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hey my name is Joanna. I've been through a lot and I can probably relate to a lot of the things you need help with. I hope you can trust me. Even, if you just want to talk to someone then you can e-mail me or instant message me. I hope I can help you with anything you need help with or if you just need a friend.
I love giving advice. A little about me well i like music, i love music actually.I write my own songs. I also write poetry and books. I am a huge photography lover and i take photography classes. I am a Christian. I have a lot of friends who i give advice to and it always seems to help them so i hope it helps you too.




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Also, for people giving advice, don't tell people what they want to hear just to get higher ratings. They asked for your help and opinion so be honest no matter what!

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What Does "Rip Music" Mean? Just Wondering and what can you do with it?

it means u copy music from a cd onto ur music library

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Hi, my name is Aaron and I'm from Irvington. I'm a religious person. Can someone tell me how to get a Christian girlfriend and make it last a long time?

i'm a christian too...i don't have a boyfriend so i'm not exactly sure how you could get a girlfriend, but you could probably find one at church (if you go), you can never guarantee whether anything is going to last or not..but eventually you will find someone..i think church is the best way to find someone or is the same religon as you..look for a girl who shares the same interests as you..if you wanna talk you can instant message me NotARandomSN13 or e-mail me wannabenormal14@yahoo.com ...hope i helped

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I am completely confused about what I am. In regards to religion. I know i am christian, but I know nothing about it. I have never read the bible..and I know that most of the stuff in it I don't truly believe. And does God look down upon me for choosing not to believe parts of the bible?

i'm a christian too and i would be lying if i told u i read the bible...every once in a while i read it..but not very often..i go to a christian school so mostly i just read it during bible class..if you want to know more about it i think you should ask your parents or maybe a friend who knows about it..or you could instant message me NotARandomSN13 or e-mail me wannabenormal14@yahoo.com ...and no, God does not look down on you for not believing somethings in the bible..he doesn't look down on anyone..there are some things i don't believe..or agree with..hope i helped..bye

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Lately, I have had no purpose. I don't join after school activities and I don't really like to do many things outside of school. I just saw this movie saved and it got me thinking about thing. I never really was that into religion. I mean my family never went to church and we basically never practiced. I just want to start being a better person and starting up things to help others. Does anyone have anyideas?

you could volunteer in a nursing home..i do it and i love it..plus it would look good on your college application..as for religon...no one can tell u what to believe...my suggestion is maybe you should look into christianity..i'm a christian..i'm not saying your suddenly going to feel fulfilled and happy...but in times of trouble it's good to have someone who can help you when your friends can't ( by this i mean God)...but it is your choice..hope i helped..bye

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hey i'm a guy. this girl i know is starting to scare me. we used to talk about everything and always have a blast, but a few months ago we started to talk less. i noticed she wasn't as active as she was before, and asked her about it. just as it seemed to be, she told me she was depressed and didn't like the kind of life she was living. she went on about all the bad things in her life with family, school, friends, herself, etc. i tried to point out good things to her, but she always came back at me with something to disprove it. after not talking for a week or so, she said she just wanted to end her life and to get away from everything. i didn't take this too serious at first, but lately she hasn't been eating, barely talks, and hasn't been looking too healthy. if she is thinking about suicide, what should i do? i asked her about it and she didn't want to talk. should i tell her parents? please help

wow...i've been in that same situation many times..i've even been the one that had the suicidal thoughts....honestly i wouldn't tell her parents..when my friends told me parents it only made things much worse..i don't have suicidal thoughts anymore...because i talk to my friends about it..it's the best way...so yea just talk to her about it and tell her how much you care about her and you don't want to lose her...when my friends had suicidal thoughts, me and some of my other friends talked to her..now she doesn't have suicidal thoughts anymore...so you should definatly talk to her

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I need to get my upper lip waxed... but the thing is, what happens if you get it waxed a couple of times and then you stop waxing it? Will it grow back even worst? I DO NOT want to just leave it. If waxing isn't that good of an idea, what other options do I have to make it unnoticeable?

see the thing is a lot of people say it'll grow back thicker and all that..but really it doesn't...it's just that when u shave it or wax it u don't see the hair for a while so when it grows back it looks like it's worse...anyway..i think shaving is the best way to go...it's quick, painless, and easy to do on a daily basis

