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I hate my social click
Sorry this ones loge but i need help
I'm in a really big social group at school and my 2 neighbors r in it. ive know them since i've moved in and we became really good friend. when school started 1 of my neighbors bff was at my school. right away we hated each other and i don't no why. about a week ago my neighbors and the bff started a book that no one was aloud to see. it really pissed me off and made me realize that every one i surrond my self with are a bunch of backstabing, secret telling liars. i got in to a big fight with 1 of my neighbors and iots sort of resolved but after that was over the bff wrote me a note calling me a poser and a tramp and talking shit about my bf. i was soo pissed off. now i don't want to hang out w/any off them but there like the only people i no.
p.s. me other friend feels the same
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That is really wrong of them to call you that. Start getting to know people you dont usually hang out with. Maybe join a new club or something. If theres a new student in your class be the first one to talk to them so they know your welcomeing. Theres a new girl in my class and we are like totally becomeing great friends.
Hope I helped!
~Brina~
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If they treat you like shit you shouldn't be friends with them anyways. Get involved with something you like, like an after school activity, thats always a good way to meet people at your school and make friends with them. But try talking to ur old friends first its always good to know u have someone to lean on.
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if they talk shit bout you they they ain't someone you should give a damn about if you don't like someone don't be friedns with them even if they are the only ones you know you can always make new friends but you don't want friedns that treat you like shit
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ditch that little hoe that called you a poser. you dont need someone that like who bring negitive engery into your life. just tell her that you dont wanna be friends with her anymore and just leave her because she was going to do it some time or later. or if you still wanna be friends with her..tell her sorry for everything you said. hope i helped! mauuhh
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then hangout with your boy toy and good friend and try to do something new to make more friends so then you are not subjected to the shit you get with the other girls
muha,
Lisa
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* wel mol babe i guess we r just gonna have too walk around in the mornings and u dont need to change ur schedule now* and that was a pretty bitchy thing she did and she'll get over it * well love ya lots gg
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Maybe you should spend some time with your other friends with out your neighbors. THis will give them a chance to cool down and you a chance to get to know them better. Also, branch out, start a conversation with someone different in class or see if there is a club that you might want to join. Even if a few of your friends join with you it will get you to talk to more people on maybe some "other" friends to hang out with when this group gets tough and you need a brake. Hope I helped!
~*~Naomi~*~
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Did they get the idea from mean girls? just wondering
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i think u and ur other friends should hang out more often instead of ur neighbors. i think that if they wanna b like that let them but dont let them giv u ne b/s. tell ur bff that u were reli hurt by her letter n that u styll wanna b freinds w/ her ( if u do ) other than that...def start hanging out w/ ppl u like more!
briana
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Sounds like the movie Mean Girls, eh? Well I've gotta say, that does sound like the typical 'popular group'. I know first hand what that's like. All I can say is that you can't ditch that group fast enough! You might be a loner for a week, but if your a good friend, then you should make friends fast. Maybe try switching styles gradually? Punk? Goth? Jock? Or just be yourself. Everyone loves that... Just tell her best friend that she can **** herself and that you are way better off without her and her back-stabbing loser friends. If that doesn't work... play dirty... everything she does to you do to her times a thousand. Or just ignore her and hang out with your boyfriend. Either way you can't just stand back and take that shit from her.
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