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well every year i have a choice if i want to go to tennessee for christmas to visit my family. its my one chance to go 2 states away.... to get away from all my problems and to really just think. but i would be gone for 2 weeks, including christmas and new years. the problem is.... i dont want to leave my boyfriend. i love him and i have never spent new years eve with a guy and i want to spend it with him. i want to start out the new year with him. hes having a new years eve party too...and his family is having a christmas eve party and everyone brings their gfs and bfs and he wants me to go, but i cant if im in tennessee. i cant choose to go or stay. he is telling me to go so i can think and have time to myself and get away from all my problems for a while. but i would miss him SOOOO much and i dont know if i should go or stay.... what should i do?
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alright hate to break it to you but he isnt going to be around forever you know. family is far more important then comes friends then goes your loved ones.. and im assuming your young. And plus its a time to get away from your probs. you said. Just talk to your bf and see what he says. IM sorri if i seem rude.. Just honesty helps. Have fun and make a good choice
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wow this is a very tough desision for you, but i would say go with the family you dont get much away time and christmas is about family and togetherness and also how jeusus was born but thats another story now i no this might seem like a big deal staying with your bf and i no it is but you might regret going with the fam. so do what your heart says choose what you feel is right.
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well why don't you ask him if he can go to your christmas party instead of you having to go to his?
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if you have been doing this for years, i dont think a boyfriend would stop you. i know that you love him and you would miss him dearly, but its nice to spend time with family that you only see once a year ya know? and your boyfriend seems to understand that to say that you should go. so i hope you make the right decision. x0
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I think you should go on the trip.After all it is tradition.You could always call your boyfriend while your there if you have time and when you get back from the trip you can plan a day so just you and your boyfriend can hang out together!Hope this helped
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Maybe you could go to Tennessee for one week instead of 2.. you'd miss your bf's Christmas party, but you'd get to see your family for part of the holidays, and you'd be back in time for New Years... I don't know if that will work for you but I hope I helped a little!
~Lana
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I think you should stay. It gives you time to be with your boyfriend, and if your family's in tennesee, then you will most likely have more time alone. and it keeps your bf from cheating, cuz it sounds like he might, or y else would he want you 2 go away? unless he's the really nice, sweet kind.
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i think you should stick with the tradition and go down to tennessee. you can have a good time. bring a picture of your bf if you start to miss him and remember that you are there to have a good time. before you know it you'll be back with your guy again. you two can make different arrangements to be together, and you still would have gotten to see your family. =)
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you cant have ppl make YOUR decision but what i can say is if you really love your boyfriend and you want to be with him then id say stay but if you wanna see your family and get away from your problems then go! i know this is a tough decision and i hate making decisions like these. Talk to your family and explain the situation and say since its your first time over the holidays with a boyfriend that you really want to spend time with him or you could just go to tenessee for christmas and come back the day before new years eve. so that way you make every1 happy. but its totally up to you! good luck!
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Guys come and go, but family is forever! From the way your question sounds you are probably pretty young and you have plenty of time for guys! What if you never saw your family again? GO WITH YOUR FAMILY! You said it yourself-he is telling me to go so i can think and have time to myself and get away from all my problems for a while.
*Hope you have a great time wherever you are at ChRiStMaS!*
~*~MeRrY ChRiStMaS!!~*~ :)
-Hope I helped!-
*Emmy*
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Well since you always go to Tennessee every year, why don't you stay and be with your boyfriend? I know what I'm about to say is probably going to offend you, but this is your only chance because your relationship MAY be done after the new year! You are lucky because your boyfriend is telling you to go see your family and that's so sweet of him and you should respect that! Why don't you talk this over with your family and see what they think about this! Hope I helped! I hope I didn't offend you with any of this because I didn't :)
-Karen
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