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I was recently dumped by my boyfriend on my birthday. it was so painful but i dont know how to get over him its been about 2 or 3 weeks now since we broke up but i cant stop thinking about him. I always catch myself listening to songs that are similiar to are break up. People are always telling me to get over him but its hard when you loved some one. You cant just forget what happened. I always look back on are first kiss at my party. Somtimes i even cry my self to sleep. Well the worst part was we were the best of friends before we went out and now that we broke up were always arguing and im always getting jeoulose becuase he already likes other girls and he is always talking about them on the phone. But i mean cant give away are friendship its been to long of being friends to just throw it away. well what should i do to get over this its so painfull! (i am 13 and a girl)

hmm....it's hard to get over people that you loved, but your 13. they will be plenty of other guys. So don't worry about it. About the being friends thing..it's awesome that you want to stay friends with him. I know it's hard, but you should just talk to him one on one about it and talk to him about how u don't want anything to change and you want to go back to the way things were. I hope i helped. If you need to talk you can instant message me NotARandomSn13 bye

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i feel so ugly... no guys like me, all my friends have b/f's. i even thought i was ugly before. i stayed up until 3;30 last night crying my eyes out because i knew i was ugly... im crying typing this . i feel like im never ever going to be pretty... i dont really even want to live but i wouldn't kill myself cuz thats eww... i just keep realizing how ugly i really am... and then i keep crying. all i do is get made fun of and called ugly i dont want to be ugly.. please help

well...u sound axactly like me,except i did try to kill myself.People can be mean and i took it way to hard. I cut and i became very suicidal. I don't cut anymore and i'm no longer suicidal. I still feel ugly but i do not get as depressed over it. you ahve to learn that when people make fun of you they do it because they want to make themselves feel better. All that really matters is what's on the inside. That's really cliche and i'ms ure you've heard it before, but it's true. I am the only one is my group of friends without a bf too, but it doesn't matter.You don't need a boyfriend. just forget what people say. It doesn't matter what they think. IF you ever wanna talk u can instant message me. NotARandomSN13 bye

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ok, so my geometry teacher resigned right before exams and she said she would do anything to help me pass. But guess wat. i didnt. i fail the semester and the exam. I am screwed. i am not gonna be able to get in to a college with my grades. and my PSAT scores SUCKED ASS. I need help PLEASE!!!!

Well that is a problem i had in math. I had really bad grades but i asked my parents for help and i stayed after school gettin help from my teacher. Just ask for help. I feel your pain. I hate geometry. I hope your grades get better. I'm sorry this advice isn't that good but i tried. i hope i helped.
*meetmyyimshi13*

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I've liked this one guy I've known since we were 5 for about 11 months. He's only known since June, and rejected me flat out. I know that there's not chance for anything between us...but idk...I keep holding on. My friend a few days ago suggested that I might be in love with him. And I'd never given the subject a thought, but now that I am, I'm even considering it. Is it possible for me to actually be in love with this guy that is absolutely perfect for me? And if I am, how do I come to admit it or let him know without confessing my feelings straight out to him? Please let me know what I should do...

-Hopelessly In Love-

well tell him you need to talk to him then say you need him to know something say that you like him more than u thought and ask him how he feels about it

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I'm a 13/f and I have 2 very good friends. They both like the same guy. This one guy happens to be one of my very good friends and we talk on AIM all the time. I always saw him as just a friend but now I'm starting to really like him and people keep telling me that he likes me. I want to be honest with my friends but they like him and they want him to like them. What should I do?

i am sorta in the same situation except my friends brother is datin my friend and they both kno i like them i think you need to tell ur friedns they wil inderstand if they are ture friends, I did when my friend told me she was datin teh guy i like, so you should definetly tell them cause they might get mad a you if they find out about it and you were lying do them, if they are good friedns they will understand

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There is this boy who's a good friend of mine. I am not sure if I "like" him but he's really cool and we have alot in common. The other day, one of his friends came up to me and told me that the boy I kinda like likes me. I don't know whether to believe him or not. He seems kind of trustworthy and the guy really seems to be dropping hints he likes me but would a relationship ruin our friendship?

well sometimes relationships do ruin friendships but if you talked to him about it and maybe in the beginning you say that if it doesn't work out you will stay friends and take the relationship slow in teh beginning and see where you go from there

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I have a crush on my best friend thats a guy! He doesn't know but I don't know how to tell him and I know he doesn't like me like that...But how should I tell him I like him? I RATE HIGH AND GIVE GOOD COMMENTS!

well listen i like a guy too and all of my friedns told me to tell him and i did and know i feel a lot better so i think u should tell him.
hope it works out

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this is kinda long beware

hey 15.f.cali here

ok i have a few questions and i am in need of some insight... Well i like this guy and he is so flirty and we are friends and we have been for about 4 years and now we hangout alot and talk alot and we have all the same friends and what not and he knows i like him cuz he asked me in a note (we have 2 classes together and he sits next to me) and i said well you but i dont want anything to change if you dont feel the same way. ok and so after i said that he wrote we need to hangout more. and everyday almost he tells me i looke really cute and tells his friends im so hott and because they ar my friends too then tell me...we have so much fun together and i think we would make such a cute couple cuz we are both open minded people and we are into the same things... my question is what do i do? like a few of my friends are like he is shy when it comes to that so ask him out. but i am too and i could never do that. whats a girl to do???

