There's this guy at my school that I really like, I'm friends with him and everything. I've asked him out a few times but he said he'll think about it, then he ends up saying no because he thinks I'll use him to make my old boyfriend jealous. I try to tell him I won't, and he stil says no.
He's friends with pretty much everyone. He's the nicest guy ever. He's cute, and he's just...awesome. I don't get to see him that much so I can't like let him see how I act...so he doesn't know my...way of...YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN, very much. So he's like clueless to how I act. You know?
So my question is, how the heck can I just get him to like me? I mean, if he just kinda sorta likes me i'd be fine, even if we don't go out. Just help me...PWEASE.
I really wanna know how. Please help! Sorry this was so long. ^-^;
sh0rtiiex0x answered Saturday November 13 2004, 12:52 pm: i would say...get your booty next to him at all times. (not literally). just like..say he has football practice, then go hang there! go to his faveorite coffee shop (or w/e) and just 'happen' to be there. and talk to him! and..yeah. good luck! [ sh0rtiiex0x's advice column | Ask sh0rtiiex0x A Question ]
Meetmyyimshi13 answered Friday November 12 2004, 11:55 pm: wow i kinda can't help casue there is a guy i love so much but i guess just wait and see what ahppens if you guys are meant to date u'll date but if not ur'll find someone else sry that is kinda all i got [ Meetmyyimshi13's advice column | Ask Meetmyyimshi13 A Question ]
~*Annie*~ answered Friday November 12 2004, 7:27 pm: Just invite a bunch of people over to watch a movie or something and casually invite him too (make sure he's not the only boy there, that'd be awkward). You can invite your ex boyfriend over too if you are still friends and then you can flirt a little with him, or you can exclude your ex boyfriend if you two aren't friends. Anyway casually invite your crush and say he can bring some of his friends with him. Anyway, don't overflirt with him. Continue being nice to him, but distance yourself some more. Maybe your crush is not interested in you and he is giving clues i.e. saying that you are going to use him if you two become an item. Sorry sweety, this will be a tough time, but you will have to let go about it. Tell him that you just want to be friends and leave it at that. Good luck! :) [ ~*Annie*~'s advice column | Ask ~*Annie*~ A Question ]
MedicatedSanity answered Friday November 12 2004, 7:24 pm: well if he's a nice guy... just cool off the subject for a little while. Become better friends with him, hang out more, be yourself, and gain his trust. Give him subtle hints and flirt a little. Then after a little bit of that... ask him out. Be honest, tell him exactly what you told me just don't freak him out by saying "i love you please go out with me" cuz that's kinda stalkerish. Just don't stress over it and if that doesn't work... he probably doesn't like you like that. [ MedicatedSanity's advice column | Ask MedicatedSanity A Question ]
xSammieXlubsXux answered Friday November 12 2004, 6:00 pm: In a way i think that you should just move on if this is they way he feels. I mean, your kind of saying that he doesnt know the real you and stuff. If you like him so much then act like yourself. I think that he would like that. If that doesnt work out than there are other guys out there for you.
Sherry answered Friday November 12 2004, 5:14 pm: I agree with SnakeEyes. I think its an excuse to turn you down easily. Just let it go and find new guys! Good luck. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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