh just so you know im not a virgin either... and neither is he.
Love always,
*Court~* (link)
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Well, I personally think that anytime you have to ask the question~should i have sex with him? that you are probably not ready. Don't let him pressure you, do it when you're ready!
*hope I helped!*
~Miss Emmy Boo~
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What are some really good movies to watch with friends..im 14/F?? Thanks (link)
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Some awesome movies to watch with your friends are:
*Mean Girls*
*A Cinderella Story*
*Thirteen Going on Thirty*
*Thirteen*
*Big Momma's House*
*Sweet Home Alabama*
*Dirty Dancing*
*Glitter*
*Freaky Friday*
*The Banger Sisters*
~Hope I helped!~
>Emmy Boo
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im a 15/f see its like this all of my friends are all really fast i mean to tell the truth i kind of am fast too but i mean i havent lost my virginity yet but most of them have so yeah i dont know what to do like they kind of like leave me out of conversations and stuff and i think that i am ready to do it but i dont know what age you should be?? (link)
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Honey, do not let your friends pressure you into having sex! Wait for the right time and do it when you're ready! I would say an appropriate age is like 17 or 18! Trust me, you have the rest of your life for stuff like this, and you'll regret it later if you do it now.
*Hope I helped!*
~Miss Emmy Boo~
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hi i asked...
im always sad inside , but no body knows cosz i dont show it... how can i get the emptiness in my heart to go away... signed , confused and lonely.
well i no whats bothering me inside.. its that my X boyfriend has gone out with at least 4 of my best friends.. and now hes going out with my closest one .. lets call her shelly - i think hes just using shelly but i really really still like him and i think im crazy for dumping him =\ i dont no how to tell him this .. can you PLEASE give me as much advice as possible..
signed , lonely - again . (link)
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Well, sweetheart, there's a million boys out there! :) But since you like this dude so much, wait til him and your best friend break up, then just say it, or you could write him a note. Tell him you're sorry for dumping him and you don't know what you were thinking, and just tell him exactly how you feel.>>>Hope I helped
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i'm a total pimplehead and i have been for a long time.. like.. um.. since grade 5 i think.. i'm in grade8 now.. i've been using these cleanser things they're getting kinda better but i keep on breaking out.. any tips?? *omg i'm so embaressed asking this.. i need help!!* (link)
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Well for starters you can go to a dermotologist. They can prescribe you something that REALLY works. But for now, use a cleanser with micro-beads and ALwaYs use your hands to wash your face, never use a washcloth or whatever.
**Good Luck!!!**
~Miss Emmy Boo~
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well me and my boyfriend have been together 9 months now and everything is great i guess we hang out alot and everything and the first 4 months of our relationship we just talked on the phone alot and hung out a little now we hang out more and were talking on the phoen the same but its kinda like everytime we get on the phone we sit and listen to eachother breath!!! he complains about it alot but i just cant think of anything to talk to him about! i mean i love him alot and i dont want things to end but is this soposto be telling me somthing? do you have anything to tell me? talk topics? anything? (link)
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Well you can talk about TV, Skool, Movies, Video games, whatever ya'll have in common! If it still doesn't help then you could call him on three-way with a friend :)
/*/Hope I helped\*\
\*\Emmy Boo!!!!!/*/
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i have a puppy she is about 5 months old and my mom is very alergic to her .. she is now living in teh gaage bcz my mom almost died ! we wanan give her away to a family taht loves her but dont know who my question is .. how could i let ppl know about my dog ??? thank u soo0o much and p.s she is a girl if that helps
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OK well you could tell your freinds/family and tell them to spread the word or whatever. Or you could put an ad in the newspaper! ExAmPLe:
5 month old dalmation for sale
trained, needs a good home!
*Hope I helped!*
~Emmy~
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ok so i am 13 years old and i have been since november 16. I am really self concious about my breasts because like all my friends are a size A and i dont even think if i am a size AA (i've never tried one though) I mean when you read this you might think that i actually have breasts but they are small. But i acutally really dont. I have only 2 small like bumps when i look at myself in the mirror. and when i look at myself from the side in a mirror it is literally flat. nothing sticking out. And i have had my period since July. please help! (link)
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You still hvae time to grow!! A lot of people at my school are flat-chested! It's nothing to worry about! But for the time being you can wear a padded bra if you want!
*HoPe I hELpEd!*
-HaPpY HoLiDaYs!-
*EmMy BoO!*
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Ok, well, let me start off by saying i'm a 7th grade girl. Today at lunch this kid named derek passed me a note and said it was from my friend brian. I took one of my girl freinds, tara, to the bathrooom and read the note. It was really orny and soft....it read, "Roses are read, Violets are blue, sugar is sweet, and so are you......will you go out with me?". My friend tara started cracking up while i was numb and shocked from the note. I threw it in the trash and ignored brian the whole day. Now, me being quite popular (not rele popular, but popular as in knoing everyone in our grade and tlk to them and hang) and brian being shy and non-social. It's really weird and almost gross that he asked me out.....i rele don't know how to tell him that i don't want to go out with him at all so that he on't get embarrased and i won't get embarrased. Pleask tell me what i can write to him so he on't get hurt.