muha thaks
Lisa

wow it is like you copied off of something i wrote except he doesn't go to my school i see him once sometimes 2 or 3 times a week but we have like a lot of the same friednds too uhh wow io am not sure what to say actually i am talkin to him this week when i see him about how i feel and stuff and what is gonna happen next so i can only say talk to him that is what i am doin and it seems to work

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Umm... I have relatively straight hair. Like there is a tiny lil bit of wave in there, but it's straight for the most part. AND IT IS REALLY THICK. Is it possible for me to scrunch? And how do I do it? What gel to I use? Im just askin cuz i get bored of wearin my hair the same way all the time, since its hard to style cuz of how thick it is. Thanks.

same the like only style i can do is straghten it my hair isn't curly it is just like wavy but it is so thick it gets so notty i someone manage to get it i ponytails and braids and buns i don't use gel so sry

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my boy friend has been ubducted by the new game halo 2...he is obsessed! how can i get him back???

my friend joe is obsessed with that game to i have nvr played it so i don't know how cool it is but wow i have no idea what to say uhh yell at him tell him that is he likes a game more than you he needs to get a life and figure out his priorities

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There's this guy at my school that I really like, I'm friends with him and everything. I've asked him out a few times but he said he'll think about it, then he ends up saying no because he thinks I'll use him to make my old boyfriend jealous. I try to tell him I won't, and he stil says no.

He's friends with pretty much everyone. He's the nicest guy ever. He's cute, and he's just...awesome. I don't get to see him that much so I can't like let him see how I act...so he doesn't know my...way of...YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN, very much. So he's like clueless to how I act. You know?

So my question is, how the heck can I just get him to like me? I mean, if he just kinda sorta likes me i'd be fine, even if we don't go out. Just help me...PWEASE.

I really wanna know how. Please help! Sorry this was so long. ^-^;

wow i kinda can't help casue there is a guy i love so much but i guess just wait and see what ahppens if you guys are meant to date u'll date but if not ur'll find someone else sry that is kinda all i got

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For a school dance I'm the music person...one problem I dont know what to play. Its a highschool dance for like the winter and stuff and one of the songs they asked me to get goes like "and in the end its right I hope you had the time of your life." but I dont know who sings it...ahhh what do i do...please help!

*no style*

omg i love that song but i can't remeber who sings it either sry find songs thatv you like and play them i go to private school and it sux ass so we don't have dances but i do love musik just play what ya kno

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Sorry this ones loge but i need help

I'm in a really big social group at school and my 2 neighbors r in it. ive know them since i've moved in and we became really good friend. when school started 1 of my neighbors bff was at my school. right away we hated each other and i don't no why. about a week ago my neighbors and the bff started a book that no one was aloud to see. it really pissed me off and made me realize that every one i surrond my self with are a bunch of backstabing, secret telling liars. i got in to a big fight with 1 of my neighbors and iots sort of resolved but after that was over the bff wrote me a note calling me a poser and a tramp and talking shit about my bf. i was soo pissed off. now i don't want to hang out w/any off them but there like the only people i no.

p.s. me other friend feels the same

if they talk shit bout you they they ain't someone you should give a damn about if you don't like someone don't be friedns with them even if they are the only ones you know you can always make new friends but you don't want friedns that treat you like shit

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See, my sister and I we both like this guy right?! Well this guy has a girlfriend. But he took my sister to the store today and he was all saying how he likes her and he wants to kiss her and stuff. And I think that is wrong, he has a girlfriend. He also told her that he's afraid to be without a girlfriend and that he is only with his girlfriend because of that and he wants to date my sister but he is afraid of rejection. And this guy knows I like him. I mean, I don't like him majorly. But it's enough to make me weak in the knees, ya know. And I mean I know I'm jealous here. But they rub it in my face and I don't want to tell her that so is there anyway else I could cope with this situation without being sad or crying. My sister keeps taking everything from me. She took my friend too. I mean I still have my friend but she hardly will talk to me now.. Ah, please help.

omg that is excatly what happened to me with this guy ecxpect instead of my sister it was my friend i love him more than anything but i guess this is not the best thing for me to give you advice on cause well i am always sad and cry almost everyday but i don't stop there i also have this self mutilation problem and the thing that really helps me is talkin to my friends about it people that won't judge me and will just be there to listen friends can help with any problem

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