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How do i get over him?????
I was recently dumped by my boyfriend on my birthday. it was so painful but i dont know how to get over him its been about 2 or 3 weeks now since we broke up but i cant stop thinking about him. I always catch myself listening to songs that are similiar to are break up. People are always telling me to get over him but its hard when you loved some one. You cant just forget what happened. I always look back on are first kiss at my party. Somtimes i even cry my self to sleep. Well the worst part was we were the best of friends before we went out and now that we broke up were always arguing and im always getting jeoulose becuase he already likes other girls and he is always talking about them on the phone. But i mean cant give away are friendship its been to long of being friends to just throw it away. well what should i do to get over this its so painfull! (i am 13 and a girl)
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The thing is that you can't really get over anyone that you've loved. I know how you feel because I've been through almost the same situation except we never talk that much anymore.I know it sad but don't let that happen to you. Be friends with him and just be happy that you actually have him in your life. Hope I helped.
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i pretty much is impossible to get over someone you went with. but the sy goes,:the best way to get over someone is to get is to get under someone". meaning,go find your self another man.you cant stay in a sulk forever.live
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Getting over him isn't going to be easy. It will probably be a couple more weeks before you get over him. But ways to make it seem quicker is by seperating yourself from him for awhile. Don't necessarily avoid him, but don't seek him out either. And being mad and getting into fights with him is natural. And just ignore your friends you keep saying to get over him because it seems to me like you know that you need to get over him, it just takes time and can be hard. Just stick out and tell off all the people you tell you to get over him if you really don't want to yet. Oh, and becoming friends with him agian my take awhile, but just give it time and if he still wants to be friends it will workout, you'll see.
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hmm....it's hard to get over people that you loved, but your 13. they will be plenty of other guys. So don't worry about it. About the being friends thing..it's awesome that you want to stay friends with him. I know it's hard, but you should just talk to him one on one about it and talk to him about how u don't want anything to change and you want to go back to the way things were. I hope i helped. If you need to talk you can instant message me NotARandomSn13 bye
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Well first off, I'm really sorry this happened to you... especially on your birthday. Second, there is absolutaly no easy way to go through, trust me it's happened enough to me a fair amount of times. The best way to get your mind off of him is to hang out a lot with your girlfriends. Maybe have a girls night out and go shopping at the mall and scope out some more hot guys. That's always fun. Then, while your talking to him on the phone just calming ask him to hold back on his talk of other girls he likes. Tell him how it's still hard for you and you can't really take all that at one time. It has only been a couple of weeks. And whether you believe it or not, it will get a lot better. Give it time. I promise. Good luck!
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