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Well, I don't think popularity should really matter, but since you don't like him just tell him that you aren't ready for a committment right now and you'd much rather keep him as a friend. Be gentle, and do it when you two are alone.
*HaPpY HoLiDaYs!!*
-Hope I helped!!-
*Miss Emmy*
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okay theres this guy that likes me.. and i used to like him. I sit with him evryday at lunch. Hes so controlling. I cant stand it anymore. All my friends say i should ask him out or he should ask me but i cant stand him anymore.!! Seriously. He really bugs me!! i turn my cell phone off just so i dont have to talk to him at night. He asks whats wrong with my phone, i tell him i couldnt talk anyways or that my older sister was using my phone and it went dead. That was true Wednesday Night tho. Yesterday in the note he rote me.. he told me.. "Dotn make any plans for Saturday night. We're doing something. What we're doing i dont know.. but"
See i cant put up with that anymore.
What can i do?
Please help me...
Christine (link)
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Just straight up tell him to back off. Say, "We can be friends, but I really need some space and some time alone, OK?" If he keeps up, then just ignore him, and keep your cell off!
*Good Luck!*
-*-HaPpY HoLiDaYs!-*-
~!~Emster Boo~!~
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ok me and this girl are pretty good friends i mean we've done sleepovers movies went to a bat mitzvah together and went trick or treatin together!! well shes jewish and im not well newayz she recently sent out her invatations.... but im not invited! i mean i thought we were friends after all of that but i guess not! i almost cried but i didnt because i found out at school! but newayz ya! and when i ask her about it she just acts like she doesnt hear me or anything! it makes me so mad bc she invited people she barely knows and then she doesnt invite me! what shud i do! (link)
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There are two possible reasons that I can think of that this is happening for:
A)She could be upset at you about something you did.
...OR...
B)She could not be a "true friend" and is just rude or whatever!
My suggestion is talk to her at school, call her or e-mail her or whatever but try to find out her reason for doing this. If there is none, then ditch her she's not a true friend!
*Hope I helped!*
((HaPpY HoLiDaYs!))
*Emmy Boo*
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Dear advice people givers (lol),
I got my heart broken recently. Last Sunday to be exact. We'll call him Jason. Jason and I have been going out for a week and 4 days. We known each other for a couple of months and have been aquainted. Jason and I got in a fight the day before we broke up. He was on the phone with me and I told him my personal life and I began to cry too and he threw it in my face saying all this mean stuff. It left me so mad at him. You can't even imagine. Well on the 11th (next day) day he calls and he was all like "Hey what are you doing?" and I said "I am at my house.." I said it with an attitude because I was mad at him. Then he was like "I think we should just be friends..." I just hung up the phone. I have no idea why he broke up with me... I could not talk to him, I didn't want to. Then like 15min later he calls my cell on his friends phone and when I answer he hangs up! I was so mad and so sad. I know boys lie but somehow they make you believe their lie, He said I was the best thing that has ever happened to him and he loved me soo much and he wanted this realationship to last forever. Well...I believed it. I haven't talked to him since we broke up (dec. 5) and for some reason I really want to call him and talk but then again I think I don't want to but then I really do...do i make sense? But then my best friend told me the weirdest thing, she said that when we started hanging out as just friends, that he thought I was a ho or a slut (i wasn't supposed to know). And 1st of all I do not dress or act like one because, yo, I am the farest from being a slut and dude, he wouldn't have gone out with me if that was all that he was looking for. Because he knows me...everything almost. Should I call him? I really miss him...a lot. But he hasn't called me, not even once. I don't want to call him and feel like an idiot...srry 4 it being so long :)
Thanks :) (link)
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I want to give you part of a speech that my older, mature friend gave me: All guys between the ages of 14 and 25 are LIARS and ASSHOLES and maybe just wanna git in your pants! But guys are assholes! But you were kind of wrong in this situation because you neer gave this guy a real chance to explain! But he is an asshole and just get over him!
*Good luck hun!*
...*Merry Christmas!*...
>>Emmy Boo
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well every year i have a choice if i want to go to tennessee for christmas to visit my family. its my one chance to go 2 states away.... to get away from all my problems and to really just think. but i would be gone for 2 weeks, including christmas and new years. the problem is.... i dont want to leave my boyfriend. i love him and i have never spent new years eve with a guy and i want to spend it with him. i want to start out the new year with him. hes having a new years eve party too...and his family is having a christmas eve party and everyone brings their gfs and bfs and he wants me to go, but i cant if im in tennessee. i cant choose to go or stay. he is telling me to go so i can think and have time to myself and get away from all my problems for a while. but i would miss him SOOOO much and i dont know if i should go or stay.... what should i do? (link)
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Guys come and go, but family is forever! From the way your question sounds you are probably pretty young and you have plenty of time for guys! What if you never saw your family again? GO WITH YOUR FAMILY! You said it yourself-he is telling me to go so i can think and have time to myself and get away from all my problems for a while.
