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Am I in Love?
I've liked this one guy I've known since we were 5 for about 11 months. He's only known since June, and rejected me flat out. I know that there's not chance for anything between us...but idk...I keep holding on. My friend a few days ago suggested that I might be in love with him. And I'd never given the subject a thought, but now that I am, I'm even considering it. Is it possible for me to actually be in love with this guy that is absolutely perfect for me? And if I am, how do I come to admit it or let him know without confessing my feelings straight out to him? Please let me know what I should do...
-Hopelessly In Love-
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well are you guys friends? i mean i dont see how you can b in love w/ sum1 if you guys dont even talk..i mean you may think you guys are perfect for each other but its hard to tell..but if your really shure..talk to him about like how you feel and tell him like if you guys can give it a try..i mean it may work yah never no. just tell him tht it doesnt have to mean a whole lot..just to see if you guys like actually being together..hope i helpedd..
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I'm sorry, but I think you neeed to move on. It'll prolly take a while but he doesn't like you. I wouldn't recomend telling him you love him, unless later it seems like he was beginning to like you if that makes sense.
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well everyone has there own definition about 'love' ... i personally can relate, i was in love, well ok i thought i was in love with this guy, i was like obsessed with him, lol, but he didnt like me like that. i probably liked him for about 9months, that was last year. this year, me and him are good friends, and i dont like him like that. i think to myself now a days and wonder what did i ever see in him? i can totally relate to you, my friends would be like get over him already and stuff, but even though he didn't like me, i still liked him. i though he was my love, but it takes time. love never disappears, so if you catch youself thinking about him day and night, and if you've liked him over a year, i'd say you're in love. guys sometimes, well some guys get all weird when they hear about love, i wouldn't mention anything just yet, wait another month or too to see if you feel the same. hope i helped babe! good luck, tell me how it goes !! if you need more help leave drop one in my inbox! * xo-angie *
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you should really talk to him. the worst thing you can do is hide it from him. thats awful, when everyone knows you like him...except him. so just let it all out, whats the worst that could happen? hope i helped ~*stefanie
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welllllll i think i'm experiencing something sorta like that......... although i'm not sure... it may be a crush but anyways i think that you should maybe hint that you like him this much. otherwise you can start in the lets be friends stage and see where it goes from there.if you find out you guys dont have any common ground then you know if it wasn't meant to be. if you guys have a lot of common ground then see if you can take it to the next level.now dont move to fast he may think you just want to get close to him any way you can. so try that i hoped i helped!
~Faythe
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The way I see it, when you find that perfect someone, they will feel the same way about you that you do about them. Maybe though, this guy doesn't know you well enough. Try to just be his friend and maybe that will work. I deffinetly wouldn't jump to love. Love is a great, scary, exciting, incredible, heart-jumping-out-of-your-chest, head-over-heals feeling. You'll probobly not experience love for a long time and neither would I. But of course, its okay to crush and date. Sorry I couldn't help more!
xOx Emmz
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well tell him you need to talk to him then say you need him to know something say that you like him more than u thought and ask him how he feels about it
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it is very possible for you to be in love, but if you hadn't considered it before you're friend mentioned it, then it's doubtful. since you've known this guy almost you're whole life, it's likely that you guys are very compatible because you've grown up together and know each other very well. chances are you are just very infatuated with him, and in a little it will probably start to go away. if in fact you are in love with him, you will be pretty certain of it after a little while. there's no way of knowing for sure, but if you think it's a big possiblity, and you really want to be with him, you might need to let him know how you feel. but then again, you did say that he rejected you flat out already. so it's really up to you if you want to put yourself out there again, and risk being shot down again. there really isn't a way for you to tell him how you feel without telling him straight out. but if you really really like this guy, and are willing to put yourself out there again, then i'd say go for it, and talk to him and maybe you can work something out. i hope this helped! and let me know what happens! best of luck
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If you do love him, do NOT tell him you do. That will freak him out and he probably wont talk to you. You need to move on since you know he doesnt like you. Find new guys..it'll take a while but you'll be over him and in love with someone else.
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