*Hope you have a great time wherever you are at ChRiStMaS!*
~*~MeRrY ChRiStMaS!!~*~ :)
-Hope I helped!-
*Emmy*
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Me and my best friend were having such a good time, going out away from our children together and then her b'friend goes and gets jealous. Jealous of me, like I'm competition for him or something...I'm not unless she's looking for a lesbian relationship, jesus christ!! So now she feels like she can't talk to me, she even hung up on me tonight!!!!! She said her b'friend doesn't want her to dress up or put on makeup when she goes out...WITH ME!!! He's so controlling that she can't even go out with her g'friends?? That's sick!! I miss my friend!! What do I do?? Nothing? Let her be retarded?? HELP!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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This guy is very controlling is right! She needs to get rid of him! Call someone and tell them about this if it continues! It's not right for him to do that at all. He is very controlling and abusive! GET HER SOME HELP!
*Hope I helped!*
-Emily-
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Me and my best friend liked the same guy, so I decided to back off of him so she could have him. He started liking her, then she told him she didn't want a boyfriend. Tonight at a b-ball game I hung out with him alot and he started liking me and then at halftime my friend came up to me and said "Damn, Andy looks hott tonight" and so I was like..crap. I don't want her to be mad at my, but I like this guy and he likes me, but I don't want it to like mess with our friendship. Its not like I'm going to go out with him right away, I want to get to know him and all....but what should I do? (link)
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*I think that if you really like this dude-then you should go for him! You said it yourself-He started liking her, then she told him she didn't want a boyfriend. So just go for him! :)*
*Hope I helped!*
((EmStEr!))
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Okay....I've liked this guy for almost 3 months, we don't even go out and I had sex with him. I know that's bad but I let all the influence get to me. Well that same day, him and his friends was playin on my cell, and when me and my friend was walkin home, I was looking through my phone and his phone #'s were gone, so I my friend called his cell, and he gave us his "supposed" house number....well my friend called it the other day the number was wrong. I was sooo mad. Plus he told his friends what happened between us now they think they gonna get some from me and their not. It's like he used me for sex but he says he didn't. I like him for the better side of him cause I know it's there. But I'm a good person and most pplz say that he's not worth me, but it's always been hard for me to get a boyfriend. So I don't wether or not I should try to stick with him or not.... (link)
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You sooo totally need to lose this guy! Just take a moment and think about what he did to you!! LOSE HIM!
*Hope I helped!*
-Em-
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I am having my 17th birthday party in like a week or so and I was wondering if anyone had any good ideas for games, thing to do, etc. Here are something that might help I want the party theme to be pink and silver and the guys can wear red and grey, I have a pool table, big living room. Any ideas will help or you can tell me something about one of your good partys and I can get an idea from that? thanks and there is another problem how can I tell my mom to stay upstairs since guys are going to be there I don't know if she will trust me and I don't want her to be there cause I mean I am going to be 17 she should be able to trust me and I know that everyone will feel really uncomfortable if my mom keeps watching or checking up on us so what can I say to her ? Help and if u have any other idea, anything for a good party tell me please thanks again. (link)
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*Games and stuff to do*
-Spotlight!
-Spin the bottle!
-Poor Pussy
-Seven minutes in Heaven
*What to tell your mom*
I think that you should tell her the same things you told ADVICENATORS! :)
***Hope I helped!***
-Emily-
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ok my friend forgot her password to her login(she has a windows XP) is there anyway she can get it because she was the admiastiraor adn the rest of her family was jsut the limtied accout if you could tell me it would help alot thanks (link)
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When you first begin to use *Advicenators* they send you an e-mail with the password in it!
-Hope I helped!-
*Emily!*
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pleaz help me, i dont no how much it hurts to get you belly button pirced! pleaz help me... i rate high! (link)
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It doesn't hurt to get it done. It is very quick and not really painful! But what really hurts is afterwards! And it hurts really bad if you haven't waited long enough to get the bar in, but you try to get itt in anyways!
-Hope I helped! Good Luck!-
*Emmy Boo*
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ok i need ur help on something my boyfriend asked me to marry him and im only 17 bout to be 18 an im a girl but i like him and all and im preg. with his baby i just dont know what to do because if i do my dad isn't going to want anything to do with me anymore and if i dont then my dad will still alow me to be in my family but my dad doesn't like him and i dont know why not he is a sweet heart and i love him with all of my heart and everytime i go out with someone my dad never likes them and i dont see why not because he hasn't even got to meet my boyfriend yet he has meet him once and that is to only say hi but please i dont know what to do can you please help me out a little i would really appriciate that
Tosha (link)
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If you really love this boy then you should go ahead and marry him, regardless of what your father says. It seems like he really hasn't even given this dude a chance and probably doesn't even know him that well. Marry him if you truly do love him no matter what! :)
-HoPe I hELpEd!-
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